15 posts
7/24/2005 6:27 pm

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Why do men almost always send a cock pic before you get a face pic? I mean, you can work around a nice looking guy w/a small cock but if he has a butt ugly face who cares what his cock looks like?

overworkedloon 57M
400 posts
7/24/2005 6:42 pm

Well, could be because they actually do have a butt ugly face. Then again it's probably not even their cock. Don't you love the internet....you don't know what you're going to get even if you've see "their" pictures....LOL

2 posts
7/24/2005 7:04 pm

well i think most men like myself are scared of what people will think of our facews so we do not show them

kh220 34M
2 posts
7/24/2005 7:39 pm

well if i am ok looking. then let me know what you can work with.

rm_mieze626 54F
145 posts
7/24/2005 8:44 pm

agree....u asked for a pic and they send u a cock...great, i would love to see eyes and smiles...what happened to the confidence that men always preach what they have???

sandhazard 55M
129 posts
7/24/2005 10:09 pm

Can't speak for most men but I have never sent a cock pic unless the lady has asked for one.

3 posts
7/24/2005 10:36 pm

If a woman is a TRUE "cock-lover" and ONLY looking for hot oral sex... why would she really care if the guy is a Richard Boone or Goofey Gus if his cock is a worthy specimen??? There's the old, "put a bag over his/her head joke that might work for some... after all...you're not sucking his face to "get off"... and if you are...then you don't need a cock. Ithink also because this is primarily a "sexual pleasures exchange" platform that many guys figure that is a woman advertises she is interested in a "no strings" encounter that of course the man's cock is a factor... I would not, for example, reject the opportunity to dine upon a luscious pussy set around a nice feminine body simply because the face did not measure up...

Anyway..."ugly" is a relative interpretation of each individual and if we look close enough... we may see beauty in ugliness.

Almost every women-on-men oral scenes in the porn arena rarely shows the man's face but the hypnotic, grazed look on the face(s) of the lady cocksuckers... who appear to be loving every lust-filled moment...

redmustang91 58M  
8949 posts
7/24/2005 10:36 pm

I send a face pic at first and have no naked pics at all. I like to think my body is a present, you get to unwrap the present in person!

3 posts
7/24/2005 10:51 pm

I hope I didn't offend any of you ladies with my commentary on "cock pics w/o face shots"...

I understand that sexual arousal originates in the brain and that visual stimulation is important to women as much as it is to men...

I just read a lot of profile ads that give the impression that some are just looking for a good time and actually alienate by tactless insensitivity...( i.e., "don't bother responding if you don't send a pic or, can't do / provide this or that etc.)

Let's face it folks... ya gotta have a thick skin ( no pun intended ) to put yourself out here and ready to handle the sometimes brutal rejections...

We'll all hook up with the right mix at the right time and that is OK...

Meanwhile we can comfort ourselves around those who like and accept us for who and what we are...LOL


7/24/2005 11:39 pm


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11/17/2005 8:52 am

We only send face pics to those who ask. There are a lot of tire kickers out there who are only on the site to see what their neighbors are up to. It is the only way to protect your privacy in such cases. If a person is sincere and truly interested there will be further communication at which time face pics can be exchanged. I don't need to be walking down the street just to have some cyberstalker after me who figures that cuz I like swinging and sex that they have an open invitation.

5 posts
1/15/2006 12:10 am

I hear you. If you want to meet, I'll send lots of pics. AdultFriendFinder

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