1000ft_above 46M
83 posts
6/12/2006 9:03 am

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6/15/2006 1:30 am


There is an emergency in blogland!!
Men from all over blogland are needed to assist in the negative image that is represented by the Male Hores and Sluts of this great site. This very image shows in the posting of Do Men Think?. We MUSTband together and attempt to recover our status as thinking, living, feeling, caring, devoted, understanding, romantic men.

I know this is a large burden to bear but in looking around blogland I know that there is great potential here and that we will rise to this challenge. We must overcome this obstacle!

I will begin this endeavor and tell of one thing that I stand for in life and love. Please continue and lets turn this image around. Show these ladies that we, THE MEN OF BLOGLAND, stand before you bearing all(well not all) so that you may see that there is still hope for the hopeless romantic.

1000ft_above 46M

6/12/2006 9:11 am

I was always taught by my mother to have respect for women and showing it. Opening doors, standing until a lady has taken her seat, giving the lead to the lady and not checking out her ass as she passes. Just a few with more to follow later.

OK,'s your turn...

HeartlessBitch69 48F

6/12/2006 10:00 am

LMAO, I'm sorry I should have put at the end of my post, It is only the men who I deal with! Not all, just MY men!

maverick1255 52M
3953 posts
6/12/2006 5:16 pm

Mag!! You are here to HELP, not hurt the guys!!!

Yes, I was raised to always respect women. ALWAYS. Open doors, pull out chairs, stand up at a table when greeting, make sure she is served (serviced .... oops. I see what you mean Mag. Damn, those genes! ) FIRST, respect a woman who says no - at NO! (sorry ladies, no MEANS no. Not implied maybe. Not take me. Nothing.) If a lady needs assistance - always be there to help (ages from birth til death, any age,) Always say please and thank you.

Just to start the ground work.


1000ft_above replies on 6/12/2006 10:37 pm:
Thats ok for the slip up mav, nobody said we were perfect, just showing we are perfectly gentlemen.

flagg134 37M
1582 posts
6/12/2006 10:07 pm

Good post your gonna make all us other guys look bad though.

I have learned to respect others not just women and to treat them with the dignity I would want in return. Also listening to what they say and giving an honest opinion on how you feel about what they say. Not just selling them what you think they want to hear. Lastly to be a friend as well as a lover to be by their side and give them a hand or lend a shoulder when they need it.


1000ft_above replies on 6/12/2006 11:10 pm:
An alternative side to the traditional gentleman...There are so many aspects that go unnoticed.

With a mixture of all of these we can learn to be better rounded lovers and show our ladies and friends what good people are all about.



BikerDude1200 61M

6/12/2006 10:20 pm

What constitutes a gentleman? what a question.

Respect for those around him, women, children, animals!

Compassion for everyone. Don't judge until you too have worn the shoes those around you have traveled in.

Joy for the successes, no matter how little or insignificant they may seem. To someone, they may be huge.

Never lose the ability to see the beauty in a sun setting into the ocean!

Embrace the early morning chill of a new day as you ride into a sun rising over the mountains.

Stomp in a puddle once in a while.

Lend a hand when one is needed.

Open a door, pull out a chair and sit after she sits. Listen to her with true interest as she shares the excitement of her day.

You will find as you get older, the list will get longer! You learn to appreciate the true attributes of a gentleman.

1000ft_above replies on 6/12/2006 11:14 pm:
Elloquently spoken biker...You are truly a pure of heart gentleman, it shows in your writings. May others visiting get inspiration from your words.

Many Thanx,


SleekIcilyVarix 42M

6/12/2006 10:39 pm

Flagg is right on with what he said about treating people with dignity and respect.

Being a gentleman is this simple:
1.Be as sweet, caring, considerate, and thoughtful outside of the bedroom as you are a sex-crazed madman inside it.
2. Listen. (No..REALLY listen to what she says.)
3. Do or say something each day that makes her feel special.
4. Be honest.
5. Put as much effort into sustaining and growing a relationship as you do in starting one.

1000ft_above replies on 6/12/2006 11:18 pm:
Very good points fire. This wide array of viewpoints is sure to win over the skepticism of the ladies of blogland.

1000ft_above 46M

6/12/2006 11:06 pm

Looking into a ladies eyes when she speaks is a must guys...
Showing her that she has your complete and undivided attention.

No matter the circumstances of the date, if you agree to it...Then follow through. Don't just turn tail and run, make her feel like she is the most important girl at that moment. I have done it myself, so I know it is possible.

Flowers at the beginning and a HUG at the end. A call back the next day no matter what your intention...give her the courtesy of letting her know you don't plan to date again.

Check your vulgar mouth at the door.

Don't invite yourself into her place, wait until she asks for your company.

Offer to drive but be open to her wishes as well.

Don't guard or hover over your food like a behemoth. Your elbows don't reach the table without exposing your armpits for a reason....KEEP THEM DOWN!!

Just a few more to think about guys.

alphuctup 41M

6/13/2006 6:00 am

A gentleman puts the needs of his lady before his own.

1000ft_above replies on 6/13/2006 11:33 pm:
plain and simple.

n0tatalker 40M

6/13/2006 3:08 pm

fuck that! i'm n0t even g0nna grace an article like that with a glance. of c0urse we think... even the stupid fuckwads i make fun of think... maybe n0t the last one. ya know h0w i know? cuz i l0ok around my r0om and i see a bunch of shit invented by men. c0mputers, s0ftware, electronics, p0rn, assorted athletic equipment, shit... if w0men w0uldn't have allowed themselves to be oppressed in the first place we w0uldn't have to hear this shit. and if it was up to broads like this to go out on wagons and l0bby f0r w0mens lib... they still be oppressed. stupid bitch is kinda right though... alot of y0u guys in blogville suck and think with y0ur dicks alone! use that p0wer, but n0t exclusivly... that w0uld make you? a b0ner.

ty g-feet
y0u r0ck f0r bringin this to everyones attention!

1000ft_above replies on 6/13/2006 11:57 pm:
Thanx for being real n0ta, a free thinker, and not holding any punches.

All some of them need is probably the right woman to make them WANT to be a gentleman.

And I feel, like HB69 said, it is proven that only some men don't think, or just think with the wrong head.

loadeddice05 45M

6/14/2006 2:44 pm

I was gonna retire!! And I see my bud's here!! Andmy idle fairieslide!! Anyways!!! Men do too much thinking!! Why do we constantly shoot ourselves in tha' foot simply to get some???

I could give a happy flying fuck wether the woman I'm dating, married to or happy with me!!

Why are people always saying with the "right woman"?? To me that means whooped!!! And whooped is always a bad thing for MEN!!!

I could go to a bra burning womas lib rally and do you GUYS?? know what I would be looking for???????? pussy!! Plain and simple and deliciously put!!!!!

1000ft_above replies on 6/15/2006 1:28 am:
I see we are getting a VERY well rounded influx of opinions on this matter.

I welcome all.

I'm not sure in what direction this has strayed HB's view of the men SHE has experienced in the past or present, but thanx for the comment.


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