To be fat, or not to be fat, that is the question?  

BeautifulAsset 49F
24 posts
2/13/2006 12:42 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

To be fat, or not to be fat, that is the question?

I'd like feedback from men and woman. Ideally, my size is 14. Right now I am a size 18. It is larger than what I like, regardless of what anyone else likes. The glamour shots I had done as a size 18.

Yes, I am big. My butt is the biggest part of me. I am not so big that I can not fit in a regular size bathtub, or in one seat on a plane.

I got into a debate on line with a man who left his wife because she blew-up to a huge size 18/20 after having children. Now if she went from a size 4 to an 18/20 I guess he should have been supprised or disappointed.

But you know what. Bottom line is. If she had cancer and only weighed 90 lbs, would he have left her then because her physical body was no longer his ideal? I told him he should really search his own motivations before trying to get involved with another beautiful lady just becuse of her looks.

Life is not perfect, and neither are people.

papyrina 52F
21133 posts
2/13/2006 1:17 pm

i like my men thin or just slightly over weight,my hubby put on 30 kilos after we married and i'm sorry to say it grossed me out,yep we had other problems but not fancying him at all didn't help,i told him to lose weight or else,he did bless him,now he looks good,feels good in him self and so much healthier.
if you feel good and healthy then be comfortable in your self

I'm a

i'm here to stay

sextherapy2000 56M
32 posts
2/13/2006 1:39 pm

stay at the size that makes you look great wish i could see more pics of you

saddletrampsk 55F

2/13/2006 2:16 pm

Good post..

up4itnow 44M

5/16/2006 2:33 pm

hi there, from an average bloke's point of view and its from discussions me and my mates have, yes 14 is ideal, women need curves. these models that are plastered everywhere in magazines and on billboards and buses are unachievable, good eye candy, but mostly i'd be too scared that i might get a bit frisky and break their skinny body in half. i like women btwn sizes 14 and 18, so do most of my mates, they are also better lovers. from experience they are more attentive and willing to experiment tha some tiny girl who relys on her body to pick up. love the pics, and like sextherapy2000 said.... as long as you're happy with yourself is all that matters really. keep up the awesome blog babe.

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