Orgasms, and Orgasms, and Orgasms, oh, my...!  

BaronessK 53F
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7/21/2006 7:37 am

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Orgasms, and Orgasms, and Orgasms, oh, my...!


The emailer asking about my first oral experience also wondered about what I quoted to him on the matter of orgasms. There was a poll a while back asking which of the three {3} orgasms did females prefer the most, with a request to explain {if we could} what each type felt like along with differentiating each one from the other. I told him {Div} that I couldn't vote since with vaginal, clitoral, and G-Spot...he left out anal, cervical, and U-Spot. Keep in mind that all women are different, of course, and they all react differently to different stimulus {and at different times, with different partners, etcetera}.

I like which ever one I'm about to have the best. Okay, seriously {well, different serious! } -- it still depends...because the U-Spot one will cause me to try to snap the guy's hand or neck {depending on what he's 'using'} once orgasm starts peaking; he better be done at this point, because *I* am rolling over {if I have the energy} and going to sleep. I just want to 'huddle' {not necessarily cuddle} until the shivering type sensations go away.

Vaginal ones are great, of course, because I can go multi-orgasmic with those {peaking, subsiding to some degree, then peaking again, and so on}. These are centered, don't radiate as far outward from the walls of the vagina although there are sensations in the clitoral region and other parts of the 'spider web'; it's that the sensations aren't as 'hard' so there is no 'final overload' to the sensory part of my brain or body in general.

Clitoral orgasms are more intense, for me, than vaginal ones; they are 'harder', but no where near as intensely hard as the U-Spot or G-Spot ones. These are more or less centered right in the clitoral region, although of course my muscles contract elsewhere. These take more time to recover from, as in from wanting more contact to my body than vaginal ones.

G-Spot orgasms are almost if not as intense as U-Spot orgasms {for me}, but they are naturally more centered in that region {the g-spot, the vaginal walls, etcetera}. G-Spot {and U-Spot} stimulation is the most likely to produce the 'squirting' effect {which is NOT 'peeing'!}, although all of them should produce 'gushing' or at the very least a copious amount of lubrication {yes, even anal stimulation because of vaginal muscle contractions along with those of the anal region}. These take more time to 'get over' than even clitoral orgasms, and 'rank' for me with the U-Spot orgasms.

The G-spot is simply an area of increased sensitivity in women. It was named after the German Dr. Grafenberg, who wrote about "an erotic zone located on the anterior {upper front} wall of the vagina along the course of the urethra that would swell during sexual stimulation". This area is usually only able to be found when it is already stimulated to some degree, and is embryonically the 'same' as the area that continues developing in the male embryo as the prostrate. {That shows me the explanation of why the U-spot orgasm is so strong in me.}

The G-Spot cannot possibly live up to all the hype; it is simply one more place to stimulate in some women...because while all women have a G-Spot, all women have varying reactions from those like mine down to actually disliking the sensation. The G-Spot is located along the upper front wall of the vagina, about two inches in towards the stomach. While usually the best or better positions are NOT on our back, to try self-manipulation that would be the easiest position then. Inserting a finger into your vaginal canal and gently stroking the front wall behind the pubic bone {about two inches up}, you should feel a patch of skin with a different texture from the rest {slightly rough or 'ruffled'}.

Using a 'come here' motion, press into the center of this ruffled patch until you feel an area sensitive to pressure. That is the G-Spot, which is also known as your Urethal Sponge; it is on the other side of your vaginal wall. Because of all that, you will probably respond more to pressure than light stroking. The area, starting out approximately in the size of a pea, can enlarge to walnut size when stimulated. Many women, as in U-Spot stimulation, may feel as if they have to pee; this is due to the fact that as that area enlarges in stimulation that it presses on the same nerves that signal a full bladder. However, most women also find that as stimulation continues the urge to urinate goes away and is replaced with more and higher pleasurable sensations.

I have found the U-Spot orgasm is a nerve-shattering orgasm, and quite 'final' and overpowering. It uses the entire 'spider web' of nerve endings in the female vaginal area. It radiates throughout the entire body but with 'point zero' 'exploding' the vaginal area. It basically causes a shutdown of my body and mind at that point.

The U-spot is located between the clit and the vaginal opening; it is actually the same opening that women urinate through. However, this is the part of the source of 'squirting' {and, again, has NOTHING to do with peeing!}. U stands for urethal; the woman will probably feel as if she needs to pee {in the beginning of trying to learn this}. Take a bathroom break and start again; later she will learn/know the difference. It is important to apply only light/lighter pressure by hand {but can be harder by tongue} to not cause pain/painful reactions.

