Define Cheating  

2daycowboywanted 46F
866 posts
6/26/2006 1:02 pm

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6/29/2006 11:15 am

Define Cheating

We all have our own ideas of what cheating is. Is cheating kissing someone else but not doing anything more than kissing? Is cheating touching someone else in a more sexual way but not having sex? Is cheating when you actually have sex with someone else? Or is cheating having feelings for someone else, acting on those feelings but chosing to remain where you are?
Complicated question with complicated answers I am sure. But lets sit back and think about this site. Are the people who are married and their spouses know nothing about this site/or that they are on this site - are those people cheating? If so - what qualify's them as cheating? Are the people here who are married and they claim to be couples - are they cheating?

I dont know about you but this subject is really complicated. Reason I posted it though - is because I have noticed that there are plenty of women on the site who bash men who are "cheating" on their spouses. In my mind - honey if you arent fixing it at home he is going to look elsewhere. Probably not a good reason for him to go out but lets face it - it does happen.

Roper - thanks for the info on the photos. Got a pair of chaps I can use???
I was thinking about maybe a body shot of sexy, revealing, but not a dead give away of the whole body - something that makes you look at the photo and say damn - I gotta have some of that.
Whatca think??

Until tomorrow XOXOXO

TrueTxGtlman 54M

6/26/2006 5:43 pm

I know how I define it. It is as small as doing something with another woman I am not willing to share with my wife for fear it will hurt her. I have met women from online and shared that with her because it was very tame (or lame) but if there was a little flame or spark I couldn't share with my wife this. She is not stupid and knows me very well. She would see through me how I was feeling for someone I met.

Another clue is if you are doing something and you have a guilty feeling is some clue that you are doing something that is not right. As I explain to some that ask if I every had an affair it is this.... I have but not always sexual.


roper_6969 56M

6/26/2006 7:11 pm

Hmmmm. I already said " damn, I gotta have some of that. " Your idea sounds very nice though. My heart's racing just thinking about it.


xxxtallorderxxx 47M

6/29/2006 9:04 am

cheating basically is doing something with someone else, that you and you partner have agreed not to do and is exclusive for the two of you together only in your relationship.

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