Day 216: Well that was a waste...  

AGNJoe1 48M
385 posts
6/14/2006 6:22 pm

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Day 216: Well that was a waste...


Well, the wife is back from Vegas, and not one person contacted me. A perfect time to get someone...ANYONE, and not once did anything happen.

Man, if this isn't enough to burn my backside...I don't know what is. I'm going to bed. I'm sorry folks, I'm just mad right now, and I figure it's just best for me to go to bed and sulk over a completely wasted opportunity.

AGN Joe

DCEbony
1586 posts
6/16/2006 2:40 pm

Unfortunately (for the men), there appears to be more guys looking than there are women. The women can and do hold out for the exact situation they seek. Why? Because they can. LOL

I can speak from my own experience when I say that I'm not willing to compromise. Guys don't like that. LOL

Having said that, women on the site have their fair share of frustrating issues so you're not alone.

I'd say that the only thing worse than not being contacted at all is being pursued by someone only to have them disappear without any sort of explanation. So close and yet so far, etc. etc.

Things tend to happen when you're not looking for anything, so you just never know.


AGNJoe1 48M

6/16/2006 8:59 pm

Sheeana - I was hoping it would. But I guess now...I'm not really sure anymore. I was trying to be positive. Mostly I was hoping that me being honest and upfront would show that I'm trying to be a decent guy by not misleading anyone. But instead, I think it's turned into a detriment to myself, and I think that's the saddest thing really. for all the women's claims that they want a guy to be honest and upfront with them, when someone is just that, then the mystique is lost and the man becomes unattractive.

Why is it women can't come out and say what they mean and then back it up?

DC Ebony - The women may have their share of frustrating issues, but I honestly now think it doesn't even come CLOSE to what a guy has to go through here. And I understand not compromising, and if that's the case, it's cool. But women here will not say ANYTHING to a guy to tell them ONE WAY or the OTHER if they are interested or not.

Take for example a woman I tried to talk to for weeks, and she never said ANYTHING to me whatsoever. I finally gave up on her because she never said anything to me. Women, whatever you do...DON'T waste a man's time. If you're not interested...SAY SO! Tell him your not interested right off the bat and don't string the poor bastard along for weeks! Bottom line...that's just messed up. But I'm running off on a different tangent now.

Anyway, thank you ladies for stopping by and saying hello. I've kind of cooled off a bit, but I'm still a tad miffed.


DCEbony
1586 posts
6/20/2006 8:47 pm

Whoa...telling a guy that flat out that you're not interested opens up a whole new can of worms. I've been called some pretty nasty names for being truthful about my reasons.

When I was still looking, I did have an autoreply on my email that said that if I didn't personally respond within a couple days, I wasn't interested, good luck, etc. Then it was case closed. The autoreply wasn't foolproof but at least the guy wouldn't be waiting to hear from me. Having been strung along before, it's not something I'm interested in doing to someone else so I just don't.

I do have to say that I'm confused as to why you'd waste your time trying to talk to someone for weeks. If she wasn't polite enough to respond, you had your answer right there.

Anyhoo, I'm glad you cooled off. Like I said before, this site is an exercise in frustration. LOL


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