So What About Anal  

1ande4u 41F
24 posts
4/30/2006 7:06 pm

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6/11/2006 7:05 pm

So What About Anal

I have a few questions about anal in my quest to Learn the Ropes.

Will it always be uncomfortable?

Is this something that you "learn to like"?

How many women actually like this act?

Now, I am not a novice to this act. I have been on the receiving end a few times. I am just not getting it.
Yes, I have used plenty of lubrication.
Yes, I have "put it in" myself.
Yes, I have tried different positions.

So, what is the problem?

I hear of so many women that supposedly love the act. Am I abnormal? Is there something that I am not doing right? I am willing to do whatever it takes to get it right. So, lay it on me. Tell me what I need to do.

Thanks for your help.{=}

Thank you to all of those that commented, but I NEED MORE! I know there are people out there that can help me. Where are you?


assfucker828

5/2/2006 2:22 am

you will come to me dear.only me i can solve your proble)))))))


1ande4u replies on 5/2/2006 3:36 pm:
Unfortunately for you, you are too far away.

lov2godown 50M
12 posts
5/2/2006 2:38 pm

Well from the male perspective I'll throw in my two cents worth. First I think everyone out there has there own likes and dislikes. Anal probably just ain't your thing. Only two of my partners would even let me near there with my dick and only one with my tongue. Neither was thought it was that pleasurable either. So I don't think your alone. Also how big of a dick are you working with? Maybe a smaller size might be more comfortable and are you doing it for yourself or for someone else? I say if it isn't fun try something else. Good Luck


Isboris 67M
52 posts
5/10/2006 9:17 pm

Its all a matter of reading your body's messages. As he enters you, stop after just the head is in, and just relax. The sphincter will automatically clench, but in a minute or so you will feel it relax. Have him slide a little further into you and stop again. Take him into you in small steps, pausing to let the sphincter relax. Once he is all the way in you and you feel your sphincter relax and accept him, begin with short gentle strokes and build up to full length, hard thrusting. The sphincter and other muscles in your ass clench automatically, so you have to take the time to let them adjust to his presence. We all have almost as many nerve endings in our asses as a woman has in her vagina, and they are just as sensitive. Once you teach them to accept him in you, and your fears of pain and discomfort go away, I'll bet you will find anal exceptionally pleasing.

I hope this helps.


rm_moonboy23 37M
893 posts
5/13/2006 9:30 am

go slowly.You have take control.


Medusa231968 49F
301 posts
5/13/2006 9:44 am

personally, I love anal.. I just have to be in a really relaxed mood. Sometimes a couple glasses of wine or just him starting with my smaller dildo get me wide enough to start on him. I also play with my pussy a lot while I ease back against him, sometimes have your brain thinking about something else makes ya loosen up. I am even a bit of a bad girl watching a bit of anal pornas we go....
of course, my husband loves thinking he is hurting me a little...now if i could just get him to smack my ass a little more...LOL


feel free to peek at my blog

Medusa


insolentone2 39M

5/22/2006 2:27 pm

Well, you want a different way to try it?? I know this isn't what everyone tells you, and it'll suck for a while.. Get tied up, gagged, and have him shove the biggest dildo up your ass.. start small and work up to the biggest thing you can possibly take. Maybe after getting it ripped open bigger than what you're trying to take (his penis) then you can handle the smaller one!.. and if nothing else, put a strap-on and let him take it.. if he can handle it you can too


airbalancer69 50M/53F

5/27/2006 9:40 am

well hope this helps we found it by accident and my wife is like you as far as it always being uncomfy. Do all the obvious..lube, use fingers, but when it comes time for penetration....go to the bathroom stand at the tub and lean over until your hands are on the bottom of the tub keeping your legs as straight as possible(you can bend them until your knees hit the tub)Then let him start his way into you, if you are like my wife he will be pumping that ass before long and you will be squirting down the side of the tub...a few drinks never hurt either...let us know if this works for any of you..


1ande4u replies on 5/29/2006 8:17 am:
Thanks for the comment. I'll have to try it this way. Wonderful profile! Good luck to you both!
( Very jealous about the squirting! )

feebius 40F
1 post
5/31/2006 9:14 pm

Hi there...I read through everyone else's responses and starting small with LOTS of lube is probably the best advice. So is looking at your diet...fiber, Fiber, FIBER! I know that's kind of gross but seriously, if you have the plumbing working to the best of it's ability it makes a happier ass. Nina Hartley also has a GREAT video out there about anal. I couldn't figure out what was going on with me until I watched that. Make you partner watch it too, with or without you and whether or not he has had previous experience. After that I started really enjoying it. I did do some homework on my own time too. Getting to know yourself helps a lot. Speaking of which...if you just don't like it, don't bother with it. Not everything is for everyone. Good Luck. P.S. Alcohol can really help too!


airbalancer69 50M/53F

6/11/2006 3:07 pm

So how are things going?..have you had a chance to try all these responses?..Would love to help in any way we can..


airbalancer69 50M/53F

6/11/2006 3:13 pm

    Quoting Medusa231968:
    personally, I love anal.. I just have to be in a really relaxed mood. Sometimes a couple glasses of wine or just him starting with my smaller dildo get me wide enough to start on him. I also play with my pussy a lot while I ease back against him, sometimes have your brain thinking about something else makes ya loosen up. I am even a bit of a bad girl watching a bit of anal pornas we go....
    of course, my husband loves thinking he is hurting me a little...now if i could just get him to smack my ass a little more...LOL


    feel free to peek at my blog
Well not sure where you live or if you are into it but i would love to spank that ass for you...or at least watch while it is getting spanked....


airbalancer69 50M/53F

7/11/2006 4:23 pm

how cum our post always seems to be the last one of the string?..Do we have bad breath...*L*


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