Would it be possible to eventually have a serious relationship with someone from here?  

4ureyesonly68 49F
19 posts
7/16/2006 2:28 am

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Would it be possible to eventually have a serious relationship with someone from here?

Hello to all. You read my title and some of you probably thought I must be crazy. Perhaps,but I have read a lot of profiles and there is a few people that are not only looking for sex but also looking for a partner who is as frisky and kinky than they are.

What do you think? I just want to hear your thoughts, musing , rantings and opinions about this.

Also is there any of you here who started just a casual /physical relationship with someone from here and at one point or another transcended to a perhaps less casual relationshop...maybe even serious? Even if you are not still currently with that person...let us know.

rm_stepatatime2 63M
1 post
7/16/2006 3:24 am

That would be my hope 4youreyes. It would be alot easier to meet somone with like interests. I'm a guy that likes to wear panties, try telling that to a woman you work with. I just want a woman who's into it, not just tolerating it.

rm_zorro054 53M

7/18/2006 6:23 pm


I agree with you. Obviously, the sex thing is kind of an initial spicy incentive to stop by the first times. Also, I want to find out peoples views on alternative lifestyles. But my impression from what I have seen here is that some think that adultfriend is some sort of a cyberbrothel. Or they may be cybercheaters on their partners.

We are human beings, and sexuality is always in some part of our psyche. But you talk to the real person, and find much more besides the sexual attraction. Thats the law of life.

I havent met anybody from this forum yet. Hopefully, I will meet a few at some point.

xaviercruz2000 48M

7/21/2006 10:45 am

Let's face it.. most of us are married and the ones that are not are usually freaks of nature(low selfesteem, socially challenged, sex addicts ect). It will take time and patience. I have found that the few stable people I have meet are curious passers, just trying to see what the internet offers. They quickly learn and abandon ship. it takes time... it's has worked for me. I suggest you keep trying patiently. I am sure you will find a good guy that wants the same.

Bruce0002006 53M
18 posts
7/23/2006 10:32 am

Anything is possible. At this site, men and women can meet others with the same sexual interests and desires. The problem is that relationships take a lot more than sex to make it work. That is why that fifty percent of marriages fail. A couple starts out with a strong physical attraction to each other but they never looked past the great sex in the bedroom. Serious issues like working, paying the bills, raising kids, in-laws, and communication are not looked at before marriage. I view ADF as entertainment, not as a place to find a spouse. Blind dates would be better.

hazeleyes1202 60M

7/31/2006 12:35 am

Yes, it is very possible to meet a person from this site. I met a women on this site that has taken me to places I have always wanted to go, but had never found a women interested in going there. We get along very well but we have never entertained a long term relationship with one another.

rm_BaMBaMyAko 35M
6 posts
7/31/2006 12:44 am

yo quisiera ver todo eso mi amor

rm_elcrazy18 33M
1 post
7/31/2006 8:38 pm

hola chulita espero estes bn me gustaria conocerte saber ti lo mas pronto posible me gusta conocer nuevas personas ya q yo pienso q de cada persona se aprende algo nuevo y quisiera saber q puedo aprender de ti cuidate un monto bye bye chulita

SIStormrider 64M/56F

8/6/2006 1:52 pm

Yes it would work if bothe were very free minded....I would try with you if you like..John

sexman0063 45M
1 post
8/28/2006 8:56 pm

Si tienes razon porque ese es mi caso.Es en buscar una buena pareja de sexo y una buena conpa-ia y amistad.

elsato2 62M

9/3/2006 10:13 pm

I think the real question will be: Do you want to have a serious relationship with someone from here?

4ureyesonly68 49F

9/6/2006 4:49 pm

Your question is moot because if I'm asking it means I am willing and at the same time I am wondering if other people share similar lines of thoughts.

Still you haven' answer the question with either pro or con or abstained.

rm_DiazAlfaro 30M
8 posts
3/7/2009 9:04 pm

Why of course!
When we have sex in daily life we usually meet someone, get to know them a little/a lot then have sex and then [or before]decide if we should make that relationship a little more serious.
Knowing each other sexually first would be just inverting the patterns of daily life, thus, making it more fun and diverse.
The result can still be the same.

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