Someone once described me as a renaissance woman. They were right. I am a confident and vivacious woman who knows what she wants, what she has to offer and who never hesitates to go for the gold ring. I love to meet new people and make new friends. Learning about and exploring something new, whether it be karate, but lately it's more like - rehabbing the knee (nice and frustrating) appeals to me.

I am sophisticated, intelligent and able to carry a conversation on almost any topic. I am always interested in learning about a new subject and am fascinated by people as everyone has something to share or teach others - something unique to them. My latest passion is putting my skills and talents to work in building my business.

I am comfortable in almost any setting moving from jeans and heels to designer gown and heels at a moment's notice. Did I mention heels? I am almost always wearing 3" or higher heels-it's part of my personality. Just as my clothes are always a reflection of my personality. As are my tattoos (brilliantly plumaged birds - FYI, it's an eclectus parrot, where the female is known for her independence and being in-charge) and my navel piercing. I am definitely unique, independent and don't pay homage to societies idea of normal. I prefer to be a catalyst for change rather than conform to outdated and narrow-minded thinking.

I am more than willing to and actually crave pushing the boundaries of my comfort zone. That means I will try almost anything once (only those things that are illegal or painful and/or humiliating being off-limits). Well I shouldn't say all illegal things because, face-it, hopping the fence for a night of skinny-dipping is exhilarating.

I am insatiable. It is the truth. I enjoy physical pleasure immensely. Physical pleasure to me is predicated upon chemistry. Passion and chemistry arrive from a combination of the physical, intellectual and emotional aspects of a person for me. If it is there, it's there, and I know it almost immediately. It's known when you are in a room full of people and yet, somehow, someone catches your eye and their intense gaze immediately sends shivers down your spine and soon your mind begins to wonder about the possibilities and how that person looks naked. I am female, human, enjoy sex, admit it and will act upon it given the right circumstances and partner.

I lead a busy life, but always make time for fun. I enjoy spontaneity from time to time-especially once I get to know you, although I am not able to be as spontaneous as I would like at times. I find that the best times tend to be the ones that are unplanned and you go where the day/night or even the day, night and day again takes you .

I do have a family that is very important to me, so although I do take time for fun on a regular basis, I expect people to understand that my family always comes first. Just as I do so for them.

My husband is on here, as well. His profile is beetlejuice_geeky. We have been together for 19 years, and, wow, amazing. I often get asked how an open relationship works and what makes it work. 3 simple words - trust, honesty and communication!

On Adult FriendFinder I am looking for a FIB (friend in bed), with whom to have passionate fun. I am not looking for one-night stands. I am looking for someone with whom I share common interests, but that can also introduce me to something new (and I do not mean sexually) such as teaching me a new karate move. A person that if we meet on the street, we smile at each other and say hi - and keep smiling for the rest of the day because we know that later we will be having all kinds of fun . I am also very discreet and expect the same consideration in return.

I have zero patience or tolerance for those that are in a committed relationship and choose to cheat on their significant other. If you read my blogs from the June 1-8, 2007 time frame, I think you will understand why I have this viewpoint. So if you are in that position, don't waste your time contacting me. All you will receive is the I don't do discreet relationships auto-reply. I don't really care what you chose to do in your personal relationships or why, just know that I am not willing to be a part of it because it usually ends badly, and I don't need that kind of drama in my life. Been there done that - enough said.

If you are looking for a vivacious, sensual, energetic and fun woman, I am her. Send me an e-mail and get to know me. I try to respond to all em-mails within a few days of receipt.

Thank you for viewing my profile and reading this book of an introduction. I hope that it gave you insight into my character. Have a wonderful day. I look forward to hearing from you.

*This in purple, because the color purple is me. Royal, yet approachable, sophisticated and fun. Intense yet playful.

First and foremost, I am looking for quality FIBs - friends in bed. A FIB is one for whom the friendship is important as is the sexual component. A FIB espouses mutual respect, responsibility and positiveness.

In brief, I tend to be attracted to men who are intelligent, optimistic, energetic and enjoy physical fitness.

As to the specific type of man I tend to gravitate towards:

I am looking for man that appreciates a modern woman. One that will seduce me -mind and body. I appreciate a man that takes care of himself, is fit and dresses to please. I need a man with stamina that can keep up with my sexual cravings. A man with confidence and an aura of power so that sparks fly.

I workout and am into living a healthy and balanced life. I also take care with my appearance, as I feel more confident when doing so. Not to mention that working out, eating right and pampering oneself is akin to nirvana for me. I am attracted to those who do the same.

I am very confident and in control of my own life and destiny. I do not need someone who wants to take care of me. I take care of myself. I am looking for someone with whom the time I spend with them is about having fun, relaxing and, yes, rocking their world. I am very visually oriented. I have pictures posted and will want to see one of you if we are going to meet. It is the lines around the eyes, smile, tones chest and biceps that do it for me.

