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75231michael 41M
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9/2/2006 2:06 pm

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Marital Status?
[x]Single
[]Married
[]Divorced (currently single)
[]Committed relationship with Significant Other

SEXUAL ATTITUDES:
When is the right time to have sex?

[]Only if married, for the purpose of having children
[]Only if married
[]Only in a committed relationship
[]After you have known the person a while
[x]Any time (When isn't the right time to have sex??)

What do you think the minimum age should be for having consensual sex? (assuming both are of the same age)
[]21 or older
[x]18 or older
[]17 or older
[]16 or older
[]15 or older
[]14 or older
[]13 or older
[]12 or older
[]Any age the person desires to explore sex

Typically, how often do you FEEL THE DESIRE for sexual stimulation? (Masturbation or sex)
[]2x+ Multiple times/day
[]1x Once a day
[x]Every other day
[]Several times/week (3-4x)
[]Once/week
[]Couple times/month
[]Once/month or less
[]Never

Typically, how often do you EXPERIENCE sexual stimulation?
[]2x+ Multiple times/day
[]1x Once a day
[]Every other day
[]Several times/week (3-4x)
[x]Once/week
[]Couple times/month
[]Once/month or less
[x]Never Egypt sucks

At what age did you first begin exploring your own sexuality?
[]5 or younger
[]6
[x]7
[]8
[]9
[]10
[]11
[]12
[]13
[]14
[]15
[]16
[]17
[]18
[]19
[]20+

How did you learn about how to have sex?
[]Never really learned about it, just began exploring
[]Learned it from media/books/Internet
[]Learned it from Sex Ed. In school
[]Learned by watching neighborhood dogs
[]Incest/ (against your will)
[]Shown by a friend
[]Explained by a friend
[]Shown by parents or relatives
[x]Explained by parents or relative
[]Other (including alien life forms)

MASTURBATION:
(Only females answer) Females: Do you masturbate?

[]Yes
[]No - It's wrong/bad
[]No - It's disgusting
[]No - Haven't had the desire
[]No - I have regular sex
[]No - I'm married (I'm not allowed to)

(Only males answer) Males: Do you masturbate?
[x]Yes
[]No - It's wrong/bad
[]No - It's disgusting
[]No - Haven't had the desire
[]No - I have regular sex
[]No - I'm married (I'm not allowed to)

How often do you commonly masturbate?
[]9+ times/day
[]7-8 times/day
[]5-6 times/day
[]3-4 times/day
[]2 times/day
[]1 Once a day
[]Every other day
[x]Several times/week (3-4x)
[]Once/week
[]Couple times/month
[]Once/month or less
[]Never

What percent ( of the population do you think masturbates?
[x]100%
[]90%
[]75%
[]50%
[]33%
[]25%
[]10%
[]Just me

Have you ever masturbated with people watching? Who?
[]Yes- friend of the same sex
[x]Yes- friend of the opposite sex
[x]Yes- a lover
[]Yes- a parent
[]Yes- a brother/sister
[]Yes- a relative
[]Yes- a person I knew/stranger
[]No

What types of images significantly arouse you? Pictures of: (check all that apply)
[x]Nude females (not doing anything)
[]Nude males (not doing anything)
[x]Females masturbating
[]Males masturbating
[x]Female lesbian sex
[]Male gay sex
[]Young teens
[x]Use of sex toys
[x]Male & Female- caressing
[x]Male & Female- vaginal penetration
[x]Male & Female- anal penetration
[x]Male & Female- group sex (3+ people)
[x]Male & Female- kinky/bondage
[]With animals

What do you most often think about while you are masturbating?
[x]My lover/partner
[x]Things I have done before
[x]Fantasies (that I am unlikely to experience)
[x]Fantasies (that I probably will experience)
[]Nothing, I just feel the physical sensations

