Open Relationships  

1_to_play_with 45M
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4/29/2006 7:07 pm

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Open Relationships

Was just interested in getting some opinions on this, as we (my girlfriend & I ) have just taken our relationship to this level after 3 years together. Since we really want this to work for us and not kill our realtionship, can anyone tell us what problems to be wary of, so we don't end up ruining a good thing, because so far it has had a positive effect on our lives together.

GoddessOfTheDawn 106F
11240 posts
4/30/2006 7:07 am

Read around, on the blogz, the magazine, the groupz, you'll find lots of thingz about these kinds of situationz. What I've read sofar says there's some important factors like communication, and absolute openness.

welcome to blogging, gud luck

1_to_play_with 45M

4/30/2006 4:35 pm

Yeah thanks for that. have had a look around and found some very useful opinions from people who have been through it all before. Good to draw on the experience of others, not enough time to make all the mistakes ourselves.

willow1937 58F

5/2/2006 3:19 pm

Hi in any type off relationship , if you stick with honesty ,respect, communication and openness your can't go wronge good luck to both off you in your new adventure , remember to play safe , and keep smiling

1_to_play_with 45M

5/2/2006 4:53 pm

yeah thanks for your comments everything you say is true, without those things in your relationship, you may as well be single if you want to play up that much

TickleMeBBW 37F

5/11/2006 8:32 pm

Fantastic to hear you are both excited about stepping into this new phase in your relationship. Only advice I can give is just to be totally honest with each other, as this is where most relationships fail.

Kisses and licks, Tickles

1_to_play_with 45M

5/12/2006 3:36 pm

thanks for that. yes it has been a pretty steep learning curve for both of us. but the honesty issue is indeed the key.....

AussieCuckold 54M/42F

5/15/2006 5:24 am

Honesty and communication has made our relationship what it is.


1_to_play_with 45M

5/22/2006 12:24 pm

Thanks Beckie, after reading around a bit i am optimistic in time we will be settling into it, and really enjoying it.

julesrob 48M/52F

6/3/2006 8:39 pm

We have found if we are totally honest and open with each other eg- knowing what the other is doing and who with makes for a no lies thing.
Works for us and has done for 12 years.

Good luck i hope you get as much enjoyment out of it as we do .

Jules and rob xx

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