The U-Spot and G-Spot orgasms are basically linked to the same source of arousal, but the first is more easily gotten to {and requires less pressure, etcetera}, while the second is more easily found {compared to the Urethal area} by others.

Anal orgasms bring into play the contracting muscles in the anal region but also the vaginal walls as well. In me, they are at least as intense as a vaginal orgasm, just 'different' because of...well, the main direct point{s} of stimulation. These have the same recovery time for me as vaginal, maybe a bit less even. There is also the very great possibility that anal sex causes stimulation indirectly or even perhaps directly to the G-Spot/U-Spot areas because of the angle. That also applies to positioning of the male penis when inserted, of course {as well as if the male has a 'curve', in relation to our positioning, and so on}.

As for cervical orgasms, they border on painful {for me}; I prefer a male not mess with that area at all because I am very sensitive to all sorts of stimulation {and that feels uncomfortable and could be considered painful, especially when my cervix is getting directly hit or whatever}. I 'group' this with 'cramps', NOT 'orgasm'!.

I would say, for me only of course, that the cul-de-sac area helps {and is possibly linked to cervical stimulation, indirectly, so in that way it would be okay/arousing...suction and all that, you understand, along with the penile pushing into the wall of the 'spider web' at it's deepest}. The cul-de-sac is the area{s} on either side of the cervix, and it has 'give' to it. This area could also be stimulating in certain ways to the G- and U-Spot areas, of course.

In my case at least, I can be entrenched in pleasure but still be aware of what is doing what and where and all. If I don't know my body, how is anyone else expected to know it, especially to a good or better degree? It is because I am involved on that level that the entire experience is ingrained in my mind. There are 'toys' out there specifically made to find and/or enhance stimulation directly to such areas as the 'spots', but as for myself I have never had any interest in any type of sexual toys being used on me. {Although I've seen the Symbian in action...and, okay, it's interesting, very much so...ride 'em, cowgirl! ...BUT I have always held the firm belief that repeated stimulation via those types of vibrations would eventually cause a desensitizing of the entire vagina, 'spider web' of nerves, and so forth.}

Different moods {because sex is the primary sexual organ, regardless of its primal nature} cause different levels of arousal as do different points of stimulation and different positions. Different positions is a whole subject to itself, basically. There are also combinations {where there is actually more than one type of orgasm} or where one type may be the start of the arousal but end in a different orgasm for different reasons.

Then again, I can orgasm with no contact toward me at all, because of muscular contractions {Kegel, basically} that I do automatically during oral {giving not receiving in this case} as I get aroused. That is what I refer to as the 'no hands/mental/boobie/blowjob {giver} orgasm'! There is some type of contact most likely with the breast nerves {nipples rubbing against legs and/or hair, etcetera}, probably, but overall I am not being stimulated physically in the usual sense/way {directly, very directly, etcetera}.
Addendum: I forgot to mention a different orgasm -- the breast/nipple orgasm. This is attained in much the same way, by contractions of the vaginal muscles and so on, without other contact...except for breast/nipple stimulation in some way. I won't go into more detail on that type except to say...they are gooood! }

OTOH {on the other hand...no pun intended}, merely talking about orgasms is {of course} NOT the same in any shape, form, nor fashion as having one. I am 'torn' between wanting to feel a male between one set of lips and the other!

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rm_anacortes 75M
2850 posts
7/21/2006 12:47 pm

I find the above very "educational".. I hope many readers benefit from this post of yours.

Thanks..


OldHippy1957 61M

7/21/2006 1:54 pm

I find that a lot of women don't enjoy stimulation of the hands and fingers... most women are sensitive and don't really care to have their vagina and clit rubbed raw by an overpowering touch. Even as a man I don't want to be jacked raw!
I am fortunate though... my tongue is long enough to stimulate the clit, U spot, and the G spot. And yes... it is a shame that I most likely fall into your %99.999 of males! However it was for all intents and purposes a good read! I hope some lucky woman has a man who has read it and learned something about women.


BaronessK 53F

7/21/2006 2:56 pm

I think I f'ambled pretty good on this one, too, hun! {I still think I need more...uhmmmm, research?! }


wildoats19622 56M
3530 posts
7/21/2006 5:20 pm

I love it when you talk sexy

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DIVISION77 41M
8337 posts
7/21/2006 7:35 pm

I think the anal orgasm is interesting.

Most women would never believe their ass could ever get that stimulated, enough to want it that hard, that fast.

Anal for women is a whole new world.

