Getting Single Women To Play......  

4F_Club 40G
15 posts
5/21/2006 4:40 pm

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Getting Single Women To Play......

This is a broad subject, however, I've been hit on many of occassions asking for advice from other single men, women, couples and most of all groups on how to get single women to attend a function. Well my friends, please listen closely.

First thing, you have to offer up something original. Be creative with your approach, don't attempt to get something that is not looking for your type, and most importantly, send recent photos, have them posted or on hand.

Most of the single women on this site have an agenda. They don't sit around their computers all day wondering how many times they are going to see "You have a nice profile/pics, can we hook up?" You will more than likely be deleted and blocked. In order for a single woman to hit you back with a one liner like that, she one, has to be horny as hell and has nothing better to do, or is one of the bots on here that is trying to get you to join another website that you have to pay to see them on webcam.

Just because they are on the site, doesn't make them desperate. Read their profile, and base your message off of what their saying. My group has been very successful with bringing single women to the party. Not for the fact that I run a group, to tell you the truth that makes it worste, but for the fact that I tailor my invites/messages and tease around the strong points of their profiles.

If you would like to ask a specific question, feel free to ask. I actually enjoy helping AdultFriendFinder members out in their quest to live out their fantasies. I hope to hear from you soon.......AL

angelofmercy5 60F
17881 posts
5/21/2006 6:20 pm

Welcome to the Blogs!

4F_Club 40G

5/24/2006 9:12 pm

Thanks, and their will be more to come. I welcome the love showed....AL

tyger342436 50F  
6 posts
5/26/2006 4:34 am

What a stroke of Genius;Genius.


4F_Club 40G

5/27/2006 9:35 am

Thank you Tyger.

kity98101 57F

6/21/2006 7:28 pm

*Applauds* Makes sense to me.

brazilienhotness 49M/47F

6/25/2006 7:26 am

Ok here is one for you how about single women who say they want to be with a couple but then say they have man? What is that all about if you got a man get a couple's profile what's with the games? I realize you have more to loose as a single woman but we are all grown people here and if you are saying one thing in your profile but do something else that needs to be in you profile. That's why our profile is as clear as it is when it comes to women in general.

K & K

4F_Club 40G

6/26/2006 8:48 am


I have run into that situation alot. There is really nothing you can do about it. What I typically do is ask right off the back when I first write them. So there is not misunderstandng later on. I have no problem with playing with couples, however, the male must be hetero. But this typically is the easiest way to go about it.

rm_fucmehard2ma 34F

7/9/2006 11:43 pm

all i have to say is that i just might have to take a trip to cum to one of these "party" of yours and turn it out.

rm_fucmehard2ma 34F

7/9/2006 11:44 pm

all i have to say is that i just might have to take a trip to cum to one of these "party" of yours and turn it out.

4F_Club 40G

7/10/2006 1:17 pm

fucmehard2ma....thanks for the love, and maybe you should. The next two parties are in Philadelphia (15 July) and Miami (22 July)........AL

rm_cableguy3333 43M
29 posts
7/25/2006 7:41 am

hi hope u throw a party in uk sometime, but as 4 the advice why tell everyone if they havnt got the commonsense 2 work that out 4 them selves then they r obviously useless with women, then the poor women is going 2 think he knows wot he is doing and when they hook up she will b dissappointed

4F_Club 40G

7/26/2006 2:48 pm

Cable Guy;

The thing is this... I'm here to help people in their quest in sexual exploration. I fulfill fantasies. I'n not going to be a selfish person in keeping good information to myself. The more the merrier. I am actually coming to to Germany soon.

rm_kblguy4373 45M/41F
2 posts
7/31/2006 4:54 pm

Thanks 4F...I plan to take your advice to heart and hopefully my next party will be one to remember. Just bought a new house and a new Sybian...but it seems like there are a lot of flaky people in California. They say they will come, but never show. I'm not in the business of calling time and time again to see if people are still coming. I guess that's Cali for you. The friends that did show up to the last party had a blast, but we could have used more friends. Next time I will plan a month out...I will focus on profile hot spots for the single women, and I will get the word of mouth out there. Thanks

And the next time your in Southern Cali...hit us up.

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