Day 113: Read this blog. Or don't read this blog. You choose.  

AGNJoe1 48M
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3/2/2006 8:55 pm

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3/25/2006 8:30 pm

Day 113: Read this blog. Or don't read this blog. You choose.

Ok, I've been breaking away from the normal routine a bit, posting if anything interesting has been happening in the diary of A Guy Named Joe, and while a few women have seen my profile, or sent me an e-mail, and ladies...thank you.

But the thing is I'm going to break from the norm to address something for both the men and the ladies to read. I'll return to the normal routine hopefully tomorrow. But for now, I've got something to say, so I'm standing on my soap box...

Folks, I understand this is a free society I live in here on the internet. And that with the partial anomynity I have being as that most of you do NOT know my real name, I can say whatever I wish and pretty much get away with it. I could be a nice guy or choose to be an absolute prick to both men and women here. And if I choose to be a son of a beyotch and get banned, I can always make a new profile with a different name and get away with it. And with that, I could be mean, nasty, evil, say what I want and be hurtful to either guys or gals here, and not even think twice about it. However, I choose to be a nice guy. Why?

I'll tell you why. Because I'd rather be a decent upstanding and honest guy. I've had women here just up and diss me or treat me like crap here. Did I ever sink to their level? Nope, nor do I want to either. That's not me. Do I have it in me to do that? Sure I do, and once in a while in the real world, it slips out, and I become an a-hole. It happens. But I do believe in karma. Karma is REAL. What you send out will come back to you, both good or bad. So why am I saying all of this? Here's why...

Lately both pinkplaytoyz and LustGoddess2469 we're being attacked verbally by other members in this community. These people were attacked with vile and hateful words, and these friends of mine have considered leaving this site. Which brings me to this...

Folks, please...let's remember, we are all human beings. We are people. And we should all try to be good, to ourselves and to each other. To go around and trying to hurt others because they hurt you first, all you are doing is perpetuating the hate, the evil that they are spewing. These people, who are evil to begin with, they WANT you to continue the hate, so they can spread the evil out there and contaminate our souls, our hearts, our minds. I know it's hard, but let's strive to be better people, and put ourselves above that.

However, if people are becoming more evil and hateful to you, and you feel threatened, notify AdultFriendFinder immediately, keep all records of e-mails, of these attacks. Do not let them get to you. Be strong, and stay strong. Know that there are people out there that support you here, and we do care about you. And if AdultFriendFinder does nothing, then it's time to notify the police. You should not deserve such treatment.

Now, for the people out there that are participating in this stuff and attacking others, trying to hurt others because you were scorned, or shunned, or told you were insignificant...before you lash back and start out on a campaign to make that person miserable...look at yourself first. Don't start the hate. And if you are working on to where you are doing something like this professional help or counseling. At least...take an inventory of what you are doing.

Finally, to anyone right now participating in something to where you are spreading hate, evil, or trying to hurt someone because they hurt you...please, do not read my blog. I do not want to be associated with you. The evil and hate you spread is infectious. It spreads to others, and it will infect them as well. And remember the old saying...karma is a bitch. The evil you shoot out into the world, this universe, will come back to you eventually in a different form. The more you practice and spread good out into the world, then more good things will happen to you. And if you receive nothing good, even if you spread good into this world, you will be repaid 1000 times over in the afterlife as you venture on in the next world.
Even if you do not believe in a god or an afterlife, how would you want to be remembered? As someone that was good or evil? And even if you do not believe in a god or an afterlife, the good you spread out into the world and do not see DOES effect others.

The bottom line is this...let's please treat each other with respect and kindness, even if others do not treat you with the same kindness and respect. Thanks for reading.


PineyFolks 60M/60F

3/5/2006 9:11 am

Hi Joe. This is my first visit to your blogland. It captured my attention. I agree to all you said tenfold. Remember, karma makes things come back to you at least threefold of what you did. Good or bad. I would much rather have good things happen to me then bad things. Im greedy that way....*grins*


AGNJoe1 48M

3/5/2006 11:07 am

Piney - Thank you for commenting, and thanks for stopping by. This post had to be said because of some people cannot seem to grasp that concept. And while I think that almost everyone who reads my blog gets it, I hope that anyone who didn't before, at least understands it now.


sideline1968 49F

3/5/2006 11:38 am

Got your e-mail dear.

Now this is where the red in me comes out ... I'll be just as nice and polite to people that I can be. But woe to the person who decides to say or insinuate something negatively to me or mine!

'Course now, I will try to bite in a 'nice' way.

I know you are being serious dear. But you really sound like you need a giggle and a hug....

Love from TX

AGNJoe1 48M

3/5/2006 2:49 pm

True. But it's hard to giggle and hug when some of your best friends are under attack by others because they can't play nice with everyone else.

I'm better now for venting it out, however.


LustGoddess2469 51F  
2453 posts
3/6/2006 6:40 am



AGNJoe1 48M

3/6/2006 7:38 pm

Thank Maura. Right back at ya!


pussinboots4u 51M/48F

3/8/2006 10:22 am

Geez - nothing changes around here!

This is just pitiful - LustGoddes - don't you dare leave over this bullshit. This isn't right.

Oh - Hi Joe - sorry haven't been around much - really busy lately.

AGNJoe1 48M

3/25/2006 8:23 pm

Puss - Thanks for stopping by again! Long time no see. Or is it type. Anyway, thanks again for stopping by!


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