So much heartache and trouble.  

Alannc4900 61M
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8/29/2006 10:52 am

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10/25/2006 7:57 am

So much heartache and trouble.


As I read different blogs, so many are filled with heartache, tragic situations and problems.

I've guess I've led a very sheltered life. Most all of my heartache and tragedy has been self inflicted. *S*

The thing is, as I read a posting that is sad, I want to write something to help the person ... I don't know them, but I want to make it all better. But I don't have a clue about what to say. So I generally leave without saying anything.

I'm no better verbally in real life, but in real life a hug or just being there goes a long way.

Is there a blog equivalent to a hug ... to sitting quietly, handing out the kleenex as needed?

I realize that even the perfect words won't make things all better ... but I sure wish I even had some less than perfect words that could lighten the load.

Any suggestions?

(After rereading this post, I ran to the restroom and double checked ... whew ... I DO still have balls).

want2play926 46F

8/30/2006 11:32 am

It takes bigger balls to say what you did here...
Not saying how you really feel is more ball less...

I have had my share of trials and drama in a span of 10 years then I care to. But life happens. Having true friends that sat and handed out tissues and lend a shoulder are better then words.

~ Knowing when to do the above and when to speak words takes wisdom ~

*thanks for visiting my blog..kisses W2P


Alannc4900 replies on 8/30/2006 11:51 am:
Thanks for the kind comments. I hope you always have those friends nearby.

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