Attractive, professional d/d free married woman been looking for a while hoping to find a male partner for regular nighttime adventurous meetings. Not just looking for plain old "sex" and definitely not an "affair." I want to explore and play and explore my generally submissive cravings, no-strings, purely about sex and sexual situations, NOT social or emotional connection.

Am looking for 1-1, needing that exploration and private intensity. And I am not looking for multiple partners or being unsafe. I'd like to find someone who is interested in ongoing sexual connection.

Although I am married, I am now pursuing this with absolute honesty and support. He understands and respects that this is a substantial need and desire and wants me to be smart about it.

I'm not available during the day. If you do want to chat about this we can do that on Y msgr. But if you pursue that please see it through. I am nice but I have been through a few years of bad communications here. To build a rapport together we do need to be a little çønsistent.

I am interested in all kinds of play including light bondage scenes. I have some limits. Not interested in bathroom games, am not particularly fascinated with anal play, and sadism is a huge turnoff, though light discipline can be a fun idea. I am VERY inexperienced, but I think I am clear about my desire.

I'm open to different approaches. Chemistry is the main issue. Sensibility wise I am laid back and casual, as opposed to elegant and refined. I have a very high sensual/sexual drive, and pretty stamina. Would love to find partner who is similar.

My Ideal Person: Attractive, fun, sexually oriented secure dominant man (no need for sensitive/evolved/politically correct - but intelligent is very fun in my book). If you like the idea of thinking up fun ways of meeting and getting into very intense sexual fun, we're on the same page.

Would love to find married or involved man needing alternative play on the wild side that fulfills his desires, especially if they are a perfect complement for mine. I would prefer if you have an okay to explore this from your spouse/partner as I do. Safety to me also means safety at home.

Dominant is important, but not pushy or mean, just liking to be on the upper side of creativity/control and the know-how to develop something intense and interesting. I need a partner who craves exploiting his sub's lust and who gets off on her hunger using creative ways to build sexual tension... how we get there is SO important.

If you can host that is perfect. On rare occasion I might be able to. But I have very traditional home life otherwise.

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