What makes a PHENOMENOL lover?  

Amazinglyintense 34M
30 posts
2/26/2006 6:45 pm

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3/11/2006 3:20 pm

What makes a PHENOMENOL lover?

Haha... well phenomenol is stretching it isn't it? At least when it comes to what we're looking for, I bet we ALL use the word PHENOMENOL, GREAT, or something along those lines and have no idea what EXACTLY it means. Let me try and put some concrete ideas in your head about who I think is a great lover.

So I'm gonna put it in terms that I understand: here's my female sex goddess:
She doesn't have to bob her head up and down and suck my dick in any special way. She doesn't have to wear that new scandalous lingerie from Vicky (I'm still trying to figure out her damn secret).

My phenomenol lover can smile...she can have fun. She has an open mind and therefore, like me, is willing to take the situation in stride. Let's face it, everyone's body is different. If you think "mastering" one woman's body is enough, g'luck with life then.

My phenomenol lover has a vivid imagination. Passion is what controls her, passion and lust. Whatever she feels like doing she tries. She finds new ways to enjoy the feelings of sex for the both of us.

My phenomenol lover pays attention to my body as well as my words. She learns what works and what doesn't work. Sex isn't a job for her, pleasing me isn't a job either, it's fun. The feelings of satisfaction that her and I share make it fun.

That being said, I am not your great lover, but I know how to have fun. I know that sex is supposed to be fun and if it isn't then there's something wrong. Don't try to be great, just enjoy yourself. Some word of advice from innocent lil me...and if you believe I'm innocent...LOL

saddletrampsk 55F

2/26/2006 7:16 pm

good advise..

rm_art_persists 52M
1789 posts
2/26/2006 9:12 pm

passion is what always makes it great. Humour helps support it but in the end desire is the motivator...

Amazinglyintense 34M

2/26/2006 9:46 pm

Fine, desire is the motivator but it must be stirred. Even worse if it isn't expressed because of inhibition. All I'm saying is what makes a great lover is the comfort level with which both, or all three, or four (LO approach each other with. Desire is always there but it's rarely exercised in my experience because of inhibition and the need to be "civil" even though the sex may be in private quarters (or in the changing room of a clothing store, or in the cab ride home, you FREAKS! LO

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