So Long, Good Bye  

1DazedNConfuzed1 51F
169 posts
8/28/2006 6:24 am

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So Long, Good Bye

This is going to be a hard post for me. Today is the day I have decided to leave AdultFriendFinder for good. I have been through so much in the past 6 months, I feel it is now time for me to move forward and get a new perspective on things.

Back in February, I decided to meet someone I had been chatting to for a long time. That first day we met, the electricity between us was amazing, and as time went on, we fell in love. I knew full well that he would end up hurting me, but I went where my heart told me. Today, 6 months later, I sit here with a broken heart, mending it, thinking that maybe there was something I could have done, but I knew, and I know, there is nothing that can be done. I don’t hate this person, I in fact love him very much, he being one of the reasons I am leaving AdultFriendFinder, but NOT the main reason.

My broken heart is not the only reason I am leaving. I have had other personal issues in my life that I need to deal with, other issues that are going to need my full attention.

IMPISH_PIXIE, what can I say, you are such an amazing woman; you are one reason I thank Bryan everyday, for bringing you into my life.

_SAFIRA, always there to lend a hand when someone needs it, your power and inner strength will always astound me.

GMURN, ah, my biggest sister, the one with much more adventure than I could ever have; I am sure we will have more adventures.

PROFOTOFREAK, I love you and wish you well in your life, take care of yourself and good luck in all the things you set out to do. I know with hard work, you get to where you want to be, and I can sit back and say, ‘hey, I know him, I knew he could do it.’

As for my other friends I have made here, take care and be well.

somf1963 55M

8/28/2006 6:40 am

Dazed, Your an amazing woman and I'm glad to have known you and your sisters.I'm sorry I didn't get to see you this weekend I spent it in the hospital.I hope sometime in life we get to meet again.Best of wishes,your friend,

_Safira 54F
11260 posts
8/28/2006 8:04 am

LIL SIS ~ Well just because you're leaving here doesn't mean you're leaving me/us ... You didn't think it would be that easy; did you? I love you very much ... and am very proud of you, my darling. *massive hugs* / {=}

This is my blog - Comes With Warning Labels. There are many like it, but this one is mine.


VATraveler1948 69M

8/28/2006 12:59 pm

Dazed, I'm sorry to see you leave. I wish you all the best. I understand very clearly how personal issues can seem overwhelming. Focus on the important things in your life, the rest of the stuff will fall in line!

angelofmercy5 60F
17881 posts
8/28/2006 2:47 pm

Dazed......I'm sorry that you are going....but I do understand. Believe me, I do. I'm so glad I got the chance to meet are a wonderful person. Life will fall into place for it will for me, I'm sure. But sometimes it does seem a bit overwhelming, doesn't it? You take care of you! That's the important thing, and the lesson that I'm learning. If you ever need a friend, or a know where I am! love ya!


8/28/2006 3:09 pm

You won't get rid of me that easy either sis.....we will stay in touch, and I'm sure have many more great times like we did this last weekend. You know I am there for you with everything you will deal with. Love you very much

impish_pixie 55F
6867 posts
8/28/2006 8:22 pm

I cannot even put into words how happy I am that we came into each other's lives. Strange circumstances for sure... ...and my heart hurts so badly knowing how badly you hurt. Know only that I cradle you in my heart, and that though you may at times run from me/us...I will not abandon you. Ever. I'm stuck like glue.

I make mistakes, I am out of control & at times hard to handle. But if you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best. ~Marilyn

nalipop 47M/46F
23 posts
8/29/2006 6:19 pm

Hey girl...we're still getting together and gonna party some !!!! We'll work it out through Safira...!!! Stay strong, you seem to be that type of person to me..

big hugs


GoddessOfTheDawn 106F
11240 posts
9/3/2006 3:33 am

~ sending warm hugz ~ and wishing you the best on your chosen journey


rm_SuziQ2005 48F
21 posts
9/14/2006 8:12 pm

I know we have never met. Bryan broke my heart also. we have that in common... I love him also... we dated from last july until earlier this year....I was very Jealous when he started spending time with you, as you were about me i am sure.....but hey, all we can do is move on....

rm_dingo7_91 32M

6/27/2011 5:09 pm

Well that's not fair that we lose you because of what someone did to you. =( It was nice talking to you Dazed. I hope to see you around, and good luck

stuntcock404 51M

8/25/2011 9:10 am

Have you returned, or are you just cleaning out?

1DazedNConfuzed1 replies on 10/21/2012 8:32 pm:
Stunt, I've been bored as of late, I think I will start blogging again.

I did have a lot of fun when I blogged...stay tuned

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