How do you know?  

2playfulandhorny 54F
41 posts
1/22/2006 7:34 am

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How do you know?

How do you know the woman you are with has obtained an orgasm the first time you are with her? I've asked this question a few times lately. Some have said they know because she moans, or twitches, or her cunt squeezes their cock. But I think the best answer I have heard so far, is that they ask her.

I myself, moan and squeeze during sex, just because it feels good, not necessarily because of orgasm. I have had men assume I've orgasmed and moved onto their own. I wonder how many other women out there are being "misunderstood"?

However, to their credit, I also have tried to fake orgasm with a couple when I knew there was no way I was going to get there (and was just tired of trying), but they knew better.

So guys, I'm curious--how do you really know she has cum? And gals, how many of you feel misunderstood? Do you fake at all/often? Can you get away with it or the guy you are with can tell?

onefastmouse 53M

1/23/2006 4:23 pm

Of the women I've been with; some have had unmistakable contortions during orgasm and some I could never tell if or when they ever had an orgasm.

Personally I'm a very vocal and inquisitive lover so I tend to let everyone know when I'm cumming... both physically and verbally and I look for the same from my partners.

If I ever faked it you'd never know...

dreammaker1958b 59M

1/25/2006 10:08 am

Of the ladies I have been with only a few I could tell and that is because the were very vocal. So I ask and try harder.

tokraf 58M
3 posts
1/25/2006 7:13 pm

I can usualy tell when the gal I am with is hyperventilating from multipls that she has reached her peak.but if it is questional I am not afraid to ask so she can have the utmost satisfaction.

beefstix1967yhoo 50M
4 posts
1/29/2006 11:51 pm

When I fake an orgasm, I just spit on her back.

Just kidding. I really never know for sure. I have a "buddy" who says she holds her orgasm because she likes the "journey" more than the destination. I can see her point. I would much rather have an hour of sex then 10 seconds of orgasm.

2playfulandhorny 54F

1/31/2006 11:19 am

beefstix, you are too funny! LOL I'm sure she really appreciates you spitting on her back! LOL Too funny!

As for the journey versus the orgasm; I myself have had way too many journies without the end result. I have to say that I vote for the orgasm! PLEASE! LOL

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