INTERCOURSE:
Males: How big is your fully erect penis?
(truthfully, not in your dreams
[]3" or smaller
[]4"
[]5"
[]6"
[x]7"
[]8"
[]9"
[]10"
[]11"
[]12" or larger

Males: Do you feel your penis is:
[]WAY too small (Im not happy with it)
[]Small (Its tolerable)
[x]OK size (Im happy)
[]Large (Im really happy)
[]Too Large (Im not happy)

Males: How important do you think penis size is to woman?
[]Critical!
[]Important
[x]Somewhat important
[]Not a big deal
[]Could care less (unless it was WAY big or small)

Females: How important is penis size to you?
[]Critical! (I'd dump him on the spot)
[]Important
[]Somewhat important
[]Not a big deal
[]Could care less (unless it was WAY big or small)

Females: How big would you prefer a penis to be?
Don't really care
[]3" or smaller
[]4"
[]5"
[]6"
[]7"
[]8"
[]9"
[]10"
[]11"
[]12" or larger

Females: How big are your breasts?
[]32 A or smaller
[]32 B
[]34 A
[]34 C
[]34 D
[]36 A i think i dont know oh well they never grew
[]36 B
[]36 C
[]36 D
[]38 B
[]38 C
[]38 D or larger

Females: Do you feel your breasts are:
[]WAY too small (Im not happy with them)
[]Small (their tolerable)
[]OK size (Im happy)
[]Large (Im really happy)
[]Too Large (Im not happy)

Females: How important do you think breast sizes are to man?
[]Critical!
[]Important
[]Somewhat important
[]Not a big deal
[]Could care less (unless it was WAY big or small)

Males: How important is Womens breast size to you?
[]Critical!
[]Important
[]Somewhat important
[x]Not a big deal
[]Not important (Women have breasts? I hadnt noticed.)

Males: How big would you prefer breasts to be?
[x]Don't really care
[]32 A or smaller
[]32 B
[]34 A
[]34 C
[]34 D
[]36 A
[]36 B
[]36 C
[]36 D
[]38 B
[]38 C
[]38 D or larger

How often at work/school do you fantasize about having sex with the people around you?
[]Frequently (a desire to screw everyone)
[x]Every once in a while
[]Seldomly
[]Never-

FOREPLAY:
Foreplay is sexual activity that comes BEFORE intercourse.

Which items are foreplay to you, and not intercourse [check all that apply]
[x]Oral sex
[x]Genital fingering, stroking, licking
[x]Using sex toys (dildo's vibrators) on genitals/body
[x]Massaging
[x]Touching/rubbing the body
[x]Kissing
[x]Teasing
[]Hugging & embracing
[]Talking dirty
[x]Being sexually suggestive/flirting
[x]Making sexual plans for later
[x]Occasional suggestive genital contact
[]Having a meal knowing sex will follow
[]Seeing a movie knowing sex will follow
[]Being Nude around the other person

Males: How important do you feel foreplay is to you?
[x]Extremely Important
[]Moderately important
[]Somewhat important
[]Don't need it

Females: How important do you feel foreplay is to you?
[]Extremely Important
[]Moderately important
[]Somewhat important
[]Don't need it

How long do you TYPICALLY spend on foreplay?
What's foreplay?
[x]1- 5 min
[x]5-10 min
[x]10-20 min
[x]20-30 min
[x]30-40 min
[x]40-60 min
[x]1 hr - 1.5 hrs
[]1.5 hrs - 2 hrs
[]2-4 hours
[]4-8 hours+

SEXUAL ORIENTATION:
What do you consider yourself?
[x]Straight (heterosexual)
[]Bisexual (and/or curious)
[]Gay
[]Lesbian
[]Other

Males: To you, what defines a person as being homosexual? _____________ a person of the same sex.
[]Hugging
[x]Loving/caring for
[]Having a sexual experience with
[x]Having sex multiple times with
[x]Being in a relationship with

