Who Are You?  

100percntnocnt 50F
48 posts
9/23/2005 7:02 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Who Are You?

It's so easy for someone to be one persona on the computer and be something totally different in real life. That's the main reason I've stopped meeting guys on here. Is it so hard for someone to be who they really are? Are you so afraid of rejection that you have to pretend to be someone else? Are you that insecure with yourself that you are afraid to be yourself? Some of us would rather know you for who you are and some of us really don't care what you have or don't have materialistically (is that even a word? lol).
Why send photos that look nothing like you anymore? Be proud of who you are and show the photos of you in the here and now. Maybe then you won't be so afraid of that in-person rejection. Lies that you weave will only unravel the more you get around, you know.
And what's with this business of telling someone you'd like to see them again, and then afterward, you don't speak another word to them? What's so wrong with being honest and saying, "Hey, the spark isn't there, but I'd still like to be friends." Obviously you liked SOMEthing or you'd have never decided to meet in the first place, right??
I guess some of this is hard for me to understand because I'm am me online and offline. I have nothing to hide and I like who I am so I really don't care what anyone else thinks of me. Ok, maybe I care a little. LOL

rm_TwiztedCharm 57M
456 posts
10/10/2005 4:34 am

I'm just a guy with issues in need of therapy and for anyone who cares I put my emotion on my blog. I'm really not here for sex cause hell that's were some of those issues started....besides that is easy to find. I do like learning and understanding about how we humans view and treat sex. HONESTLY

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