I understand what this site is about. I clearly do, but some of still have class about what we do, and how we do it. Please if your emailing me, do not talk shit to me. I will not respond to the ignorance of the letters at all. It is not warranted, or wanted. I am here, to meet men that are of the same statue of myself. I will treat you with complete total respect and honesty. I expect the same. Thank you for understanding I AM NOT TRYING TO BE A B???? BUT IF YOU ARE HONESTLY JUST LOOKING FOR SEX DO NOT WASTE MY TIME OR YOUR TIME. I AM NOT GOING TO HAVE SEX WITH YOU. I CAN NOT MAKE IT ANY CLEARER, I AM LOOKING FOR A FRIENDSHIP FIRST SO IF YOU ARE UNABLE TO DEAL WITH THAT, THEN BY ALL MEANS DO NOT EMAIL ME.

My Ideal Person: Hello to everyone! Sorry have not been on here in some time. Well I am back and am looking for someone to be able to please me when I need to be pleased. I am in limbo with my current relationship, after all these years, you would think someone would learn how to communicate with one. Anyways, I am in a sexless relationship and am not sure where it is going anymore. I did my part but he just doesn't seem to be interested in sexual relations. Now to go into further depth of what I really am looking for. I don't know exactly what I want from this site. I do know that I am not going to jump into bed with anyone, and that I am not a meet, greet, and do the deed type. I would rather chat on the phone, and get to know someone first. I am not young any more and am definitely aware of how cruel this world can be, and what diseases are out there. So if your willing to be patient, and put the time in to get to know me for me, and I get to know you for you, then I would be the person to email. If your looking for a one nighter, or a casual fuck,(pardon my language) then I am not what your looking for. Again I understand what this site is about, and Yes I am looking for sex. I am just not looking for anyone though. I am in limbo, and would like to meet men, but I also would like a relationship to. Someone that is going to fulfill what I am missing at home. I would like to be friends, and if it were to become more than friends, who knows what could happen. All I am saying is that if you email me, please be respectful, and understand that I am not just going to be sleeping around with just anyone. I am not looking for just anyone. I would like to find a connection with someone, and go from there. So if your still interested even after reading all this, great send me an email and when I am able to respond, I will. Please note, though, if your going to be cruel, and rude, and simply just nasty in your email, I am not going to respond, AND I will delete and block you cause I really am not in the mood for such junk. I get enough spam mail, I don't need the aggravation on here. So thank you and I will chat with you guys laterSorry, one other thing that is very important to me. I am not by all means trying to be rude or anything and if your offended, then I don't know what to tell you. I am looking for someone that does not smoke. I refuse to lick an ash tray why would I kiss one?? I don't smoke I don't feel like I should smoke cause you do, its a choice and I choose not to. I am already causing myself due harm by tanning, I sure don't need to add second hand smoke to it. Besides you should really think about quitting, your cheating yourself out of a lifetime that could be longer due to a better respiratory system, your lungs will appreciate it

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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