DIV

"My every move is a calculated step, to bring me closer to embrace an early death." -Tupac Shakur


skyking412004 55M
5363 posts
7/21/2006 11:06 pm

_____Wow! Reading that makes me want to be a woman so I can experience all those forms of orgasm. (Somehow, I think I would make an awfully ugly, grossly overweight woman.) If you ever decide to commit all of your different types of orgasm to DVD for posterity...I'll buy it; or better yet, I could film it. I think I'd have an really hard time concentrating on using the camera correctly. If this post wasn't supposed to make me horny, I apologize for my baser human instincts.


intierzha 45M

7/22/2006 12:36 am

Wow, sex ed tonight, lol, though one learns about most of this stuff through experience if they actually pay attention to their partner. And you are most right, women respond differently and have to be tended to differently when it comes to stimulation. But for my money, most have some of the factors you listed in common: the ones I have been with certainly did not appreciate cervical orgasms, (and my ex-wife likened the sensation to a man being kicked in the balls), preferred the G-spot to all types of orgasms (though many found the breast/nipple orgasm to be pleasant when attainable), and all but one have preferred a particular style of oral stimulation. And I'm glad to hear that someone else passes out from the pleasure after the right orgasm. The first time it happened to my ex, I was a little confused, lol.

Have a great weekend,
C.


BaronessK 53F

7/22/2006 1:46 am

    Quoting rm_anacortes:
    I find the above very "educational".. I hope many readers benefit from this post of yours.

    Thanks..
Educate me, baby, educate me! {Well, so much for my intellectual side...although it was still philosophical, ya know! }


BaronessK 53F

7/22/2006 2:05 am

    Quoting OldHippy1957:
    I find that a lot of women don't enjoy stimulation of the hands and fingers... most women are sensitive and don't really care to have their vagina and clit rubbed raw by an overpowering touch. Even as a man I don't want to be jacked raw!
    I am fortunate though... my tongue is long enough to stimulate the clit, U spot, and the G spot. And yes... it is a shame that I most likely fall into your %99.999 of males! However it was for all intents and purposes a good read! I hope some lucky woman has a man who has read it and learned something about women.
Now, OH {BTW, do you like my nickname for you? }, that is a subjective thing, though, of course; basically degreess of sensitivity along with degrees of pressure {plus 'that' time, 'that' mood, etcetera}. Different strokes for different folks? I find that, with proper mood and stimulation, even if it increases later, that the lubrication and everything else is 'sufficient'! Men are quite a bit stronger in their upper body strength than they realize, too.

OTOH, too much is TOO MUCH; that includes, for me, size {length and girth/width}, pressure {usually too soon versus too much, but sometimes too much}, and so forth.

I do understand the extra problems with the male anatomy, because there is no natural lubrication {other than 'other' saliva, etcetera}. That is also why I am almost constantly saying something to the effect that what/why does it matter if a female {or male} can 'suck a golf ball through a garden hose' or 'suck start' a vehicle...because that just HAS to be WAY too much pressure.

For all intents and purposes...hmmmm...a good read? What, didn't you like the accompanying picture? As for learning about women...I might not be any or much help at all; I took a test that said, thinking wise, that I was 52% male and 48% female...which means, in my opinion, that I don't understand 'women' any better in some ways than males do!


BaronessK 53F

7/22/2006 2:09 am

    Quoting Wordsmith2004:
    Ummm....so wanna do an infomercial style "demonstration" of each with me?

    I believe I have an addition WHOPPIN' bucket of Oxyclean around here someplace.....
Word..."Word!"

And you wouldn't even have to face the camera, would you...because after all they would need to see my face for some or most of them, right?

Ahhhh, doncha just luv the smell of tetosterone in the morning...and afternoon, and evening, and night, and....


BaronessK 53F

7/22/2006 2:15 am

You're just imagining hearing me say it for real over the telephone or something...because...what...my 'accent'?


BaronessK 53F

7/22/2006 2:36 am

    Quoting DIVISION77:
    I think the anal orgasm is interesting.

    Most women would never believe their ass could ever get that stimulated, enough to want it that hard, that fast.

    Anal for women is a whole new world.

    DIV
Of course it is {interesting, and that you think it's interesting}.

In my opinion, along with oral {giving} it is a matter of relinquishing control of the 'situation'. Too, starting out slow and building up, so that all the senses are intertwined to flow into and upward. I have read that anal sex is something that most women do not even think about, much less experience, until they are older; again, is it their being open to new experiences, the maturity {in different ways} to be ABLE to experience something like that, or...?

