It never ceases to amaze me..  

AkCookielicious 60F
16 posts
6/22/2006 9:15 pm
It never ceases to amaze me..


Well, life is certainly a learning expierence huh? Doesn't seem that long ago I found this site. I remember being so astounded and shocked I quickly X'd out and I felt my face flush red..but my curiosity got the best of me and I came back. My mind hungry for what it had been missing and awakening sense I had not felt in quite some time. So here I am...hmmm lessie..ok here's one for ya...

I often wondered why so many single men don't appear to be looking for single women. Most won't say a word in chat till a couple comes in. I've got my own theory on that. Perhaps why I find myself sometimes attracted to attached men..its safe..(unless his gf were to find out and go psycho on ya or even worse his wife)..lol..but yanno what I mean..safe... I know I like living alone..I control the remote, no stubble in the sink and no skidmarked underware on the floor And lets face it, some guys are just as clingy as some women, which is fine if your clinging to each other..Speaking for myself, I've not met a man I want under my ass 24/7, telling me what, how, where and when to do it. Don't get me wrong.. I love my men, just not all the time.

I haven't found a keeper. I pay my own way, I mow my own oil and I change my own grass Anyway what I'm saying is we're not all psycho bishes that follow ya for a month cuz ya spend a little time with us. I mean sure having something really special sounds nice but let it unfold naturaly if it's going to.. and if its not fun anymore, it's time to stop doing it....So when we say we only date single men...don't just assume we're ready to rush into anything Just a thought.

cumngeturluvak 50M
9 posts
6/23/2006 8:28 pm

So you wrote a blog? Good for you babe! But why do I feel like you wrote parts of that about me? I'm not clingy am I? Will you have dinner with me?? huh?? huh ? will ya? huh? will ya?


rm_toklat2005 60M

6/24/2006 5:29 pm

She's making alot of sense. Relationships are great, when they are great, and a nightmare when they are a nightmare. There isn't much middle ground. I'm glad to hear that she wants the remote - cool. Independent women are hard to find and a joy to be around.


100prcntnocnt 51F

6/25/2006 12:39 pm

Well said, gf! Guys don't want us single ones because they think we're out to marry them or something. Some of us LIKE living alone and being in charge of our own space. We just like to have a guy around so we don't wear out poor ol' bob! hahahahaha


GentleGiantAK 55M

6/28/2006 11:04 pm

Skidmarks??? Ewwwww!!! Those guys don't need a clothes hamper, they need a proctologist.

You have to admit, it can be difficult for a normal joe looking for a normal jane to stand out amongst the pervs on this site. But if you'll do us a favor and give it a shot, you just might find one of us. And I agree the journey is just as important as the destination.

Gotta bookmark this blog.


seabuns2 59F

6/29/2006 4:46 am

There still is a force on this earth called Love. When ya feel it you will know. Life is to short to let it slip away...no matter how long it lasts. Sometime people dont realize whats in thier grips till its gone. Hope this dont happen to you.


rm_passion5454 64M
7 posts
7/31/2007 6:16 pm

Im surprised more women don't get together with married men ... usually they want a change from the same old "go ahead and do it" to a little excitement of the touch of a different woman ... and Im sure it can be the same for a woman ... i was always told "change is good" .... married men can be great friends and great lovers ...


alaskaredhead 63F

7/10/2008 7:07 am

I agree, I like my alone time, I can run around naked, fart if I want and have control. The flip side is I think that single men now a days are skurred of a strong, independent woman. As u, I would like to find someone to wake up with a couple times a week. I dont think I could pick up after another man. So, it's nice to have em spend the night, then pick up their clothes and wear em home.

So, with all that said, one of my fav sayings is:

NOTHING VENTURED, NOTHING GAINED~~~!!!


rm_topsy50 57F
20 posts
7/10/2008 7:51 am

I must be a psycho bish... I spent time with this gal and Im STILL following her around 4 years later hahahaha

Skidmarked undies ?? Fookin Gross.... if they cant wipe their own ass properly what hope have we that they will do anything else right ?? Jes sayin


AkCookielicious 60F
81 posts
7/10/2008 7:55 pm

OMG !!!! I LuV my Girlfriends!! As long as I wasn't OfEnDiNg anyone


timbuckto 55M

4/6/2009 6:58 am

Nice blog, it is a weird site and i have found that there are all kinds on here, good luck and be careful.


qwert3 68M  
30 posts
7/23/2009 10:00 am

Well put cookie! However, some of us DO appreciate you single women and once being friends, understand that you are okay with living alone and all you have written! But I do have a question!!! "Mow the oil" and "Change the grass"???? Are ya going into landscaping!! LOL Luv ya!


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