Females: To you, what defines a person as being homosexual? _____________ a person of the same sex.
[]Hugging
[]Loving/caring for
[]Having a sexual experience with
[]Having sex multiple times with
[]Being in a relationship with

Are there things that you have wanted to do, but wont do- for fear you would be labeled homosexual?
[]Yes- happens often
[]Yes- happens some times
[x]No- doesn't bother me, I don't have to prove anything
[]No- doesn't bother me, I am homosexual

Do you know of anyone who is homosexual (by their own definition)
[]Yes- 10+ people
[]Yes- 5-10 people
[x]Yes- 3-5 people
[]Yes- 1-2 people
[]No, no one

Do you know of anyone who is bisexual (by their own definition)
(Bisexual= comfortable having sex with both male and female)
[]Yes- 10+ people
[]Yes- 5-10 people
[x]Yes- 3-5 people
[]Yes- 1-2 people
[]No, no one

Males: What level of acceptance do you have towards homosexuals?
[]None, they should not exist
[]Little, I can deal with them if I don't have to see or hear about them
[]Moderate, doesn't bother me much, just a little weird
[x]High, there is nothing different- they are people too

Females: What level of acceptance do you have towards homosexuals?
[]None, they should not exist
[]Little, I can deal with them if I don't have to see or hear about them
[]Moderate, doesn't bother me much, just a little weird
[]High, there is nothing different- they are people too

USING SEX TOYS:
What sex toys do you like using [pick no more than 3]
[]Dildo
[]Vibrating dildo
[]Strap on penis/dildo
[x]Vibrator
[]Artificial Vagina
[]Penis Pump
[]Cock-ring
[]Ball weights
[]Blow-up doll
[]Leather gear (whips/harnesses/etc)
[x]Tie down/restraint/bondage items
[x]Fruits/vegetables
[]Bottle (plastic/glass) LOL thats a good one
[x]Other home made objects
[x]Other

My use of sex toys is primarily:
[]For masturbating
[]Because my partner can't
[x]To enhance intercourse

How often do you normally use a sex toy?
[]100%
[]80%
[]60%
[]40%
[]20%
[]10%
[x]Seldom
[]Never

Have you ever worn a sex toy under your clothes at work/school/in public?
[]Yes- almost daily
[]Yes- often
[]Yes- sometimes
[]Yes- have done it before
[]No

ORAL SEX:
(Cunnilingus on female= licking clitoris/vagina, Fellatio on male= sucking penis)

How often do you normally use oral sex in intercourse?
[x]100%
[]80%
[]60%
[]40%
[]20%
[]10%
[]Seldom
[]Never

Males: How much do you like GIVING oral sex?
[x]A lot! (My favorite!)
[]I enjoy it
[]It's ok
[]I can do it sometimes
[]Ick how gross!

Females: How much do you like GIVING oral sex?
[]A lot! (My favorite!)
[]I enjoy it
[]It's ok
[]I can do it sometimes
[]Ick how gross!

Males: How much do you like RECEIVING oral sex?
[]A lot! (Can never get enough!)
[x]I enjoy it
[]It's ok
[]I don't like it

Females: How much do you like RECEIVING oral sex?
[]A lot! (Can never get enough!)
[]I enjoy it
[]It's ok
[]I don't like it

How is the taste/smell of clitoris/vagina to you?
[]I love it!
[x]It's nice
[x]It's ok, sometimes I don't care for it
[]I often don't like it
[]I want to vomit.

How is the taste/smell of penis & ejaculate to you?
[]I love it!
[]It's nice
[]It's ok, sometimes I don't care for it~ depends on the person
[]I often don't like it
[]I want to vomit.

