Cumming v The Big O  

100words 39F
60 posts
5/26/2005 8:58 pm

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Cumming v The Big O


Is there a difference between cumming and an orgasm? I thought they were the same, but I have a friend who says they are different. If she is right I think i have never had an orgasm though I thought I had. Something always happens when I have sex, but maybe I am supposed to explode. I am feeling kinda pissed that I am not getting the full Blast!

Someone explain this to me because all of the sudden, I feel like a virgin again...hehe

JennyVT 42F

5/27/2005 7:26 pm

Ummm, I thought it was the same!


rm_Quoui 38M

5/28/2005 7:55 am

Since you are not to welcoming to be referred to as babe, and other cliché names, I must simply say Hello!

There is indeed a difference between cumming and getting an orgasm, I would have never known that if I did not sleep with Ms. Stephanie. Every time we would have sex, she would cum, but she would scream out and beg that I stop having her cum again. I attributed that to her having an orgasm as she was cumming, and at the end of our love_fest (about 2 hrs). When we would both cum she and I would simply feel that explosion you speak of. I tell you there is a great difference between cumming, which is a result of physiological arousal, and having an orgasm which is the end result of extensive sexual stimulation.


rm_dsmdude9d 34M

6/1/2005 11:38 pm

They're usually used interchangably, but I've always taken cumming to literally mean when she "ejillulates" (not 'jac" get it, hah lame humor). Anyway, I was with one girl who definately had a noticeable release of fluid when she had an orgasm, that's what I've based my literally knowledge of cumming on. I wouldn't worry if it doesn't happen to you, not all women do it and I'm pretty sure no one has a definitive answer as to why.

I'd describe having a female orgasm as a very intense, euphoric feeling accompanied by vaginal contractions and a release of tension, but as can plainly be seen, I'm not a woman so I can't tell ya for sure. Haha

You're probably having an orgasm, but not "cumming" literally. I don't think anyone will fault you for it.


patsam69 52M/52F

6/6/2005 7:06 pm

I think most people interchange cumming and orgasm as one and the same. dsmdude is talking about squirting, which does happen to some women when they orgasm. Although I have read that is a different feeling from a clitoral orgasm.


rm_affbreak 47M
287 posts
6/18/2005 5:34 am

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rm_affbreak 47M
287 posts
6/18/2005 5:38 am

Did I say g-spot?


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