it's all about Money  

Asian_SweetHart 47F
1688 posts
8/13/2006 10:45 am

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it's all about Money


Am still awake at 1.30am, Malaysia time. Slept too much today, and now am chatting with friend in the UK. Sometimes am quite happy with the different time zones, cause it means that i always have people to chat with.

Anyway, lately, i've heard some stuff going on in the chat room and out of the chatroom. Yeah, i've not been in the chatroom much lately, but news does reach me somehow or rather. Though i wonder which version did i hear.

In short, it was all about Money & Men, again!!! sigh. when will it ever stop?

Is it wrong that men spend Money on the girls that they like? no matter what their size is? Some guys prefer to be wined and dined and having women surrounding them. And in turn they appreciate them by giving them gifts and buying them dinners cause they can afford it.

I've met men who can't afford that and tell me straight front that we have to go on dutch. Which is fine with me. If i had enough Money for myself and more than i need, i might even buy my many bfs gifts for just being nice with me and treating me the way a lady should be treated.

So, what's wrong with that? For those who are not getting any attention from the men the way some girls are getting, i think they should just shut up and leave the chatroom. Or revisit themselves and see what are they short off in personality and integrity!!!

To those who brags on what they get from the men on the website... they should leave the website too. As this is not something to brag about, cause it comes from the heart of the people who gives it to you. You should appreciate it and make it more private, and the gift & friendship from the men who give it to you, would be worth much more than you can imagine.

To those girls who thinks that they are always better than any of us girls on this website - Sorry to say this, if you are better than any of us, then why the heck are you still on this website, and going out meeting with all the men on here and still being bought dinners and given taxi fares by them. Look at yourself first before pointing fingers to others. Guess what? those men complaint about you too, to other girls as well. The men that you were proud to be associated with, are not as gentleman as they portrayed love.

In short, telling others about other people is a time waster! And men, learn to keep your trap shut! As what goes around comes around... geez.

NikkeiAmerikajin 62M

12/9/2006 6:52 am

I WOULD ALWAYS GIVE A GIRL A PUPPY.
When dating be practical, spend what
is needed. If you get married, the money
saved can buy a house for you and your wife.
If I see a practical gift, though no matter
the cost, I would splurge, but only once.
It is unfair to say, No money, no Honey.
Good Love is Priceless. Having money is nice
but having a woman without love is Cheap.

Do what you like.
Like what you do! LIFE IS GOOD

Kami no Kago (God Bless You)

M&M


rm_KLcharmer 54F

9/18/2006 2:03 am

ash, well this topic has been going on and on and I believe many bloggers have written something or other about it. You know Ive been extremely straightforward about my views and opinions and what I do. No one in passion.com has the right to accuse or abuse anyone of doing anything as all are guilty of doing something that is not condorned as far as moral standards are concerned as what is normally accepted. However unfortunately there are some here who seen to think they are Mother theresa or the Pope and have done no wrong thus they choose to judge others. What happens between 2 people is between them, its not of anyones business.

Unfortunately I have seen some men come in the room and boast abt their exploits and some even mention names which is wrong.

Many of the women there too accuse other women of taking gifts or money from men for their company. What business is it of anyones, if the men think that woman is worth it and willing to spend money or gifts on her. I guess its the women who are just jeolous when they see a certain women getting lots of attention from many men so they choose to back stab that woman and send poison mails to the men concerned hoping that they will not mee the said women.

Well for the men who listen to these back stabbers, its their loss, and for the smart man who make their own decision and do not let anyone influence his decision as to who he should meet, good on him, as that shows he is a real man.

Many men come come in there looking for free fucks, As I have said in my blog before, if its allright for a man to come in the room looking for free fuck when he has nothing to offer a woman, then why is it wrong for a woman to expect money, gifts or a dinner in exchange for her time. Afterall no one has taken a knife to the other persons neck and forced them to do anything, whatever they do, it was mutually agreed on and their right to do it. None of us has any right to judge anyone else, as we are all guilty of doing things which are generally not accepted as far as morals are concerned.

I guess its only the men who can't afford it and want it all free that accuse the women of being freeloaders or gold diggers. And the women who are jeolous that they don't get much attention from men who try to influence the men that the other women are bad.

