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fantasylover_05 69M

1/20/2006 7:11 am

Good post Sexy... I love the concept!!

I have lived with a woman whom has touched me in any kind of sexual way so few times I can probably count them on my fingers... and that is in a span of 31+ YEARS!! She has NEVER initiated sex... she simply does not "participate"... and so I have given up...

IT IS AN "UNBUDGETED ITEM"!!

I would settle for even a NOMINAL BUDGET!! But I wish both departments to contribute to the budget or I am just not interested!


angelofmercy5 66F
17879 posts
1/20/2006 8:13 am

Interesting post. I will be watching the comments with interest.


sillyperv 61M

1/20/2006 8:26 am

Dated a girl who did not like did not like giving head and her obvious displeasure at the couple of times she tried just had me never ask again. Inspite of that minor issue, it was still the best sexual relationship I ever had because everything else clicked.


junglejim47172 63M

1/20/2006 12:05 pm

    Quoting fantasylover_05:
    Good post Sexy... I love the concept!!

    I have lived with a woman whom has touched me in any kind of sexual way so few times I can probably count them on my fingers... and that is in a span of 31+ YEARS!! She has NEVER initiated sex... she simply does not "participate"... and so I have given up...

    IT IS AN "UNBUDGETED ITEM"!!

    I would settle for even a NOMINAL BUDGET!! But I wish both departments to contribute to the budget or I am just not interested!
Hey Fantasylover are you dating my wife on the side?

The only time she ever initiated sex was when she was drunk. As for blow jobs, she would suck me right to the edge of cumming and stop to hop on, or let me on. Yeah, this is part of the reason for the impending divorse. Sex has to come equally from both partners in my book. Besides I ate her to mutiples several times a session. She could at least return the favor occationaly. Hell even a hand job to break the monotany would have been nice.


goldinboy2 67M

1/20/2006 2:40 pm

No Budget Being single I just let the cards fall and see what happens I'm old enough to know that I won't die without it but wise enough to take a big handfull and enjoy it when it happens.I acually get hit on by a lot of younger women?? I find it strange but interesting.


TopFisher 70M

1/20/2006 3:03 pm

JJ & FL,

Yes, I had one just like it, 28 yrs was enough of that. Found me a woman that knows how to have sex and enjoys it. ok several of them

Seems sad that so many tend to fuck up an otherwise good RL/marriage, one reason that monogamy sucks so bad.

BTW Marriage is the #1 cause of Divorce.. har har!!


sexymermaid6956 70F
26383 posts
1/21/2006 12:46 pm

i have a great budget mmmmm I get you a bud what do i get....mmmmmm no in all honesty i am on a low budget to..

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Seduce my mind and my body


Michael_IG65 59M

1/21/2006 1:55 pm

Are there any toys out there that are really expensive?

How about those Sybian? machines... are they expensive? Can they be bought online?


TabithaElectra79 45F

1/21/2006 2:51 pm

I don't think the words 'tolerable' and 'sex' should ever be seen out in public together, it says something is wrong to me somewhere if this is the case...


warmandsexy52 71M
13158 posts
1/22/2006 3:25 am

This is a really interesting post because it raises a lot of issues to do with how we develop as sexual beings. We all have limits to what we find acceptable or even loving and in a long term relationship such as a marriage what one partner feels uncomfortable with the other partner then feels frustrated by.

To some degree this can be dealt with by communicating but where the "no go" areas of one seriously mismatch the desires of the other then problems do appear.

The trouble is that we are not educated in being sexual beings. We all learn along the way in this kind of piecemeal ad-hoc way. Social mores largely obstruct any moves to change this. Strict monogamy ultimately limits this "education" to what happens between two people who may well have met and married before reaching any fullness of understanding their own sexuality.

If we took the same approach to literacy how many bloggers would be on this site?

warm xx


MarinadelMar 66F

1/22/2006 4:39 am

Sexual budget? It's certainly an interesting concept.
Children do limit a couple's freedom for sexual expression and there's no escaping that fact. A mentally disabled child makes it even more difficult especially when one partner has to be the primary carer while the other works. The last eighteen years were pretty much sexually barren in our (almost) twenty seven year marriage.
But we held together because we have a great relationship outside the sexual sphere. We are friends, confidants, business partners and more.
But don't give up hope - miracles do happen! From being a woman who never initiated sex, disliked giving blow jobs, was inhibited and had a very low level of self esteem, I've finally managed to 'get on board' as it were. The last year has been very exciting both for my husband and myself....
You could say our current Sexual Budget provides well for both of us


digallwomen 59M
21 posts
1/22/2006 5:43 pm

I'm single and presently not seeing anyone. Budget! I wish! Lately , I'm giving myself the old five finger discount. lol God that is so sad.

P.S. As well as having a beautiful body, you also possess a very sharp mind. Great subjects and some very good writing!


SoljerBlu 46M

1/22/2006 9:55 pm

The only sex budget is ZERO or anything beyond that.. and I always vote for anything beyond Zero... and I really hate that I sit on Zero right now! 809


redswallow777 55M
6809 posts
1/23/2006 9:21 am

I have never thought of sex as a commodity that I have to budget. It is someting I share with the one I love when we both need it. The supply is not exhaustible so there is no need to budget it.


rm_larmorg 50M

1/24/2006 7:59 am

I have to agree with many of the others responding to your query. I also have to wonder if there isn't a bit a societal disconnect happening. We see sexual activity and different persuasions being expressed more openly in the media, television, movies, everyday life, etc, yet the many of the friends I have spent time with have more of a Victorian, repressed or conservative view toward these types of activities. The difference is interesting. Are they missing something? Am I missing something?


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