I personally find, that with the right partner in the 'right' mood at the right time, that it all flows together in the right combination. It's not something that I will do, or even want to do, every time; but when I do, I totally mesh myself in those unique feelings.


BaronessK 53F

7/22/2006 5:05 am

    Quoting DIVISION77:
    I think the anal orgasm is interesting.

    Most women would never believe their ass could ever get that stimulated, enough to want it that hard, that fast.

    Anal for women is a whole new world.

    DIV
Okay, another attempt at posting {it did, or seemed to, then just went away}.

I have heard that it is maturity, maybe openness to new experiences or the ability to be able to be open to them, that leads to even considering trying anal sex.

There are, of course, the considerations of taking it slow, then warming up to the level that you are talking about {at first, at the beginning of each anal encounter, etcetera}.

At this point, I am at a loss for a response because you just made that damn Disney song stick in my head!


BaronessK 53F

7/22/2006 5:13 am

    Quoting skyking412004:
    _____Wow! Reading that makes me want to be a woman so I can experience all those forms of orgasm. (Somehow, I think I would make an awfully ugly, grossly overweight woman.) If you ever decide to commit all of your different types of orgasm to DVD for posterity...I'll buy it; or better yet, I could film it. I think I'd have an really hard time concentrating on using the camera correctly. If this post wasn't supposed to make me horny, I apologize for my baser human instincts.
Sky, hun, you're confused again...you said last time that you wanted to be WITH a woman and have HER experience all those forms...and I volunteered...remember? Uhmmmm, wait, though...I am a lucid dreamer...you been sneaking in AGAIN?

Buy it? Wouldn't you get free copies as co-whatever? {The hell with behind the camera.... }

Now, Mister SkyKing, the post was NOT intended to make you 'horny' {as you already were, probably, anyway}. It was supposed to 'edumacate' and all that, wanker! {The fact that it made you horny...was just really fine bonus 'points'! }

Now...show me those baser instincts sometime...when I got nothing on but the radio, hun?


BaronessK 53F

7/22/2006 5:31 am

    Quoting skyking412004:
    _____Wow! Reading that makes me want to be a woman so I can experience all those forms of orgasm. (Somehow, I think I would make an awfully ugly, grossly overweight woman.) If you ever decide to commit all of your different types of orgasm to DVD for posterity...I'll buy it; or better yet, I could film it. I think I'd have an really hard time concentrating on using the camera correctly. If this post wasn't supposed to make me horny, I apologize for my baser human instincts.
And, btw fyi...but you are definitely not a woman...so that means you are an awfully attractive, nicely huggable bear of a man. I knew I forgot to sign off with the usual, "Have I told you how cute you are? }


BaronessK 53F

7/22/2006 5:36 am

    Quoting intierzha:
    Wow, sex ed tonight, lol, though one learns about most of this stuff through experience if they actually pay attention to their partner. And you are most right, women respond differently and have to be tended to differently when it comes to stimulation. But for my money, most have some of the factors you listed in common: the ones I have been with certainly did not appreciate cervical orgasms, (and my ex-wife likened the sensation to a man being kicked in the balls), preferred the G-spot to all types of orgasms (though many found the breast/nipple orgasm to be pleasant when attainable), and all but one have preferred a particular style of oral stimulation. And I'm glad to hear that someone else passes out from the pleasure after the right orgasm. The first time it happened to my ex, I was a little confused, lol.

    Have a great weekend,
    C.
Now, in.... {That was an order or at the very least an invitation, btw! } Very few men {or women in some cases} pay enough attention to all the 'signals' and such in their partner to make for really mind blowing sexual experiences, though.

What's the "particular style of oral stimulation"? DETAILS!

So, ha, you're telling me that you have managed to be on the sending end of one of those 'fuck the cuddling crap' orgasms, hmmmm? Where do you live again?


DIVISION77 41M
8337 posts
7/22/2006 6:25 pm

    Quoting BaronessK:
    Okay, another attempt at posting {it did, or seemed to, then just went away}.

    I have heard that it is maturity, maybe openness to new experiences or the ability to be able to be open to them, that leads to even considering trying anal sex.

    There are, of course, the considerations of taking it slow, then warming up to the level that you are talking about {at first, at the beginning of each anal encounter, etcetera}.

    At this point, I am at a loss for a response because you just made that damn Disney song stick in my head!
I like anal because it requires the trust from the female and it truly tells you how much she trusts you with her body.

Anal is the point of no return...

Changing a woman's opinion about it due to the pleasure you are giving her is indescribable.

