lots of lookers but no takers...  

2gd2btruue 62M
25 posts
4/11/2006 4:56 pm

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4/12/2006 5:58 pm

lots of lookers but no takers...

Hmmmm... I'm bummed. There are some pretty hip chicks out here. But in six months, I am oh for 200 intros sent. 134 matching views. A few responses, but no intros received. Had one date (in Park City no less, 1500 miles from home). Did not pan out. Spooked a spooky woman. Anyway...

I must be doin something wrong. I dunno. Whatever. I am who I am. But wtf... it's springtime!!! Come on! What is wrong with you people?!?!?!

I'm just kidding. You know what I mean. And I could say much the same thing about all the other dating sites. Dating sites? Are you kidding me? This sucks!

Yeah, I'm a little pessimistic, but I take it in stride. I'm just bummed I ain't gettin laid. Or finding a new friend to run around with.

Ok... mantra time...
Think positive.
No expectations.
Live for the moment.
Go with the flow.

rm_PurryKitty2 49M/51F
9753 posts
4/11/2006 5:52 pm

I am convinced people on this site dont want to meet.

Purry {=}


rm_Gentle12553 67M
1378 posts
4/11/2006 6:32 pm

I can ask the same questions...lots of chatter...no matter....

Oh well, what else do I have to do with my free time...

And besides....masturbation is really FUN

rm_wetfingeraz 55F
3012 posts
4/11/2006 6:51 pm

Well, the two reasons that I wouldn't contact you are:
1. You're 3000 miles away. I want somebody I can meet on the spur of the moment.
2. You don't like ample women. I don't willingly set myself up for rejection.

Other than that, I can't see any reason why you shouldn't be meeting people. I've met lots of people on Passion and have even dated a few of them. Keep trying, it's all a numbers game.

goodguysneedit2 57M

4/11/2006 6:58 pm

Dr 2 Good,

I hear ya man! I saw your blog title in the listing and new exactly what it was about.
I've been here for about 1 month,(less than that as a paying member)...lots of responses,lots of email,and EVERYTIME it finally gets to "Hey...let's pick a time and place to meet" they ALL vanish,never to return!
Dude..it's more than just a little frustrating!
This place must be a secret coven for emotional invalids! LOL

And some of the profiles?...word for word identical all the way through..but different women..WTF!?
Spooky shit...lol

Purry..(Good grief you are cute!)..I think you may be right to some degree..I think the "chase" and such can be addictive to some...and that may be all they are here for.

Yahoo is the same way..I was there too,and have "un-met"ladies here who are on both.

Hope it gets better for all..but I won't hold my breath..lol


SlimGoodGuy 39M

4/11/2006 7:12 pm

Meet? Most people don't even talk to one another, let alone consider meeting them.

To give you some perspective, I've been here a lot longer than you. I have 283 views and only about 10 percent of those qualify as matching. I have had 2 winks, count em, 2, and one was from a gay guy. As for emails, well, I can't send any, but I have received maybe 5 the whole time.

Now I don't have to worry about matching anyone because I have a great woman. Still, it would be nice to chit chat with a few random folks with something in common from time to time. While idling on IMC, I could go into town and do some shopping or grab lunch and still come back in an hour or two and not have a single message.

It's a go getter world round here. You gotta be very determined to make any headway.

SlimGoodGuy 39M

4/11/2006 7:13 pm

Oh, forgot to say that those 5 emails were all men except one from a couple.

TeachCombeWorry 47M

4/11/2006 8:29 pm

I'm not having any luck either, but I think I might be going after the girls I think may not be "real", or may not "really" be looking for someone. Why they would post on this site is beyond me. I got one reply that told me to e-mail her at a different e-mail address. I e-mailed her on her b-day and wished her a happy b-day and she made no comment about it, seemed kind of strange, something didn't seem right, so I dropped it right there. I'm just looking to meet maybe a couple nice girls. That's not too much to ask for from a nice guy is it.
Purrykitty2 you are hot, if your not getting lucky on this site then I'm really screwed!!
Good Luck
E/Harmony commercial just came on. LOL

goodguysneedit2 57M

4/12/2006 5:48 am

LOL..I hear ya Rob... just meeting for a 15 minute coffee now seems like the conquest of Everest!

2gd2btruue 62M

4/12/2006 5:58 pm

thanks everyone. i knew i was not alone!

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