Heart Signs  

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8/7/2006 11:23 pm

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Heart Signs

Just thinking of some of my own signs that show the difference between wanting to lay a women and actually caring deeply for her. I try not to be shallow, but there are many women who I would love to have sex with, but would never even consider for a relationship. Porn stars,TV-Movie stars,many of the pin-ups etc. Not that I wouldn't give them a chance, but most of the ones I know I like sexually have shitty personalities, as far as I can tell. I've met many women here around the beach who are incredibly sexy but we shared no chemistry for some reason. Have friends too who are the other side of the coin. Great lady friends who hold little or no sexual attraction at all.( YES, I'm a guy. I'd still do them too under the right circumstances) lol May be a jerk, but I'm honest. lol Anyway, these are some of my signs that there's something deeper possible. Would love to hear some from you out there.
1 When my first desire is to kiss, rather than lay.(obvious)
2 When I can't stop looking at her eyes,even when she's in shorts or bikini, etc.
3 When I'll catch myself thinking of spending time alone with her doing mundane things.(watching TV, BSing, etc.)
4 When I picture her FACE (not ass or chest) while talking on the phone.
5 When I actually THINK before I say something to her, and not just toss lines.(which I hate doing)

I don't know. Most are along those lines. It kills me that I've fallen for a lady before and not truly realized it for days, or even weeks. Now, I try to watch for these signs in myself,to read my own reactions to women. Have to sit back and figure it out sometimes to determine what my own intentions are. Know I hate it when they don't know. Have to ask myself the same questions. Makes for a better relationship, be it sexual,friendly, or more.

Bronzehalo 2007

Greekgirl4u06 40F

8/8/2006 2:09 pm

well it just shows eventhough you still are "a guy" underneath it all, you still have some morals and respect about yourself and to whoever woman it is thats got you thinking and feeling that way.

BRONZEHALO replies on 8/8/2006 3:47 pm:
Yeah, hope to hear from her tonight. Her voice kills me. lol

florallei 100F

8/9/2006 10:22 pm

Hi Bronze,

I like how you are questioning your motives and how it affects you and the person you may feelings for. It shows inner growth and that you are genuine and honest. These are pretty good qualities in my book my friend. I hope you find what you seek and that she too will treasure you back,


8/9/2006 11:20 pm

I analyze constantly. Too much usually, but I'm a technician and it goes with the job. Always like to know where I stand, and when possible, where my lady-friends stand as well. "Those who stand for nothing will fall for anything"

Bronzehalo 2007

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