A good example of how words can be twisted  

AmberSolaire 43M
2630 posts
5/18/2006 6:20 pm

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A good example of how words can be twisted

Its not often that the constant twisting of fact on here gets to me.I operate in the interests of fairness and those who know me will attest that I firmly believe in both sides of any matter being heard.

I also prefer to either ignore or laugh off the people who twist and manipulate............

But for once I feel I have to clear something up head on because it really takes the biscuit:

This is taken from another blog here belonging to Nightguy_1961.Go take a look at his blog where he accuses me of coming to his blog to cause trouble and shitstir ,then read below where for your benefit I'm going to add context and answer point for point.


"Well, it would appear that the Dark Fortress is being invaded...for whatever reason."
Whatever reason ? excuse me but did you or did you not ask me to visit your blog? so when I do so to see what you want you then have the gall and impunity to try and call me out for disrupting your life!!!!!!!!!!!!

Unbelievable or do you not remember posting a certain comment whilst you were bad mouthing me saying I should come over to your blog.How convenient

Then when I do just that (like anyone would) you start accusing me of lacking manners and invading your space!!!!!!!


On my previous post,The lineup at the newest strip club here in Blog-ville!!!!, the following message was left:

"I hear you have some petty crap to get off your chest.

Well hurry up up here and waiting.I don't have all day you know."

So like you wanted I came to your blog and left a message .Given the context I am totally perplexed at how this has led to me being accused of starting trouble, and Im sure you reading can make up your own mind if this was a civil response or an attack!

Hmmmmm.....

Well, I think I know where this stems from...
Duhhhhhhh well I should hope so.Or are you playing dumb ass for effect here?

seems there is a bit of drama that started in one of the blogs and has spread throughout other blogs.

What is sad is that when some of the dramatists get in a bind when their comments are called to task, they go running to Customer Service and complain.See once again you exhibit slight of word.Nicely played but what comes out is plain wrong in terms of being either factual or accountable..

What I get "in a bind" over is unfairness and people contorting events to suit them then when they know people cant or wont reply gloating and saying I told you so look at me etc etc etc

I am going to stay out of the whole debate on racism here seeing as so many have such a personal stake.
What I was defending wasn't so much the comment itself but the following:

1.Stars assertions about the intent behind her comment
2.The fact that the people slamming that was going down was after her voice had already been taken away.
3.The personal nature of certain posts.
4 someones right to speech
5.Someones right to defend themselves from vicious onslaughts.

She may or may not have deserved it , but for christs sake leave a balanced point of view.

I'm not a dramatist.I'm a fair , honest, pragmatic realist (it even says so on part of my profile.lol) and I have stood up for fairness in the past and will do so again in the future.

This may surprise you to hear but I don't go running to CS willy nilly.I reported the personal and cruel posts completely dedicated to victimizing and inciting others against an individual.Not every single post concerning the subject or every profile involved.
(Im sure the ones who went from addressing the subject to plain attack know who they are and hence which posts I mean)

I do this whenever I see such posts around blog ville.They are unjust, unkind and I feel have no place here.I also believe they violate the terms of service.
In doing this I felt it only polite to tell people I was doing so to give them the chance to act fairly.

Does this not sound reasonable?
Maybe in the future I will take the cowardly option and wait until I was sure of the outcome and could kick the person who is down under sheer weight of numbers and insults as this seems to be the preferred option these days.

AND YOU ASK WHY I HAVEN'T POSTED FOR SO LONG.TAKE A LOOK AROUND.

Yes I could leave, yes it is my choice to stay, however I'm damned if me taking a backseat from blogging is going to be used against me by people who haven't a clue about me.


"I avoid trouble whenever possible. After too many years of fights for no reason whatsoever, I have turned my back on such useless wastes of my energy." Thats a mighty funny way of avoiding trouble.Think what you may of me, but when you call me out onto your blog at least be man enough to admit it.

BUT...

Don't delude yourself into thinking that silence means weakness, calm means indifference, and no reaction means no will...oh I have no delusions.As you know I took your silence and left my second comment saying you were wasting my time and left of my own accord, along with the promise not to bother seeing you again.For me that was the end but you "not wanting to cause trouble" wanted to take it further.

I will say what I want...when I want...how I want. Regardless....Fine by me I don't have any problem with free speech as long as it resembles some form of the truth when it involves me.

My Universe...My Rules!! If you don't like it, simple: leave my universe...

NG61...standing in the shadows...with his sword drawn...

So I leave, thinking that will be the end of the matter.