Like I said, a whole new world.

DIV

"My every move is a calculated step, to bring me closer to embrace an early death." -Tupac Shakur


BaronessK 53F

7/22/2006 9:36 pm

    Quoting DIVISION77:
    I like anal because it requires the trust from the female and it truly tells you how much she trusts you with her body.

    Anal is the point of no return...

    Changing a woman's opinion about it due to the pleasure you are giving her is indescribable.

    Like I said, a whole new world.

    DIV
Oh, definitely a trust issue; I usually make a point of talking about that {as well as lube, no numbing agents, etcetera}. I would have to add that in addition to changing a woman's opinion about it, as in my case where I would be willing to do it already, it still goes back to the trust issue as I will not {of course} do it with just anyone at first {although, again of course, if I am physically intimate with someone, there would definitely have to be the availability of that level of trust arriving/growing, or else I would not be having sex with them in the first place}. Such an intertwining of aspects, with the physical, the mental, emotions {trust, etc.} and so on; that is why I feel it is not 'kinky' or whatever, but more 'ultimate' in some ways {than other aspects of sexual activities}.


wildoats19622 56M
3530 posts
7/23/2006 3:00 am

Your accent doesn't bother me in the least. You are getting some interesting feedback on this one. I've been enjoying some of the other's comments too. A guy's orgasm can vary too, but it's more of a variation in intensity instead of type (for me anyway). Those long orgasms with lots of big streams of cum feel awesome. The only time I get them is if I haven't cum for at least a week.

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rm_corezon 54F
3376 posts
7/23/2006 4:39 am

    Quoting DIVISION77:
    I think the anal orgasm is interesting.

    Most women would never believe their ass could ever get that stimulated, enough to want it that hard, that fast.

    Anal for women is a whole new world.

    DIV
I've heard getting anal for men is a whole new world too

(sorry, I just couldn't restrain myself)(you are correct)

I am learning more here than I did from the Masters and Johnson studies.

It really hadn't occurred to me to try to group orgasms according to the physical body part that was initially getting stimulated; however the stimulation begins once the orgasm starts I thought that they STILL involve one or more of the main nerve nexes (C,V,G) or you wouldn't physically be able to experience the phenomenon of an orgasm.

One thing that was interesting to me about some of the responses on Div's post were the mentions of extending orgasms that didn't peak; with the right chemstry the whole act of intercourse (or otherwise) can be there and holding but if I don't actually "peak" and "explode" then I don't consider it a full orgasm. Just a state of arousal.

Makes me think of one friend/boyfriend I've had that almost NEVER actually came to a full orgasm (so much easier to tell with men); he said he still enjoyed having sex but eventually I drug out of him the fact that he was afraid to get me pregnant but didn't want to use a condom, either. It still mystifies me that could do it over and over again and not cum. Me, if I don't get the whole enchilada, I feel cheated.


BaronessK 53F

7/23/2006 10:21 am

    Quoting wildoats19622:
    Your accent doesn't bother me in the least. You are getting some interesting feedback on this one. I've been enjoying some of the other's comments too. A guy's orgasm can vary too, but it's more of a variation in intensity instead of type (for me anyway). Those long orgasms with lots of big streams of cum feel awesome. The only time I get them is if I haven't cum for at least a week.
That was my POINT, W! Oh, it's called 'feedback', hmmmm? I thought I was being a comment whore...damn it, I got no GOALS achieved today!

As for guys; orgasms there is the tantric type, where orgasm is achieved but not ejaculation. Quite intense, so I hear. There is also using that type of control to extend the 'interaction', but after some length of time they do finally ejaculate.

How's your hand doing? Mine bites the big one with that accident the other day at work. I can type, but not for long periods of time like before. It {the hand} woke me up -- proof, of course, being that I am awake before noon! Later....


BaronessK 53F

7/23/2006 10:41 am

    Quoting rm_corezon:
    I've heard getting anal for men is a whole new world too

    (sorry, I just couldn't restrain myself)(you are correct)

    I am learning more here than I did from the Masters and Johnson studies.

    It really hadn't occurred to me to try to group orgasms according to the physical body part that was initially getting stimulated; however the stimulation begins once the orgasm starts I thought that they STILL involve one or more of the main nerve nexes (C,V,G) or you wouldn't physically be able to experience the phenomenon of an orgasm.

    One thing that was interesting to me about some of the responses on Div's post were the mentions of extending orgasms that didn't peak; with the right chemstry the whole act of intercourse (or otherwise) can be there and holding but if I don't actually "peak" and "explode" then I don't consider it a full orgasm. Just a state of arousal.

