Where do I go from here??  

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9/10/2006 4:25 pm

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Where do I go from here??

So I am sitting here with some oreos and milk thinking about my life. Within the past year so much has changed in my life. Right now I am stuck with the question what do I want??
I know I am not in the career I want to be in. I have always wanted to live in a big city or work in a big city like on wall street in NY.
I don't want to be average and I never have. I want to have a nice corner office with a city view and go to dinner parties and things like that. I think back and wish that I would have done some things differently but its never to late to make a change, especially since I am only 25 years old.
So what is my "Dream Job". Well thats what I am trying to figure out and what I have to do to get it. There is so much to think about, like where I would go back to school, where would I live, how I would pay the bills. Not to mention how it would affect my family.
I know that I am not happy with my life right now and I want to stop trying to be normal and go after greatness. I feel like Tom Hanks at the end of the movie Castaway where he is standind outside his car at an intersection in Texas wondering which way he will go and where each road will take him.
What do you think? Have you ever been in a situation like this before?

HotSprite 65F
1390 posts
9/10/2006 6:33 pm

I sit here pondering over your question with a silly grin on my face, as there is something very sexy about a man sitting there with an oreo cookie and a carton of milk.

But back to the question at hand..... You are a man from a place that has population of less than 20,000 people, has clean cool crisp air, open spaces, and water. I do not see you happy in a big city. Gosh you in a suit and tie never going to happen,
4 walls surrounding you will only leave you gasping for air, you long for the open road.

I see you like superman running throught the building ripping your shirt and tie off to be free leaping from the tall building to the freedom of the open field below.

Mind you these are just my thoughts and you must always follow what is your heart.


BAADBOYHR replies on 9/12/2006 7:56 pm:
Thanks for your thoughts Sprite...

juicy856 40M/35F

9/10/2006 7:42 pm

i'm in the same situation now. i have never known what i wanted to be or do. I've always felt a little jealous of those that have always known. how do they do that? I've been thinking of teaching, after taking nursing classes. thought of advertising, but i'm not a corporate type so where does that leave me, just where you are sitting eating oreo's and drinking milk wondering

BAADBOYHR replies on 9/12/2006 8:00 pm:
I know, I wished I always new what I wanted to do too. But at least oreos and milk are good!! Good luck

rm_lovebear2u 47F

9/14/2006 8:14 am

Hey you, You will never be average you are just to sexy for that one. And you will have to stop by here sometime. I will have the cookie's and milk.

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