Today is 5-17-2006  

2daycowboywanted 46F
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5/17/2006 8:02 am

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Today is 5-17-2006

Well a few things have been on the brain the past couple of days. I have met a really great guy - loves to talk - almost too much, but I have found it endearing (almost strange, since he never lets me breathe a word in).

Anyhow - met him last week for some one on one time. Things were nice - but not mind blowing. I dont want to hurt the guys feelings or cause him to do something different just to be with me. I like him as a person, but sexually I dont know if we are a match. Do I continue to have a sexual relationship with him and wait for the one to come across that could blow my mind or do I chalk it up to a learning experience and move on.

Take in mind - if I tell the guy no thanks - there goes what little sex I do get. Difficult decision - any input??

BitchDoughDefoe 56M
2 posts
5/17/2006 10:25 am

Keep getting it when you can, but keep looking around, and be available when something better comes along.

FaciaMiasmMares 50M

5/17/2006 11:30 am

We all know that there are people out there that are a "fit" and then there are those that aren't. We are all unique in the sex arena.

If what is missing is not correctable through communication (Or it simply wasn't what the expectation was and trust me first impression can make or break a situation) then either move on with an explanation or set the correct expectation at this point and state it is what it is and that is all that it is. this leaves you the out when the right opportunity comes along with the minimal friction.

just my opinion though

rm_dirtyboysrus 61M

5/18/2006 4:57 am

Speaking from a guy perspective make sure you do communicate what you like/don't like sexually about his style to him then move on. Not a big deal to break up over sexual incompatability. You're probably very attractive and can get sex again at the drop of a hat-I doubt you'd be missing it for long.

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