Looking for an honest answer  

ArcticG40165 39M
8 posts
6/17/2005 8:46 pm

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Looking for an honest answer

I joined this site about a week ago, having just moved back to the area and looking to meet some new people it sounded like a good idea. As I searched the site I noticed something, a lot of the ladies profiles seemed to be looking for the exact same thing, which also seemed to be every man's fantasy. Now I'm not new to the game, I've definatley been around the block a few times and back (being recently divorced) and the one thing I've learned is that everyone in the world wants something different. I've also had the joy of being acquainted with some very colorful characters, people who's sex life go way off the beaten path, and never seen so many people after the same thing. Maybe it's because this is a site devoted to this particular matter, but I've had two other personals on different sites and noticed that these types of personals were just fronts to get people to join other sites, usually pay porn sites or the like. Now being someone who is interested in meeting new people to chat with, hang out with, and generally have a good time with leads me to ask the following question.

"How many real women are out there?"

Ladies, if your real, please comment. Guys, if you've meet real women here comment as well. I'm curious as to the results.

rm_cuml8er 56M
39 posts
6/18/2005 12:47 am

Well all of the ladies who have responded to me are very real. There are an awful lot who haven't responded but I won't waste my time wondering.

hardcopy75 42M
47 posts
6/18/2005 1:39 am


rm_dizzyandfun 49F
752 posts
6/18/2005 3:09 am

There are plenty of "real" people out there, and some very very nice ones too!! I guess everyone on this site is looking for something and I know a few who have found it.

TDandH1960 57M

6/18/2005 4:15 am

Hey they are all real women,and yes I have met a few at a night club,I haven't been intimate with any yet. There may be a few trying to get you on a pay basis,but I haven't had that problem. I have been in contact via e-mail with some also, some very nice ladies on here.
Sure lot of them sound easy in thier profile, but they are looking to, and want responses. The thing to remember is that they are real women with hearts and souls, treat them as such, I see so many guys on the chat line with the attitude, "I'm here I want sex, you want sex, girls line up lets do it" then they complian about the site, they complain that they have to pay to see others profiles,they have been on the site for a week and still no sex wa wa wa, poorboys!
I have found that the local chat rooms are a good start to meet others, but if your serious buy a membership, you don't have to be able to read profiles and e-mail others, but it sure helps, most women arn't ready to give out personal addys on the chat rm, don't expect them to, ask and if they want yours then give it to them. Well hope that this helps, good luck.

rm_affbreak 47M
287 posts
6/18/2005 7:20 am

Three .. just me and my mom. lol

rm_qcao1 49F
197 posts
6/18/2005 10:16 am

I am real.

curiousone992 47F

7/28/2005 2:25 pm

Yes, there are real women out here. It's just taking that leap to meet someone for the first time that keeps us hiding.

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