Ok, the gloves are off (At least off my hands, safety first )....

My gf & I (joy_full_moments) have been in the lifestyle for a while, we play together and separately. Just sayin'

A lot has changed in the past few years or so. It's not so much *I've* changed, but more of "I'm accepting who I am". To do this, I have met some wonderful friends with similar mindsets with either more experience or common sense than me.

I am honest to the point of TMI sometimes. Go ahead, ask me anything.

UPDATE: Any winks that are not on this hemisphere will NOT be answered!!! Why would I want to woo someone from Ghana or Nigeria? How about I just make it easier and post my bank account info and we can cut the middleman?

ANOTHER UPDATE: While a few people have garnered my attention nationwide, I REAALLLLY prefer someone in the NE IL area (WI, IL, IN), with consideration to Iowa (there are lotsa hotties there!). So, please, if you are from NY, FL, CA, or any of the states I have NOT mentioned, don't waste your time. By IM'ing, Hotlisting, etc, it shows you did NOT read my profile and will be ignored and/or Blocked.

My Ideal Person: Someone who enjoys kissing and touching, perhaps more.

Drama is negotiable, everyone is carrying a bag or two...d/d free & expect the same...intelligence is a bigger turn-on than looks, although a pair of beautiful eyes can make me all tongue-tied & goofy.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Leather, Massage

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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