    Makes me think of one friend/boyfriend I've had that almost NEVER actually came to a full orgasm (so much easier to tell with men); he said he still enjoyed having sex but eventually I drug out of him the fact that he was afraid to get me pregnant but didn't want to use a condom, either. It still mystifies me that could do it over and over again and not cum. Me, if I don't get the whole enchilada, I feel cheated.
It's a waste of energy to restrain oneself, doncha know? At least that's MY 'excuse'! Ewwww. the M & J studies...some of that is such total crock, isn't it? With guys, some of them say that it's actually TOO tight and all...especially if the female can do Kegel {because of course that means the female can loosen the muscles back there as well, but they can also tighten them intentionally or not}; then again, some guys think it is 'perverted' or whatever...and that means they either never want to do it or always want to do it!

As for grouping, if you take it that way, basically it's more like an orgasm is an orgasm because at some point it's still the 'eye' of the 'spider web'...that, and I just like f'ambling and trying to 'egg on' Div. It's a wonderful hobby, actually! {Egging on DIV, although the sex is a hob...well, no, it's more like an avocation! }

I considered the responses on Div's post to be related to what I call 'multi' ones -- and in that case {or rather, from my own experience} they are orgasmic, but more like mini ones or whatever that go up and up or at the very least repeat at a certain level until there is some type of 'hard' orgasm achieved.

With me, I only feel 'cheated' if the guy doesn't cum {at some point} -- due to the fact that it's scientifically proven that the hormones in a guy's ejaculate transfer into the female {be it through ejaculation into her vaginally or anally or orally, or through a type of osmosis when it is soaked into the body through the skin}. Then I feel as if I truly understand 'like the cat that got the cream'!


OldHippy1957 61M

7/23/2006 5:03 pm

When I said "For all intents and purposes... a good read!" That's exactly what I meant! "A good read!" Your post is very informative and could be helpfull to some (men and women alike). Not all women discuss their sexuallity with frankness and an open mind. I for one would much rather be with some one who knew their body and what they wanted. Men (or women) should not feel inadiquate as lovers for being told what to do or what works for you. When you are with some one like that... it is much easier to please them as well as have the experiences that you want. It simply makes for a more relaxed and open forum for discussion. Knowing your partner can only lead to better and more fulfilling sex!


BaronessK 53F

7/23/2006 11:17 pm

    Quoting OldHippy1957:
    When I said "For all intents and purposes... a good read!" That's exactly what I meant! "A good read!" Your post is very informative and could be helpfull to some (men and women alike). Not all women discuss their sexuallity with frankness and an open mind. I for one would much rather be with some one who knew their body and what they wanted. Men (or women) should not feel inadiquate as lovers for being told what to do or what works for you. When you are with some one like that... it is much easier to please them as well as have the experiences that you want. It simply makes for a more relaxed and open forum for discussion. Knowing your partner can only lead to better and more fulfilling sex!
Oh, OH, I was just aggravating ya...was in that mood this morning! Though, I would like to know...didn't you like the picture?

In other words...ah, shit, you mean I had a POINT?! Damn it, that's against the rules in my blog, me having a point!

Also, if my first husband would have listened to me or to anyone else about stuff like this...I still wouldn't be waiting on my first orgasm with him! {I totally agree with what you're saying, btw.}


wildoats19622 56M
3530 posts
7/24/2006 1:03 am

I've got a tip for you. If you use your left hand to masturbate it feels different, I'll stand by with a wet-wipe. (Intense sarcasm with much LOVE, that's how I grew up, If I use a hanky to absorb the scent who's monogram should be on it. Lately I've been a gentleman and extended my pinky during mastubation.)

Later
Wild

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BaronessK 53F

7/24/2006 2:07 am

    Quoting wildoats19622:
    I've got a tip for you. If you use your left hand to masturbate it feels different, I'll stand by with a wet-wipe. (Intense sarcasm with much LOVE, that's how I grew up, If I use a hanky to absorb the scent who's monogram should be on it. Lately I've been a gentleman and extended my pinky during mastubation.)

    Later
    Wild
A tip for ME? First off, hun...*I* don't need it! Second, wasn't I the one that told you about that?

That's because your pinky hurts the most, so it don't count!

Was at work later than usual, then out watering the 'garden' stuff. Talk to ya later.


daighi 50M
1449 posts
7/25/2006 11:15 pm

Excellant post BK,this should be a help to those guys that find it hard to know how to make a woman cum,in more ways than one.

