I Can't Be That Selfish  

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7/9/2006 12:13 pm
I Can't Be That Selfish

A reader commented a couple of blogs back about her dislike for the term "no strings attached". I don't blame her. As an abstract concept, there is a certain appeal in the idea, but as a practical matter, I can't get involved sexually without being involved emotionally.

Does that mean I want long term relationships with the women I sleep with? Certainly not. But if I do get involved with someone, it is because I care about her. The downside of this is that because I care, I do mourn the relationship when it ends.

I wouldn't have it any other way. The depth and richness of the relationship make the heartbreak at the end worth it.

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