Day 223: Frustrated and horny...  

AGNJoe1 48M
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6/21/2006 1:32 pm

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7/6/2006 7:49 pm

Day 223: Frustrated and horny...

Well, the person I asked to have her send me an e-mail in her blog...well she hasn't gone over her latest posts in her blog I guess or she's just not interested. I do not want to out her, because I do want some of my other friends sending her hate mail.

I asked her if she could shoot me an e-mail and she hasn't contacted me yet. Which is frustrating to me. I hate when people can't return messages or respond to me. True, I am a standard member, and the only way to communicate is pretty much through blogs. But this person is a gold member and I asked her politely to shoot me an e-mail so I could talk to her.

I wish people would just drop all of the BS and just come out and say what they feel. I think that's what scares a ton of women away from me though. I'm too honest, I'm to upfront, I'm too forward. And that scares women. Yet they whine and bitch, saying, "Oh I want a guy to be honest with me!", or "I wish a guy would just be upfront and stop playing mind games!", yet what happens when a guy like that comes along? The freak out and run away or the can't deal with it. It's almost like they get that deer-in-the-headlights expression when they talk to you. Rediculous.

A couple of women here have repeatedly told me they wish a guy would be honest and upfront with them. Guys...I'm seriously considering this to be a complete falsehood and a lie. What a shame some people can't cope with honesty.

Thanks for reading, god bless, and if you are in the Chicago area, if you ever get a hold of me, prepare to be walking crooked for a week.

AGN Joe


GossipJunkie 41F

6/21/2006 3:51 pm

Some people can't handle complete honesty. I think, also, that the definition differs for some people, as odd as that may sound. Sorry you're getting the run around.

GJ

GossipJunkie
"Dance like nobody's watching"


rm_chislut 43F
710 posts
6/22/2006 1:44 pm

I'll out my own damn self.

I haven't been emailing ANYONE new. And I get too much email as it is, so I don't normally initiate contact with anyone anyway. Which you'd know if you emailed me because it's in my autoreply.

But, I'm supposed to take the time to email you because you're too cheap to pay for a membership? I'm a friggin' librarian, not exactly rolling in the dough, and I managed to cough up the membership price.

What does "being honest" have to do with any of this, btw?

And to answer the question you posted in my blog -- no, you are not THE guy I was referring to in the post. It wasn't about any ONE guy. Yes, your body type is not what I, personally, find attractive. Note that that's not meant to be an insult in any way, just a personal preference.

However I'm also not interested because:
You're MARRIED. And not in an open relationship, which would be different.
You come across as bitter. Why would I want to spend my time around such negativity?
And juvenile. You don't want to "out me" because otherwise I'd get "hate mail"?

I'm not giving you the run around. I never in any way led you on or hinted at anything. I've never talked to you directly at all, have I?

**obviously very grumpy today!**


AGNJoe1 48M

6/22/2006 7:44 pm

    Quoting rm_chislut:
    I'll out my own damn self.

    I haven't been emailing ANYONE new. And I get too much email as it is, so I don't normally initiate contact with anyone anyway. Which you'd know if you emailed me because it's in my autoreply.

    But, I'm supposed to take the time to email you because you're too cheap to pay for a membership? I'm a friggin' librarian, not exactly rolling in the dough, and I managed to cough up the membership price.

    What does "being honest" have to do with any of this, btw?

    And to answer the question you posted in my blog -- no, you are not THE guy I was referring to in the post. It wasn't about any ONE guy. Yes, your body type is not what I, personally, find attractive. Note that that's not meant to be an insult in any way, just a personal preference.

    However I'm also not interested because:
    You're MARRIED. And not in an open relationship, which would be different.
    You come across as bitter. Why would I want to spend my time around such negativity?
    And juvenile. You don't want to "out me" because otherwise I'd get "hate mail"?

    I'm not giving you the run around. I never in any way led you on or hinted at anything. I've never talked to you directly at all, have I?

    **obviously very grumpy today!**
chi, look...

First off, I want to apolgize for my tone in this blog I posted and to let you know...the anger was not intended towards you or anyone in particular.

The post was not directed towards you to say that you were being mean to me in any way.

And yes, the last time someone here played games with me, someone sent a hateful message to that person, and that person then sent me a message back asking me to nip it in the bud, which I did. Which is why I didn't want to say your name.

I never said here that you were not honest. It just that I was somewhat frustrated that you didn't respond to me, and yes, maybe it was somewhat juvenile. So I'm asking you to please accept my apology.
And since I NOW know your feelings towards me, this will be the last time I bother you, hence, I will leave you alone.

I'm sorry your grumpy, and wish you nothing but the best in your future endeavours.

AGN Joe


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