Today is the day...  

1973GAL 45F
1790 posts
1/27/2006 8:10 am

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Today is the day...

That I get to meet with my friend from the past...I am sure it will be fun! Will give details probably on Sunday nite =)

I have a question...Is better to look for married/attached guys or single ones! The wifes/girlfriends usually find out somehow or something comes up UGH...but the single ones have a tendency to get closer and start wanting to have more than I can give!

WOW...what to do and who to do LOL...I know that sounds like an odd dilemma, but I do not want to get anyone into trouble with their wives and I do not want the couple to split and I cannot give more than a no strings discrete thing anyways ... LOL ...

Ok, so I am all ready for my first contact in 3 years -- hair is done and make up is on and no panties on underneath my jeans ( as always LOL )
So this is going to be exciting, yet weird too! I am sure it will go smoothly!

onthesly469 50M
1 post
1/27/2006 11:42 am

Go for the married/attached guy's. I think, most often, the encounters can be kept quite. It becomes an issue if you start to meet to often.

rm_mkucream72 45M

1/27/2006 3:10 pm do I get on your must see list...wanna see if you're really wearing panties or not

I think it's difficult either way. I think it may be a little easier with the married/attached person, just have to make sure you're careful. Usually trouble happens because of a stupid mistake. A lot depends on the person your with too, and by the time you find that out....too late...

I guess my advice is...get to know them as well as you can first.

Take care. Drop me a line sometime...

harley121970 47M
20 posts
1/28/2006 7:43 pm

I would have to say married, recently divorced, or seperated guys, because of such recent relationship they probably arn't ready for anything other than sex yet

sourlemon37 50M
11 posts
1/30/2006 7:45 am

I have a girlfriend that I have been with for almost ten years and she knows that I pursue sexual encounters with other women. I don't put it in her face or allow it to interfer at all at home. As long as I take care of home she is cool with it. I haven't had any problems with other women because I tell them upfront how it is and half the time they have husbands or boyfriends of their own.

need2havfun76 42M

1/30/2006 8:51 pm

as long as you are up front with the fact that you do not want any strings attached and any encounter could be the last, then it shouldn't matter. whether a guy's significant other finds out, knows or not, that (not to be too cold hearted) is his problem. You want to be discrete anyway so there shouldn't be anything to worry about.

of course that's a loaded question for me anyway, since I'm a married guy that wants to meet you.

take care,

semperfi2u 47M
129 posts
1/31/2006 1:28 am

For a married woman seeking extracurricular activities...a married man matches your goals.

1973GAL 45F

2/1/2006 5:34 am

semperfi...i have met a few married ones and it seems each time something comes up...i just lost my one "friend with benefits" because of his marriage and his wife found sometimes i wonder if single is better but i like the idea of an attached man, easier to know that he has just as much as you to lose if caught MMMMMM...things that make ya go... MMMMMM

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