How Long is Too Long.....  

Beckoning_BBW 40F
6/6/2006 9:10 pm
How Long is Too Long.....

Gee that title could have meant like 100 things eh LOL

So I met this guy on Thursday, we went for icecream and it was decent.

We decided I would call him later that night. I did, he was sleeping not a big deal.

He called me Friday, during work and apologizes for not calling back, by the time he woke up it was late. Again, fine, not a big deal. I explained to him what I was doing that night, would he like to join us etc. etc. He wasn't sure, told him I would call him in a couple of hours. I did that, he didnt asnwer. Okay fine again, I mean it IS possible he isnt near his phone or is busy right....
I call him about an hour and a bit later to say this is where we are, this is the cell number, give a call.

Okay so it is now coming on Wednesday.....he hasn't called back at all from the original call on Friday.

UGH, either he is busy and can't call....
or just doesnt want to....

which is fine, it just doesnt explain the phone call Friday to say sorry for not calling me Thursday. Maybe inviting him out Friday was a bit much.

Ah well, I just wish guys would tell me what they really want or mean.

I am a big girl.....I can take it....


Have a great rest of the night, be good

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Looking4sex44240 55F

6/6/2006 9:29 pm

I've had guys do the samething, I just wonder why they can't be honest if there not interested.

ArgosPlumyKooky 46F
3902 posts
6/6/2006 9:44 pm

that is a big drag

wpgfunman 42M
74 posts
6/6/2006 10:01 pm

I don't know why he does that. I will admit in the past I handled situations with women where I just wouldn't call back, and I admit it wasn't the best way to handle it. To be fair, women have done it to me too.

Now, I have had to tell a couple of women that I just am not interested and I was surprised that they took it alot better than I first thought. Now I would just say I am no longer interested (and explain why if I knew).

I guess overall, he may not want to hurt your feelings.

Or lets face it, maybe he is just a prick and didn't care enough about you to let you know his feelings.

rm_livenow1972 46M
24 posts
6/7/2006 2:18 pm

write him off lot's of fish out there
don't take it to hart

vrec_dawn 41M

6/7/2006 3:58 pm

Honesty? Next thing you'll expect guys to be intelligent, or caring.

Okay, so we're not all that bad. And I don't get why people aren't more honest. It's not nice to do that.

But I suppose you could think nice thoughts. Maybe he was just hit by a Mack truck and is now hospitalized?

Beckoning_BBW 40F
2017 posts
6/7/2006 10:22 pm

Vrec...LOVE it when you pop make me laugh out loud...
no really.



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