Whoring it up  

Bigreekbabe 55M/45F
15 posts
2/16/2006 12:57 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Whoring it up

Well my first post on the advice column here and I've been labeled a whore while my husband has been labeled a pimp. I think that's a pretty healthy start to my active participation on this site.

I guess the old addage is true, sometimes the truth does hurt. Maybe I am a whore for the things I've done in the past. I've always accepted the fact that I'm a slut simply because of my apparent insatiable appetite for sex. Though I've rarely been called a whore before, and even then normally only during the passion of sex, which is kind of a turn on for me.

It's surprising how judgemental people can be with such little information. Though I suppose I invited such ridicule upon myself for opening up. In asking for peoples take on a the subject of sex for rewards, I hardly anticipated a lashing against me for doing so in the past.

It's certainly set the tone for how I approach my interactions in the future. I can see I won't be making too many friends with my "checkered" past. I'm curious to see if I can find anyone on here I can get along with. Other than those who, depsite their protests to the contrary, want to use me for sex like most men have throughout my life. Not that there's anything wrong with that, provided it's consensual. I just can't stand hipocrisy, and it appears to run rampant on these forums.

sideline1968 49F

2/16/2006 2:21 pm

I red your post on the 'rant' section of the mag. Sorry to hear that they gave you such a rough time of it. I think though that you will find the 'blog' section a bit easier. I think that the problem is that most women do not want to look at themselves as 'whores'. We don't often care to think that we are 'putting out' in order to get something or because we have already gotten something in return. What do you think the reaction would have been, if you had rephrased the question/comment to indicate that men were 'Johns'? Do you think you would have been hit with the same scorn? Sorry -- I started to ramble ---

Good luck with the site.


rm_acman52 68M
450 posts
2/16/2006 2:44 pm

Hello Babe....not even knowing you i do not think of you as a whore, but of someone that loves passion and love someone that loves passion. So maybe i can get to know you and we can share our passion's

longtermlover56 61M

2/16/2006 6:49 pm

Hi Bigreekbabe. I guess I must be a whore too since I love sex also. Can't get enough of it actually. Let me just say that with your beautiful body it is great that you let others see it all the time. I would surely love the opportunity to be one of the viewers.

ADryMartini 51M

2/17/2006 9:03 am

I'm sorry that your first advice post got such a negitive reaction. I don't think that most of the people that posted really understood what you were trying to say, unfortunatly.

Please don't judge the whole community from the few @$$holes that seem to get some perverse pleasure from belittling others. I can honestly say that I took a grain of wisdom from your post, so, that makes it all worth while.

rm_ImNotRoss 48M

2/22/2006 12:31 pm

It is amazing to me still how people can be so judgemental on this SITE! No one has any business calling you anything, especially when you are doing nothing but express yourself. Always remember that those that must call other people names generally are projecting their own inadequacies onto an undeserving target. Do your own thing and damn those that can't stand to see you have a good time.

WoodyDiaryKepis 63M
99 posts
2/22/2006 12:34 pm

Well, it takes all kinds, they say. I've been on this site for a year, and met some fabulous people. Unfortunately, just like in the real world, some people take things 'way too seriously, and many are quick to judge.

Just live, and enjoy the gifts Nature's given you.

"Nature always favors the hidden fault. "- (Murphy's Third Law)

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