So I guess its for the man to know what he wants and what he is willing to give in return for the woman's company and vice versa for the woman.

Whatever its only their business and not anyone elses.


bruisedkngiht200 51M

9/6/2006 7:00 pm

and money dosent make the man its whats in the man that makes him a man


bruisedkngiht200 51M

9/6/2006 6:50 pm

well a true gentleman dosent kiss and tell and dosent brag about what he has done or who he has done sorry but i have manners and morals guess i was raised wroung shrugs shoulders


rm_babelfish2 42M
7 posts
8/18/2006 3:46 pm

quite well put.


Asian_SweetHart 47F
1547 posts
8/16/2006 6:45 am

    Quoting wet_pussy4ever:
    well dear.. i guess sum people dun know d meaning of DISCREET... & also they know how how to appreciate wat they have they have to ruin it by spreading it all over..

    Well, wat's wrong if sumone wants to buy their partner a gift.. in token of apprecation of frenship...Is tat wrong.. Wat happens btwn 2 people is their biz.. not others to spread arnd

    Well, we juz have to b carefull who we meet or who we mix arnd wit
yep.. agree to your thoughts. I definitely wants to mix with you... so, see ya in 2 weeks time!!! lol


wet_pussy4ever 44F
3059 posts
8/16/2006 2:51 am

well dear.. i guess sum people dun know d meaning of DISCREET... & also they know how how to appreciate wat they have they have to ruin it by spreading it all over..

Well, wat's wrong if sumone wants to buy their partner a gift.. in token of apprecation of frenship...Is tat wrong.. Wat happens btwn 2 people is their biz.. not others to spread arnd

Well, we juz have to b carefull who we meet or who we mix arnd wit

Wet_p


Asian_SweetHart 47F
1547 posts
8/14/2006 2:11 am

    Quoting rm_K1w1_69:
    Too bad that there are many short-sighted...or narrow minded... people....but unfortunately the world is full of them. AdultFriendFinder certainly has its fair share of 'em. What's wrong with a guy spending money on a girl he likes and the girl accepting that? Hmmm...

    What goes on between two people should stay between them...why do some people have to brag about it?

    ASH, you got your beautiful head screwed on correctly. I sure dunno why all the other people have to talk like they do. I guess we just have to try and ignore them - they are the one with the problem, not you

    Take care, sweetie.
hiya Sweetie,

Wonder how many nuts and bolts do i need to screw my head up correctly, must be plenty, and I might have borrowed from you too.. LOL

But yeah, what goes on betweeen two people should be a private affair, as this is supposed to be a discreet relationship site right?

And good news.. i might make it to SG after all for Raya in October. Want to celebrate with me on the 2nd day? lol Can you find Ketupat and Rendang too?


rm_K1w1_69 57M

8/14/2006 2:01 am

Too bad that there are many short-sighted...or narrow minded... people....but unfortunately the world is full of them. AdultFriendFinder certainly has its fair share of 'em. What's wrong with a guy spending money on a girl he likes and the girl accepting that? Hmmm...

What goes on between two people should stay between them...why do some people have to brag about it?

ASH, you got your beautiful head screwed on correctly. I sure dunno why all the other people have to talk like they do. I guess we just have to try and ignore them - they are the one with the problem, not you

Take care, sweetie.


Asian_SweetHart 47F
1547 posts
8/14/2006 1:25 am

    Quoting rm_mzhunyhole:
    I ain't never met one of those guys that spend wads of money on women..where are they?They sure ain't in this hick town.I wouldn't let a guy anyway..and if he did..I wouldn't brag about it.
MZ,

We do have guys coming to Malaysia who does spend nice dinners or buy us drinks sometimes as the exchange rate is so cheap. Most of them comes for visits cause they're on business trips.

We can get a nice decent meal for dinner for example : steak and drinks for USD10.00 to USD15.00 per person in an up market restaurant.
So, really, there's no right or wrong here. It depends on the individual, whether it's the girl or the guy, to call the shots if they want to be dined or wined or just simply dining at a normal local hawkers centre, and whether they should go dutch or the guy themselves would cover the costs as they seem to think it's cheap costs for drinks and food.


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