my head is done in  

80sangel 37F
161 posts
4/2/2006 4:40 am

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4/27/2006 2:04 am

my head is done in


i joined this site because i was confused, i sit here mnow even morte confused at least when i joined i wanted sex evrn if i didnt want love...... now i question the lonliness and wonder why im still alone again...
after resent meets i have realised im not made for this life... because i need more than a fuck i need to connect on a level that i dont seem to obtain with people so far...
i am still getting my head screwed on this site by men...
idont know what i need? but i have a feeling i aint going to get it on here

blackwidow02 45F

4/2/2006 9:25 am

hey lass hang in there you will find what you looking for but it will take time sweat and pain to get what you want,tears,confusion,and at the end of it all the path that you want to walk on will be the right path.
hugs
BWxx

xXx BW xXx[group what tickles your fancy


rm_badbadshark 51M
2 posts
4/2/2006 9:37 am

Everyone wants to be loved. They also want to be fucked. That's a basic physical need you can't escape from. It isn't essential to be in love with a person to want to fuck them. But it's a whole dfferent ball game if you are. It is scary, because you are truelly vulnerable and you can get more deeply hurt than you have ever been. You can hide from that for as long as you like. But you can't get what you really want without facing it. And taking the risk. And probably failing a few times too. And that hurts. That's life. Love might be a fools paradise, but it's the only one we are ever likely to experience. Can't remember who said that but I like it.


80sangel 37F

4/2/2006 12:45 pm

    Quoting blackwidow02:
    hey lass hang in there you will find what you looking for but it will take time sweat and pain to get what you want,tears,confusion,and at the end of it all the path that you want to walk on will be the right path.
    hugs
    BWxx
thank you bw
i know there is away but the lastfew days i seem to be getting more and more depresse i do wonder if i need to break it all togerther


80sangel 37F

4/2/2006 12:47 pm

    Quoting rm_badbadshark:
    Everyone wants to be loved. They also want to be fucked. That's a basic physical need you can't escape from. It isn't essential to be in love with a person to want to fuck them. But it's a whole dfferent ball game if you are. It is scary, because you are truelly vulnerable and you can get more deeply hurt than you have ever been. You can hide from that for as long as you like. But you can't get what you really want without facing it. And taking the risk. And probably failing a few times too. And that hurts. That's life. Love might be a fools paradise, but it's the only one we are ever likely to experience. Can't remember who said that but I like it.
well getting to love someone actually worthy of my love would be a fine thing....


rm_badbadshark 51M
2 posts
4/2/2006 3:07 pm

    Quoting 80sangel:
    well getting to love someone actually worthy of my love would be a fine thing....
Unfortuneately the world is a bit shit like that. You don't get to decide who you fall in love with. And ultimately you don't get to judge anyone but you. When people behave like, well, people really, it doesn't make me feel bad about myself. Not anymore. What I do and how I treat people is what makes me feel good or bad about me. I refuse to sacrifice what I like about me just because someone else allows themselves to behave like a fuckwit.


rm_Smiler742 44M
1 post
4/2/2006 5:10 pm

I dont' think this site is hard to find someone you're gonna fall in love with. Seems mostly like a place to have fun.

And whilst you're single, have fun, and enjoy the ride. You don't know what's around the corner.

T


rm_turtleBurp 45F
1273 posts
4/2/2006 5:33 pm

Sorry to hear that angel... hope you don't leave the site cos it's fun having you around. Hope things improve for you soon too babe.


80sangel 37F

4/2/2006 10:48 pm

    Quoting rm_turtleBurp:
    Sorry to hear that angel... hope you don't leave the site cos it's fun having you around. Hope things improve for you soon too babe.
cheeky i aint decide what im going to do..
but i think i just need to stop thinking
but i think its hard to do when someone offers you away out of all your peoblems and you have to turn them down


80sangel 37F

4/2/2006 10:50 pm

    Quoting rm_Smiler742:
    I dont' think this site is hard to find someone you're gonna fall in love with. Seems mostly like a place to have fun.

    And whilst you're single, have fun, and enjoy the ride. You don't know what's around the corner.

