Profiles....and honesty  

Blacat10
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54F
592 posts
11/6/2005 1:03 pm

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Profiles....and honesty


I just came across a BC gal's profile that as much as being brutally honest, was actually quite derogatory about her own body and the status of her now, very big pussy! WOW...I didn't know how I first felt when I read it...it was a mixture of repulsion...certainly turned me off, and yet if this is a real person and not some cyber wanker, her honesty was incredible! I applaud her for that. And I wonder if she gets many comments to that effect...or responses to her profile, for being so damned honest!
I keep hearing and reading how so many people are meeting others only to discover that they are truly not what they say/describe in their profiles...and I'm not talking how they describe themselves...but saying their cock is 8.5inches hard...and it barely reaches 6 at it's most aroused spurting point! Or, hiding they fact they are in a committed relationship or even better yet! it's the hubby writing all the information and posing behind the wife!
I was even told of a local couple where they have several different profiles and she's not that much of a willng partner. Add to that, he's got small-man complex, talks in derogatory terms about her (not so on the profile) and general bad mouths and degrades women! When people meet them, she can't even look the others in the eye and he's just a little bully! and yet, no one speaks up about his behaviour and falsehood behind the profiles...why is that?
If you read a profile and meet the person and they are the opposite of what they portray...not only should you say something to that person, but something needs to be said either in Blogs, groups etc. On the opposite hand, if you meet someone and they are almost everything, if not all, that they protray on their profiles...say so! thank them!
If we had more honesty for connections on the internet, there wouldn't be as many people feeling disappointed about the whole process!

bigfurrybear 43M

11/6/2005 2:42 pm

Well said. Thank you for putting this out there. I couldn't agree with you more. Fortunately I have only met two of these types: One I blogged about and used her handle, the other, as far as I can tell, is no longer on AdultFriendFinder. I often wonder what these people think is going to happen when they actually meet someone and their bullshit is exposed.


rm_pickynlookin 44

11/6/2005 3:09 pm

This was such a great blog! I was thinking along similiar lines! Good for you for writing it!


2pieglue 45M

11/10/2005 12:07 am

I agree. But. I think a lot of people have a hard time talking about themselves. Its possible that people aren't just lying to the internet public but themselves. It pays to do a little homework on the person, find out if they are real, make sure they are willing to share be open and honest about themselves before ever taking a chance. I met one person here and found her to be real, but I have been disapointed on other internet dates. I have learned to accept it and keep my expectations grounded. Its a bummer when someone lies, it really doesn't do anyone any good.

AdultFriendFinder has picture voting. How about a truthful voting.


rm_hyperbrit2 78M

11/18/2005 12:29 pm

I played "cover your ass" for awhile and lied about my age(posted what people say I look like rather than the truth)so"was'up w'that?" Just more fear stuff when I took a look at it and risked(it worked out).I'm going to change it now on my profile.


rm_susieqpalmer 52F
2 posts
4/4/2008 1:22 pm

my name is susieqpalmer i am looking for a women in williamsport pa who would like to have some fun with me and my man. i aim to please please contact me on AdultFriendFinder.


rm_susieqpalmer 52F
2 posts
4/4/2008 1:23 pm

my name is susieqpalmer i am looking for women in williamsport pa who would like to have some fun with me and my man. i aim to please please contact me on AdultFriendFinder.


rm_boracay90 58M
2 posts
6/8/2008 1:27 pm

A forum such as this allows people to be who and what they wish they were rather than what they really are! It's an outlet for insecurity, albeit through drastic measures. There are alot of lonely people out there.....they are just trying to connect or at least entertain themselves in
the process.


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