Day 4 on AFF  

BigDnMO 47M
61 posts
6/19/2006 2:07 pm

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7/14/2006 12:09 pm

Day 4 on AFF

OK, granted there are millions of faces (among other parts) to peruse on AdultFriendFinder, but, I'm here to tell you, the majority of people on here are in it for themselves. There are 3 women whom I'd like to know based soley on description alone, and yet, try and contact and you get nada. That in and of itself is ok, but, for courtesy sake can we not be a polite society and at least respond?
Thats one thing a bar has on this stuff, at least in a bar you can get told to f%&k off to your face. I'm just really tired of people who have no couth.
There are maybe 3 ladies whom I would really be interested in talking with to see if there isn't, perhaps, a nugget of commonality. If you read this and are one I've "winked" at then you know I speak of you. Ok I'm rambling and kinda pissy.
Check back tomorrow and I'll be better.

yogagrrl 49

6/19/2006 4:38 pm

Don't waste your time here, it's like finding the diamond in the ruff. It's possible to meet someone but you'll have to supper patient. I gave up my gold membership after six months of nothing but BS from men. I cannot read profiles anymore being a standard member nor can I receive mail. That's okay because I do better on my own in the real world meeting men.

I blog here from time to time but this site is not what it claims to be. Save your money and buy a pretty girl a drink next time you visit your local pub or wine bar.

sassy1296 52F

6/19/2006 7:39 pm

I hardly ever check my winks... so for some women it is not avoiding you deliberately but may be an oversight

angelofmercy5 60F
17881 posts
6/19/2006 7:41 pm

Welcome to the blogs! I guess I'm guilty of not reading my email here either. And I rarely look at the winks. I think your best bet is to wander through the and comment on other people's blogs....and post on your own. Good luck.

rm_Icewomin 48F
610 posts
7/14/2006 11:34 am

i do check my email first i thought it more polite to respond to every one and speak the truth...until this little exchange:

me: i'm sorry we haven't been able to meet up...and in the meantime i've met someone i'm really enjoying. i've had fun emailing back and forth with you, though, and i wish you luck!

him: whatever

and then...some weeks later:

him: are you still mad at me?

me: did you offend me in some way, or give me reason to be angry with you?

him: we were going to get together...things didn't work out.

me: i remember you now! it went like this: (insert string from above, ending with 'whatever.') i'm still having fun with the person i mentioned before, but i wish you luck!

him: so...are you available?

and some weeks later:

him: if you cum over right now, i'll tie you up, yank your panties down, and spank you while i fuck you from behind.


and i haven't heard from him since.

so now i don't respond to emails. i still feel rude for not responding, but i'll continue doing so.

BigDnMO 47M

7/14/2006 12:09 pm

ok, well to my untrained eye, it seems dude was a moron. ok my eye aint so untrained, i can spot a moron from a mile away, however, he was on the extreme end of what i'm talking about. an introductory note not responded to is a bit rude wouldnt you agree? if for no other reason than to say no. just my opinion. i suppose i expect too much out of people. silly me

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