100 Opinions Wanted, #1  

2muchwoman4some 43F
64 posts
2/21/2006 6:38 am

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4/7/2006 4:14 pm

100 Opinions Wanted, #1


This is the beginning of what I hope will be a series of little mini- unscientific- polls.

I hope that if you're reading this, you'll take a sec to think about some issues/topics that being on this site has (oddly enough) got ME thinking about....

NUMBER ONE

I could make quite a list of the things that turn me off about the way that some men have approached me here. Some lines, or attitudes, that I get ALL THE TIME are just dealbreakers for me. I know that a person with that approach is not going to do it for me, plain and simple. Prime example: a man who only wants to cum on my face, and tells me so by way of introduction.

What you hear a lot that spells SABBOTAGE?

crazygurl2xx 58F

2/21/2006 7:51 am

NO STRINGS ATTACHED
AND
NOT LOOKING TO CHANGE MY LIFE BUT...


LustGoddess2469 51F  
2453 posts
2/21/2006 8:06 am

Great question. I have a few "bad" words that immediately turn me off to a profile. If the word "girl" appears anywhere in their text, they're getting filed in the trash bin. I am a woman - have been for quite a while. Now, I can see some of the younger guys (18-20 year olds) on here using that term, but when I see a 45 year old man that says he's looking for a girl to enjoy - nah uh, that doesn't work.

Another thing that turns me right off - "Let's just f*ck. No strings." Ummm....that's what hookers are for.

Men that send form letters for emails. Boring. Men that don't READ my profile. Men that have a slew of spelling and/or grammatical errors in their profile and/or email. The list could go on and on.

Goodness - I sound so cynical. Sorry 'bout that.

Lusty


rm_ohsolustful 59M
859 posts
2/21/2006 12:25 pm

A Woman that is still talking about her last Boyfriend. Way too many issues for me. And whats wrong with "no-strings" We all have attachments of some sort with our partners that bind us mentally or physically. There doesnt have to be strings to have that. To me it means a relationship that will stay at that particular level or one that doesnt lead to marriage, one where they needs and wants of both partners are met and addressed without having to worry about it coming back home to cause trouble. I do understand how Women could find it offensive however, I just never thought of it like that. It's part of the curse of being from Mars, while Women are from Venus. I do wholeheartedly agree with LustGoddess on the Girl thing though. I don't want a Girl, I want a real Woman, a Lady, full grown, mature and confident in herself. I may be a horndawg who doesnt know the real definition of "no-strings" but I know the difference between a Woman and a Girl, and I want the Woman. I have 3 Girls of my own at home and they don't interest me at all for any of the reasons I visit this site. Best wishes to all, thanks for the education


2muchwoman4some 43F

2/22/2006 4:31 am

These are great replies so far!

As a woman myself, I have to agree with the ladies so far...thanks for sharing!

As for the "no strings" issue: my feeling is that masturbation is the ONLY no-strings-attached relationship, and that when you get intimate with another person, you have to assume that some feelings will result.

Keep your replies coming! I want 100!!!!


Nonsequitur1977 41M
1 post
3/6/2006 7:22 pm

well here's a few things that have broken deals for me:
being too eager (including but not limited to: calling people back, emailing back, or im'ing back in a reasonable time frame)
too self-depreciating
using too many obsure references
being honest about mr. winkey's size

yeah i have some things i need to work on lol


TantricMrSix 43M

3/9/2006 10:30 pm

Howsabout really boring or unintelligent replies while talking to someone... or simply monosyllabolic responses? Happily, that only happens rarely.

Simple rudeness or arrogance are definite "dealbreakers," insasmuch as the deal is an engaging conversation.

And to be fair about reading the profiles (a common complaint), are all the ladies aware that the guys can't read the profiles unless they're paying members? Unless we're fully paid or granted access, there's no real way of reading a profile!


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