But noooooooooooooo.......

Suddenly up pops another post.I'm banning Amber , I'm a big-boy bouncer he wont come back now.I sent him packing .He tried to front me and I showed him where to go..............

WTF

Shall we recap.

1.You called me to your blog.
2.I took your silence and left gracefully.

It doesn't matter what the post was on, and I certainly did nothing to get banned.

As I said there is twisting of the truth and there is gross distortion.Either way I'm not going to stand by and be slandered like that without saying something.

I would wait for an apology, but it would take a man to do that


frangipanigal 46F
10406 posts
5/18/2006 8:21 pm

I just got sooooo excited when I saw you had a new post. Sorry it had to be about this type of stuff. I read the post that started all the drama and didnt comment. To each there own and words are taken out of context. If people don't like people (or their blogs) just dont go there!!

Anyway, more importantly, HOW ARE YOU!!!!

Good to see you. Don't be a stranger OK?

Frangi x


BadAssBlonde1 58F
4989 posts
5/19/2006 12:05 am

Didn't your Mama ever teach you that if you didn't have something nice to say about someone to say anything at all? If this was a misunderstanding of words; then why didn't you explain yourself? There was no need to start a big "Drama Scene" ... Believe it or not, there are those of us that know each other real time and don't take kindly to such. This being the case at hand.

I will leave this food for thought. Never slap a Lady on the arse, or her Sister. It is rude, and it could be Dangerous. I have said enough for now. It's not nice to invade someones' space. The only reason I did so here is because you are speaking and referencing someone that is Family.

I hope you have a Wonderful Weekend. Best of luck to you in your endeavors.

Cordially,
Lady Hunter/BAB
Madam of the Manor


After all the sex is gone, there is the mind - Lady Hunter / BAB

Copyright © House of Lady Hunter 1998-2009


Nightguy_1961 56M
4866 posts
5/19/2006 12:35 am

Dear Amber,

I read you above post and you've quoted me rather well. But let's give 'the rest of the story', as we say over here in the States.

This seems to stem from the blog about the use of the 'N' word...where a young lady made a comment about 'it is just a word, get over it'....she was called down on it by a lot of people, including myself. I figured it was the end of it, until:

I read the post For YOUR protection on HeartlessBitch69's blog, where she stated that some people were coming over and posting comments against her. She had already banned the commentators, so I, along with others, had no idea who it was. Yes, I did post a comment saying the following:

Please....send them over to my blog....with the mood I'm in....I'd LOVE for them to visit the Dark Fortress...

I haven't played for blood in quite awhile, I'll be their huckleberry...as Val Kilmer said...

NG61...fading back into the shadows...and waiting....


Again, I figured it was a done deal...

In my blog posting, The lineup at the newest strip club here in Blogville, you posted the following comment:

Quoting AmberSolaire:

I hear you have some petty crap to get off your chest.

Well hurry up up here and waiting.I dont have all day you know.


I first responded to you with the response, "Excuse me, do I know you?"

I then wrote the post Trouble has come to my door, hoping you'd comment. The next day, you posted the following comment back in The lineup at the newest strip club here in Blogville:

Quoting AmberSolaire:

Well didnt think you would be man enough to do anything more than waste my time.

Slaps the strippers pert behinds and leaves to spend his dollers elsewhere.lol

Amber


You could have posted your comments or the reasons you were there, but instead, you made the above comment and left......it was then that I banned you from my blog and wrote the post AmberSolaire has been thrown out of the Fortress

Again, I think this is a done deal...until I see where you quoted me on GOTD's post [post 351188] with the following:

Quoting AmberSolaire:

This sort of rubbish is what annoys me so much so that I have risen to the bait for once and posted on it.

I went to his blog at his request and quite reasonably given the circumstances asked him what he meant.........

I wont go into it here.You can read how I feel on my blog.I have no clique and do what I feel is right in the interests of impartiality / fairness by myself thankyou I dont need others around me to state my feelings and position.These type of inflamatory comments/statements are at the root and indeed the cause of wider malaise.....

Amber


btw, your comments to my blog are where I quoted you, so all can see what you really said, along with my responses....

So in fairness, I have put the comments out for all to see...nothing more. I have no animosity towards you whatsoever, I don't even know you. So I trust that this will be the end of it...

I wish you the best of luck in finding what you seek.....peace be with you....

NG61...walking back into the shadows....


AmberSolaire 43M

5/19/2006 3:59 am

    Quoting Nightguy_1961:
    Dear Amber,

    I read you above post and you've quoted me rather well. But let's give 'the rest of the story', as we say over here in the States.

