Yes, I am a TransGendered, but, for those of you who can't resist the morbid temptation of asking " Do you have a cock or pussy?" My answer is YES/NO, YOU WANT MORE DETAILS COME AND SEE ME! Am I a man or a woman? My answer is Both and Neither! I look in the mirror and see a woman looking back at me, when you look in the mirror what do you see, do you see yourself different than your mind tells you that you are? I live, I work, I play, and I have sex as a female everyday and have been enjoying my life in my true gender, "FEMALE", going on 18 years now, so don't you think that would make me female, or just a bad actor stuck in a casting rut, I think I have that "being a girl thing" down pat by now. I am not a goddess, nor am I the wickedly ugly witch of the north either. Some say I have the best of both worlds when it comes to sex, I don't agree, but who am I to argue. I am a loyal girlfriend, I have real tits (18 years of female hormones does have and effect on the body), and what I am seeking is a soulmate to enjoy life with, or at least the night with. I am quite intelligent( Okay, I'm a brain ), and very intuitive, so please all you morons, idiots, and the like out there, do not apply. I am Bisexual, and I am most certianly not Gay, and nor do I feel that any man I am with is gay either, I am a female, and I like men and women just like any other bi-female would. My interests include but, are not limited to: learning new things, computers, reading, being a cumslut, I have never been gangbanged, nor have I been made someones cockslave, I have never had a train ran on me and wonder what that would feel like(just wondering, doesn't mean I want these to happen guys!). I would like to experience SEX and PLEASURE to their fullest, so who knows what I may try, I do so love to learn. I love sex, though admittedly don't get it as often as I would like, but, really who does? I am easy going and have a great sense of humor, I love movies, I am a homebody, and I adore nature(I am Pagan)in all it's forms. I believe that we all have a place in this world, and I, just like you, am nothing more than another cog in the life's great machine. I am the real deal, what you see is what you get, no hidden agenda's. I want to wake up in the arms of my lover and enjoy life. I am not a player/bot, who is just out for their own satisfaction(okay maybe a little selfishishness there). I have no need for someone who cannot see the beautiful colors that make use human. I am not a black and white person, I am more like a spendid spectrum of colors, and I consider myself " One very beautiful rainbow ". So, if you would like to see what kind of rainbows we can make, and like what you've read so far, drop me a note, send me a telegram, or tie a message to an Owl. Now the disclaimer, sorry you knew it was coming.... I am an Ex-USMC, Someones Ex, have a degree in law, and have been around the world as well as around the block, so if someone has any intentions of hurting me physically, mentally or my heart, I am not defenseless! Just something to think about !!!!!
Now for part II of this profile. For anyone who actually may be interested in me here are a few things that might help make you some points with me. First, I am not a shemale,I am a woman who was born with a birth defect and many like me are not. I am not gay or even bi-curious ( me, I definitely fall into the “Bi” category”). You may have noticed several versions of T, (TS/TV/TG/CD) so some elaboration on the differences might help you understand me. My point being is to help you understand that I am very much a female and not a “Chick with a Dick” that you may have seen in pornographic movies, or on last weeks Jerry Springer episode.

CD - is a cross dresser. can be either male or female. I understand most CD’s are straight and simply enjoy wearing female/male clothes. Not all but somewhere around 80% straight is the number I’ve heard. Cd's generally just enjoy a little fetishistic apparal that helps them express more of their feelings base. They have no desire to permanantly alter themselves in anyway.

TV - Stands for transvestite. Many TVs are gay and dress up to attract other gay men for the purpose of sex. This group generally enjoys their bodies the way are and do not seek surgery to alter the genitals.

TG/TS - Means Transgendered/Transsexual (this is me). This one is a little more complex since many of us TG's feel we were born female/male with male/female body parts. This classification is in the DMS 4r .Quite a few TG’s live life full time as a woman or man and have the same sexual/life attitudes as a genetic female/male. Most desire to alter their body and many of us even go to the point of having a sex change.

Shemale: These girls are generally classified as the “Chicks with Dicks” or sometimes without dicks. Many are sexually very aggressive. I think the shemale is what most of the guys are really after, it is what is seen most often in pornography.

Then there are the: DragQueens/Performers/Wannabes/Clueless. I love these outrageous ladies/gentlemen because they are what is typically seen or pictured when someone mentions sexchange or tranny, or even being just gay. they are always misunderstood and most just don't even belong in the gender bending equation, but, I don’t personally know any in this catagory so I have no idea what goes on inside their heads.
As always there are varying degrees of being a T. Some fulltime, some only dress for sex, some only dress for their own excitement, and some of live double lives.
I myself live, breathe, etc ....as ME!

My Ideal Person: I am looking for Soul mate material, maybe sometimes a wham bam thank you maam. You must be smart, but not smartassed, sincere and romantic. You must understand what it means to walk a mile in anothers shoes. I want someone who can make me smile, who can help me break out of my shell and enjoy the affection that I can bestow upon them. I want to experience life and love, and most of all I want someone who yearns for my return each day, as I would for theirs.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Pink Floyd

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Oh may gosh there is so many, lets see, I would love to be gangbanged,
yes, a large cock in every hole, about 10 guys fucking me
relentlessly, only stopping to shot their load in my mouth,
or all over my face and tits. the kind of fucking that all
I want to do is lay over with my hands between my legs!

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, AB/DL

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Scott Bakula, he can fuck me anywhere he wants to on the Enterprise,
"please mr spock, beam his cock into me" lol,
oh what a stud.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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