An encounter with a stranger...  

Balibabe19 43F
534 posts
4/27/2006 2:51 pm

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5/3/2006 2:44 pm

An encounter with a stranger...

Looks like I am hooking up with Cassius tonite...that is his handle...and he is a real sweetie, we have been chatting for ages and has a great bod and a sense of humour I can appreciate..hubby's anxiety is through the roof.

Although I can respect he is has all his issues and works through them...what about me?...I am at peace with it all and know I will have similar ones when he plays however am I better prepared and not letting them rise to the top and spill over?? Or can be cold hearted enough just to switch off...does switching off mean you are cold-hearted...or just emotionally prepared for the worst.

I was always of the opinion that if you don't want to be here then I don't want you that too harsh? Am I making this too cut n dry?

wyvernrose 39F  
3962 posts
5/3/2006 4:57 am

understand entirely it is confusing

boney always called me cold because other women and fucking didn't bother me

what bothered me was if they took away from our family which in the end they did and I had told him that sort of thing would be an issue...

the issue is how secure you are in your relationship.....if you know you love each other and wont be pursueing anything other than friendship and sex with anyone else then jeolously isnt an issue...

take boney for example now that we are seperated jeolousy is a big issue for him....

I havent met cassius yet hope too eventually though

not too harsh at all I have the same approach


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