Here is the perfect example of what I want. I met someone on Adult FriendFinder and had the perfect relationship. He lives a few miles from me. One of us would feel frisky and call, or IM the other person asking if they wanted to meet for some fun. It was yes or no. Whatever the response, the other party did not take issue with it-both of us being very mature. If yes, we would get together and spend a few awesome, earth-shattering hours together. If no; no harm, no questions asked as there was always another day/time. If no, no wheedling, persuading and groveling to try to get the other to change their mind. Remember No, means No. In this situation, it did not mean Never. LOL that's how I ended up hooking up at 3am on Christmas Eve after all the Mrs. Clause duties were complete (putting toys together that is -to clarify for all those fellow perverts out there ) Sometimes we would call each other during the day and flirt just to get the pump primed so to speak. That is exactly what I am hoping to find again. No drama. Just fun, pure and simple.

*An update: This man is now married so we don't see each other sexually anymore. We have, however, remained friends.

I am honest about my age, height, weight and marital status as I am in all things. I expect the same from you. If you are not honest, even about age, you will quash your chances with me before you ever get out of the gate.

I also appreciate when photographs truly portray the real you. I much prefer smiling current pictures, as that catches my eye every time. Oh yes, if you read my blog on Penis Pictures, I am not against them. But for the first introduction, I want to see more than a close-up of your privates. Note that a very classy naked picture is always welcome - big, huge, lascivious grin here. I am drawn to those that are attractive. But what is attractive to me is relative as it is to each person, so please don't be shy. It is hard to describe, but it is much more than looks that makes me find someone attractive. There is usually a look in the eye, a body stance or smile that draws me closer coupled with an out-going and fun personality. Additionally, I always prefer to know that someone was drawn to me based on the true me- that alone is sexy and builds chemistry.

I want someone who respects that I am in control of me at all times and does not try to be controlling or domineering. I am also not fond of those who, without my asking to, believe that if you pay for a date, sex is expected.Yes, I can't believe that out-dated expectation is still out there. I also have an insatiable sexual appetite. That is not a challenge, just a fact. If you wish to challenge me on that, I will most likely not reply as I don't have the time or energy to waste on what is and what will be. I would enjoy meeting someone though, who is thrilled to have a partner with boundless energy and uses that to their advantage .

Additionally when I say No I mean NO. I am assertive, which means that I am polite and friendly, but will be firm in my wants, needs, desires and messages, too. If you step over the boundaries, I will politely and courteously let you know; if you continue to step over the boundaries, I will not be so polite. If you then proceed to slander me because I say something, I will have little tolerance for that type of childish behavior. I will not let myself be subjugated to personal attacks and have zero tolerance for them. We are all adults on here and as such should realize that there is someone or a few someones for everyone and that if it isn't there, it isn't there; move on. It distresses me to even have had to say this, but again I would rather be upfront than have a misunderstanding later.

I like to chat a couple of times via email, then IM (oh yes on IM as in email, for me as to spelling & grammar, if it's close, the other person can understand it, then it counts. No need to worry about perfect punctuation and spelling for me. It is the message that is important. This helps me to get to know you better and get a better feel for your personality. Then a call or two is great and a meeting. Sometimes the process is faster than others. I am busy, but do make time for fun. Someone who understands that and has patience will win hands down. If you try to push or place pressure on me, even if I find your attractive, chances are nothing will happen because I don't respect those who don't respect me. If I meet you and the chemistry is there, believe me I will go for it. I will respect, however, if you need more time. I am patient as well and know that good things truly do come to those who wait. In other words, the best first meeting is one where there are absolutely no expectations, but we go wherever the stream leads and we both agree that it is flowing in the same direction .

Ok enough of the negativity and bad vibes. This site is about fun and having fun so let's get back to it.

I wish you success and fulfillment as you search for your heart's desire .

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
It's night. I am walking down a wooded path. Rain is
falling lightly to caress my neck and rolls down between
my breasts. I arch my back and run my fingers through my hairs.
Out of the corner of my eye I catch a glimpse of something.
I turn and there he is - the swarthy, muscular man who I noticed
on the quay earlier. My throat catches as he moves closer.
I feel like I should run, but his eyes have me captured in
their dark depths. He reaches out and wraps one arm around
my shoulder the other around my waist. He pulls me close.
I hear him whisper you are coming with me. He takes me back
to his boat. As soon as we board, he orders me to undress while
he watches. When I am nude, he tells me to move closer to him.
He forces me to my knees, takes his cock out and orders me
to suck, lick and caress it until he tells me I can stop. I
am unable to do anything else as I am held in place by his hands
until he cums in my mouth. I swallow. He tell me to get up and
go to the bed, lay down and spread my legs. I do so. He commands
me to play with my breasts and then to move lower and caress
my pussy while he watches. Finally, he gets on the bed, grabs
my hips, turns me over and impales me from behind. He grabs
my hair with one hand, pulls and forces me to arch my back.
He thrusts slowly, in and out, then begins to pick up speed,
thrusting, faster and harder until he is pounding into
me until I lose control and climax an instant before him.
He lets go, I fall to the bed satieated, yet somehow wanting
more. I hear a noise turn and see his shipmate standing in
the doorway. He gestures and his shipmate enters the room.......

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, Anywhere

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Light Bondage, Role Playing

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.