ANAL SEX:
Females: Have you ever RECEIVED anal sex?
[]Yes- Often
[]Yes- Occasionally
[]Yes
[]No- but would like to try some time
[]No- would never try

Males: Have you ever RECEIVED anal sex?
[]Yes- Often
[]Yes- Occasionally
[]Yes- Seldomly
[x]No- but would like to try some time
[x]No- would never try

Did you enjoy receiving it? (Skip if never had it)
[]Yes- it felt great
[]Yes- it felt ok
[]Yes- it didn't feel great, but was a wild experience
[]No- person went too fast, it hurt
[]No- didn't like it

Females: Have you ever GIVEN anal sex (with dildo/finger)?
[]Yes- Often
[]Yes- Occasionally
[]Yes- Seldomly
[]No- but would like to try some time
[]No- would never try

Males: Have you ever GIVEN anal sex (with penis)?
[]Yes- Often
[]Yes- Occasionally
[]Yes- Seldomly
[x]No- but would like to try some time
[x]No- would never try

GROUP SEX:
What is the most number of people you have had sex with at the same time (all together)?
[]Me + 2 (both of opposite sex)
[]Me + 2 (both of same sex)
[]Me + 2 (1 male, 1 female) i was drunk and she wanted us both we stayed on opisit ends though
[]Me + 3 other
[]Me + 4 other
[]Me + 5 other
[]Me + 6 or more
[x]Never had group sex- would like to!
[]Never had group sex- don't want to

Who were the participants?
[]My significant other, and friends
[]My significant other, and stranger
[]Bunch of good friends
[]Some people I knew
[]Total strangers

How would you describe your experience?
[]Awesome!
[]Good
[]Ok
[]Didn't like it

Would you do group sex again?
[]I do it regularly
[x]Definitely
[]Under the right circumstances
[]Maybe
[]No

KINKY SEX:
Have you ever had sex in a public place?
[x]Yes- was great! Would do it again
[]Yes- was great, wouldn't do again
[]Yes- was ok
[]Yes- didn't like it
[]No- but would like to
[]No- don't want to

Have you ever had sex where you were tied up?
[x]Yes- was great! Would do it again
[]Yes- was great, wouldn't do again
[]Yes- was ok
[]Yes- didn't like it
[]No- but would like to
[]No- don't want to

Have you ever had sex that involved experiencing pain?
[x]Yes- was great! Would do it again
[]Yes- was great, wouldn't do again
[x]Yes- was ok
[]Yes- didn't like it
[]No- but would like to
[]No- don't want to

PROTECTION SURVEY:
Females: What is your preferred method of protection from pregnancy?
[]Condom- male
[]Condom- female
[]Birth control Pills
[]Vaginal Contraceptive Film
[]Spermicidal cream only
[]Diaphragm
[]Cap
[]Sponge
[]Pulling out before ejaculation
[]Calendar (time of the month)
[]IUD
[]Norplant
[]Depo-Provera
[]Sterilization
[]Morning after pill
[]NONE

Males: What is your preferred method of protection from pregnancy?
[x]Condom- male
[]Condom- female
[]Birth control Pills
[]Vaginal Contraceptive Film
[]Spermicidal cream only
[]Diaphragm
[]Cap
[]Sponge
[]Pulling out before ejaculation
[]Calendar (time of the month)
[]IUD
[]Norplant
[]Depo-Provera
[]Sterilization
[]Morning after pill
iv had a victomy
[]NONE

How concerned are you about catching a Sexually Transmitted Disease?
[]Extremely concerned, I never have risky sex
[]Concerned, I have rarely had risky sex
[x]Somewhat concerned, I don't often have risky sex
[]Not concerned- I don't care
[]Not concerned- I won't catch anything

SassyGrlNxtDoor 41F

9/15/2006 1:48 pm

what a great survey, wish everyone would take this thing on AdultFriendFinder to get to know where they stand. Good stuff.


75231michael 41M

9/16/2006 7:44 pm

well thanks,AdultFriendFinder has a lot of tools yet to be used as much as i thank they would be. if only pll would open up moor and act moor grown up about things. i have nothing to be ashamed of and i work to be restful to others. so hers to braking the ICE.


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