    T
smiler i never came here looking for love
i dont expect to find it oon this site it is a site for fun (which i have been taking full advantage of )

but fun isnt always enough


rm_aidyleeds 52M
15 posts
4/3/2006 4:25 am

know what u mean angel, i like what i read about you, i kmow you are stunning and therefore i would never stand a chance. however if you want a friend to chat to no strings just chat. give me a try things in this life are never easy sometimes you need just to confide in someone and let them listen and help.


OrionsAdventures 38M

4/3/2006 4:12 pm

Hi Angel,
Welcome to the Hull group. I've been comming to this site for many years and I can tell you that I never really found a lover or even a sex mate but I've met allot of friends. If I was still in Hull I would have liked to meet you and present you to the gang that lives in Hull cause they are super. If you have a chance go to one of the meets, you won't regret it I know I didn't.

Have fun Girl and don't let bad thoughts put you down.

Orion xxxx


Move2YourBeat 60M

4/4/2006 7:08 am

Angel, the one thing you have got here is friends. Love is something else. If you feel lonely now just how bad would it be if you walked away from your friends?

You've also got the fun element, which is the bit that's leaving you feeling empty. Many of us have felt like that in the past, or even still do. You can choose how you have your fun and leaving may help, but it's much harder to find new friends. Stick with us.


Fun2beWithJames 40M
1 post
4/4/2006 7:57 am

80s Angel - if you want to chat to a nice guy who is like you after more than just sex . unfortunately I am a standard member and can't contact ur profile. Chin up and don't worry.


NITROUSNICK666 38M

4/4/2006 10:32 am

we all have bad days, there is that special someone out there for everyone, it just takes time to find them thats all.
keep your chin up, me and all in tag will look after you, you know where we are if you need to get anything off your chest and out of your system, its good to talk to people rather than bottling it up. tag taught me that.
take care and keep smiling xxx


BigThu17 43M

4/4/2006 10:35 am

80's Angel

Being an 80's devil i tink you are trying 2 connect with the wrong type of people, i'm male and have just started out on this mission that is "loopey love" i'm in search of a sexual connection that will blow my mind! I think you should remember opposites attract,don't loose hope,beverley is not to far away,

Yours hopefully

8o's Devil


rm_wantingyouuk 41M
1 post
4/5/2006 5:04 am

to be honest I know that I cannot offer you love but if you need someone to talk to then I will be here for you, I prefer to get to know people first, done my one night stand things and although they are fun at the time, have never left a lasting impression on me like really knowing a person before knowing them intimately.

anyway write back if you want to
cheers

A
XXX


inspectordribble 53M

4/5/2006 11:02 am

Hang in there kid, not every one is out for a quick shag, there are decent guys out there, but as i've found with this site, its more about friendship, ok if you want a quick shag its also there, but what you are looking for may also be there, you just haven't found it, or looked in the right place.


mrbenuk1 48M

4/5/2006 4:09 pm

orion is right,get yourself to the meet and have fun,youll get through this.
the people ive met so far have been sound,but youve got to find your own way.
i hope you stick around but if you do decide to take a break(which you might need) then dont forget us and come back soon.
xxxx


80sangel 37F

4/6/2006 1:18 am

i do know this site cant offer me anything but friendship and i have made some good friends...
i'll be at the hull meet just feeling sorry for myself..
need to snap out of it have a laugh..

i am going through a lot at the moment and finding it difficult... so it is affectin all aspects even the ones i am happy with in most ways

so thank you all for your kind words and good advice
xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

and if anyone fancys a coffee and a chin wag be it a virtual one get in touch
xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx


rm_ideserveit2 49M
77 posts
4/10/2006 3:45 pm

i think of you at the tag meet and by the way you have left an impression on me you are nice to talk to and nice to know hope i can count you in as a good friend and dont let the perves drag you down that are only after one thing and you know what i mean xx ideserveit2


rm_ideserveit2 49M
77 posts
4/10/2006 3:48 pm

i wish we could have spoken a bit more as you are very special and we could have got to know each other better


rm_cumtome471 47M
1 post
4/13/2006 1:38 pm

hi there 80sangel, sorry to hear you are feeling a bit down.
i noticed that 4:40 am was the time you posted you must have been tired. try and have some sweet dreams and be good to yourself. lol


rm_minimuncher 39M
47 posts
4/26/2006 4:40 pm

80's you'll bounce back b4 you know it. ride the rough and feel sorry for yourself, it's self medication. as soon as you catch that good wave ride it, till it ends.

best of

mini
xx


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