I once was with a woman who loved me to stroke her "U" spot any time i was fingering her.She wanted me to try put my little pinky finger up her Urethra so as to stimulate her.She would cum almost uncontrolably later,& almost certainly gush all over the bed.It was amazing to see.

I had another lady that had anal orgasms,just as you desrcibed.It was like her ass was just a big bundle of nerves,which it is..lol,but she was SO sensitive,once my cock was in her,she would start coming almost immediately.I loved it as she was SO tight,& i would cum shortly myself with her muscle contractions.

I love it when a woman bares down while i'm fucking her ass,it makes it so tight in her ass,it just feels great around my cock.

Thanks for posting this,

hugs,

D. XX

"Always remember...keep smiling!"

Hugs,

D. XX


DIVISION77 41M
8337 posts
7/25/2006 11:31 pm

    Quoting rm_corezon:
    I've heard getting anal for men is a whole new world too

    (sorry, I just couldn't restrain myself)(you are correct)

    I am learning more here than I did from the Masters and Johnson studies.

    It really hadn't occurred to me to try to group orgasms according to the physical body part that was initially getting stimulated; however the stimulation begins once the orgasm starts I thought that they STILL involve one or more of the main nerve nexes (C,V,G) or you wouldn't physically be able to experience the phenomenon of an orgasm.

    One thing that was interesting to me about some of the responses on Div's post were the mentions of extending orgasms that didn't peak; with the right chemstry the whole act of intercourse (or otherwise) can be there and holding but if I don't actually "peak" and "explode" then I don't consider it a full orgasm. Just a state of arousal.

    Makes me think of one friend/boyfriend I've had that almost NEVER actually came to a full orgasm (so much easier to tell with men); he said he still enjoyed having sex but eventually I drug out of him the fact that he was afraid to get me pregnant but didn't want to use a condom, either. It still mystifies me that could do it over and over again and not cum. Me, if I don't get the whole enchilada, I feel cheated.
'lil corezon,

Women are so different than men in terms of the levels of orgasm.

The trust and comfort factor are the main factors involved.

My last girlfriend I could give unlimited orgasms to, one right after another in a stream...

Some were vaginal, clitoral, G-spot, anal.....just a matter of different stimulation.

One thing that I've learned the hard way:

I will never outlast a woman's pussy.

NEVER.

Just when I thought her pussy would tire out from orgasms, it would find another way to orgasm.

It became a challenge almost to wear her down.

DIV

"My every move is a calculated step, to bring me closer to embrace an early death." -Tupac Shakur


BaronessK 53F

7/26/2006 3:11 am

    Quoting daighi:
    Excellant post BK,this should be a help to those guys that find it hard to know how to make a woman cum,in more ways than one.

    I once was with a woman who loved me to stroke her "U" spot any time i was fingering her.She wanted me to try put my little pinky finger up her Urethra so as to stimulate her.She would cum almost uncontrolably later,& almost certainly gush all over the bed.It was amazing to see.

    I had another lady that had anal orgasms,just as you desrcibed.It was like her ass was just a big bundle of nerves,which it is..lol,but she was SO sensitive,once my cock was in her,she would start coming almost immediately.I loved it as she was SO tight,& i would cum shortly myself with her muscle contractions.

    I love it when a woman bares down while i'm fucking her ass,it makes it so tight in her ass,it just feels great around my cock.

    Thanks for posting this,

    hugs,

    D. XX
Problem is, hun, most guys {not all, mind you} don't give a crap about the female orgasm or anything else like it! For them, this will just be something they click on to see the pic and then scroll off to another page!

Your pinky actually UP in there? I would think that would be like a catherer or something, and uncomfortable to painful; for me, that much pressure would be pressure and therefore too much. JM had large hands, but a gentle, firm touch.

I got told that it was too much, anally, for the guy {and he was bi! } because between the Kegel/muscles and then the orgasm, well...maybe it was just too much for him!

So I did 'good'? Then, D, ya ought to give me a pat...somewhere....


BaronessK 53F

7/26/2006 3:28 am

    Quoting DIVISION77:
    'lil corezon,

    Women are so different than men in terms of the levels of orgasm.

    The trust and comfort factor are the main factors involved.

    My last girlfriend I could give unlimited orgasms to, one right after another in a stream...

    Some were vaginal, clitoral, G-spot, anal.....just a matter of different stimulation.

    One thing that I've learned the hard way:

    I will never outlast a woman's pussy.

    NEVER.

    Just when I thought her pussy would tire out from orgasms, it would find another way to orgasm.

    It became a challenge almost to wear her down.