    This seems to stem from the blog about the use of the 'N' word...where a young lady made a comment about 'it is just a word, get over it'....she was called down on it by a lot of people, including myself. I figured it was the end of it, until:

    I read the post For YOUR protection on HeartlessBitch69's blog, where she stated that some people were coming over and posting comments against her. She had already banned the commentators, so I, along with others, had no idea who it was. Yes, I did post a comment saying the following:

    Please....send them over to my blog....with the mood I'm in....I'd LOVE for them to visit the Dark Fortress...

    I haven't played for blood in quite awhile, I'll be their huckleberry...as Val Kilmer said...

    NG61...fading back into the shadows...and waiting....


    Again, I figured it was a done deal...

    In my blog posting, The lineup at the newest strip club here in Blogville, you posted the following comment:

    Quoting AmberSolaire:

    I hear you have some petty crap to get off your chest.

    Well hurry up up here and waiting.I dont have all day you know.


    I first responded to you with the response, "Excuse me, do I know you?"

    I then wrote the post Trouble has come to my door, hoping you'd comment. The next day, you posted the following comment back in The lineup at the newest strip club here in Blogville:

    Quoting AmberSolaire:

    Well didnt think you would be man enough to do anything more than waste my time.

    Slaps the strippers pert behinds and leaves to spend his dollers elsewhere.lol

    Amber


    You could have posted your comments or the reasons you were there, but instead, you made the above comment and left......it was then that I banned you from my blog and wrote the post AmberSolaire has been thrown out of the Fortress

    Again, I think this is a done deal...until I see where you quoted me on GOTD's post [post 351188] with the following:

    Quoting AmberSolaire:

    This sort of rubbish is what annoys me so much so that I have risen to the bait for once and posted on it.

    I went to his blog at his request and quite reasonably given the circumstances asked him what he meant.........

    I wont go into it here.You can read how I feel on my blog.I have no clique and do what I feel is right in the interests of impartiality / fairness by myself thankyou I dont need others around me to state my feelings and position.These type of inflamatory comments/statements are at the root and indeed the cause of wider malaise.....

    Amber


    btw, your comments to my blog are where I quoted you, so all can see what you really said, along with my responses....

    So in fairness, I have put the comments out for all to see...nothing more. I have no animosity towards you whatsoever, I don't even know you. So I trust that this will be the end of it...

    I wish you the best of luck in finding what you seek.....peace be with you....

    NG61...walking back into the shadows....
all very well apart from 2 rather important details.You see distortion has to do with sequence.

Firstly on the post you put your summons on I had already been grouped in with the player haters and racists, or did you not read it/ before you decided to jump in with both feet?

Secondly when I left my second comment there was no second post.

I find it strange that I should be required to post my reasons for being there when you already knew full well.As for not answering the content of the post ?(which i did read, hence the playful ass slapping .lol) I didnt want to pull anyone else into whatever you wanted to start.That simple.I was being courteous.

If you "have no animousity" why write the second post at all?

Do you see why I might be peeved?


GleesFlakyShawl 51M
1620 posts
5/19/2006 6:41 am

hey buddy, uve just came back and ur already in a catfight...how on earth do u manage?

as for me, i just wanna invite u to enjoy some blondes together.....what do u say?


rm_saintlianna 46F
15466 posts
5/19/2006 7:56 am

Wow, you must be bored.


AmberSolaire 43M

5/19/2006 1:17 pm

Yeppers bored of you..........so bored infact I think I might ban you.lol

jeesh now I realise how therapeutic it can be.Runs off to ban all of blogville who may have a different opinion to me.lol


rm_saintlianna 46F
15466 posts
5/19/2006 5:59 pm

    Quoting AmberSolaire:
    Yeppers bored of you..........so bored infact I think I might ban you.lol

    jeesh now I realise how therapeutic it can be.Runs off to ban all of blogville who may have a different opinion to me.lol


I think that would be my first ban. I must be bored too.


rm_dizzyandfun 49F
752 posts
5/20/2006 1:53 am

Amber honey..where have you been?? I cant read your blog lol..that very pale colour.....
Thanks for your comment...but those juicy details...mmmmmmmmmmmmm.. i ll leave to your imagination lol

mushhhhhhhhh

dizzy xx


AmberSolaire 43M

5/20/2006 4:15 am

    Quoting rm_saintlianna:
    I think that would be my first ban. I must be bored too.
LOL


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