    DIV
And DIV luvs a 'challenge', right?

Okay: devours pale white women, definitely into exploration and anal, etcetera...and has some very interesting tastes in music, works out a lot {works in a fitness type center}, and doesn't like women who stare at him. Very opinionated in that self-assured way that few people have/do/are. Anything else? Oh, and CAN be 'worn' out every once in a while, although he is very physical in sex. I just know I left some things out!

Did she never have a U-spot orgasm, though, DIV? That, as far as I know personally and from others, is a sure fire way to 'knock her out'!


daighi 50M
1449 posts
7/26/2006 4:34 pm

Holds BK in my arms & gives here a great BIG BEAR HUG!!!

((((((((((((BK/D)))))))))))))))

You KNOW that i appreciate you & your mind,as well as your wonderful talents,of which you have many.

Giving you a "pat" on the back...ANY WHERE else???..don't want to be sexist in patting your sexy ass,unless you WANT me to?!..lol..

Oh...go on then....pats BK's sexy round ass,in appreciation!..mmmmm...
Nice ass!!!.....

I can never resist a nice ass!!..

Hugs,

D. XXX

"Always remember...keep smiling!"

Hugs,

D. XX


BaronessK 53F

7/27/2006 3:29 am

    Quoting daighi:
    Holds BK in my arms & gives here a great BIG BEAR HUG!!!

    ((((((((((((BK/D)))))))))))))))

    You KNOW that i appreciate you & your mind,as well as your wonderful talents,of which you have many.

    Giving you a "pat" on the back...ANY WHERE else???..don't want to be sexist in patting your sexy ass,unless you WANT me to?!..lol..

    Oh...go on then....pats BK's sexy round ass,in appreciation!..mmmmm...
    Nice ass!!!.....

    I can never resist a nice ass!!..

    Hugs,

    D. XXX
Lower than the back, hun, yes! Sexy ass? You DID see the ass shot I posted, right? Flattish, at best; not that I have to look at it, ya know, but still...figure my legs are probably my best physical feature, and the hair probably. Oh, but I do thank you for the compliments!


DIVISION77 41M
8337 posts
7/27/2006 7:10 pm

    Quoting BaronessK:
    And DIV luvs a 'challenge', right?

    Okay: devours pale white women, definitely into exploration and anal, etcetera...and has some very interesting tastes in music, works out a lot {works in a fitness type center}, and doesn't like women who stare at him. Very opinionated in that self-assured way that few people have/do/are. Anything else? Oh, and CAN be 'worn' out every once in a while, although he is very physical in sex. I just know I left some things out!

    Did she never have a U-spot orgasm, though, DIV? That, as far as I know personally and from others, is a sure fire way to 'knock her out'!
You've been taking notes.

That sums it up.

Actually, if it came down to sex marathons like that every night, I would be worn out habitually.

Keep in mind I was using my hands for all these orgasms, like my cock is going to last that long?

I am very physical in sex, lots of biting, tasting, kneading, deep-tonguing. I devour.

Never attempted U-Spot.......only G-spot.

DIV

"My every move is a calculated step, to bring me closer to embrace an early death." -Tupac Shakur


BaronessK 53F

7/28/2006 2:03 pm

    Quoting DIVISION77:
    You've been taking notes.

    That sums it up.

    Actually, if it came down to sex marathons like that every night, I would be worn out habitually.

    Keep in mind I was using my hands for all these orgasms, like my cock is going to last that long?

    I am very physical in sex, lots of biting, tasting, kneading, deep-tonguing. I devour.

    Never attempted U-Spot.......only G-spot.

    DIV
Just scanning memory and bringing up things from your posts and comments; not photographic memory but close.

With you, I would say...what's a good comparison...most men are like one-topping pizzas...with you, in sex, it would be a supreme, double loaded! Yes, I like that comparison!

The woman would have to be comfortable enough to realize she's not urinating and all, but it's a wonderful type of orgasm, that one!


OldHippy1957 61M

7/29/2006 6:15 pm

Oh, by the way... I loved the picture!!!


BaronessK 53F

7/30/2006 1:39 am

    Quoting OldHippy1957:
    Oh, by the way... I loved the picture!!!
Well, OH, at first I thought it wasn't really 'right' for the post/title...then I thought, I CAN 'get off' that way as well {besides getting him 'done'}, so...yeah, post that pic!

Hey, this posting comment number is 714, my birthday! I like that...road trip to Tunica!


BaronessK 53F

8/6/2006 2:36 am

I could also not do it to you...work for you? Works for me!


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