OCT '11 UPDATE:

I'M BACK!!!

Always Be Safe & Happy Hunting!!!
xoxo,
Bartendress1975

Hey there!! Well, thanks for visiting my profile!! Here's a bit about me...

I'm 36, single and feel like the world is at my fingertips and I'm finally mature and wise enough to turn my dreams into my reality!!

I'm an extremely attractive Gemini, with medium length, curly, brown hair, hazel eyes and other great ASSets. I'm a woman with curves!! I don't weigh 120, but I'm not 160 either... All my recent pics are ME (Nudes and all)!! There are so many people who let themselves go after a certain point in their lives... But I strive to remain healthy and feeling young and believe there is always room for positive improvement in one's life!!!! And I think I look pretty great for 34!!

I'm definitely a people person - outgoing, bubbly and fun. I have a great sense of adventure, but also have a serious side. I'm a cultured intellectual, a hopeless romantic/dreamer and somewhat of an artist. I show the utmost dedication and devotion to the people and things most important to me in my life....

LOL.... SOUNDS TOO GOOD TO BE TRUE, RIGHT??!!

I have 2 degrees from NYU, but have enjoyed a never dull and forever stimulating career in the Bar/Restaurant/Nightclub Industries over the past 16 years... You name it, I've probably done it!... I can tell you more if we're a "Match"!!

MOST IMPORTANTLY:

I've been asked what I would like to do in my "free" time... Well... Ummm... I'd like to DATE!! To find Love, To find Romance!! To spend quality time with that "special someone"!! Ha, ha!!... Yet, because of my chosen career, I've found this goal to be quite unattainable!!

See, at the age of 36, I've never been in a Long-term/Committed relationship... Never been in love, either!! (NO!! There's absolutely NOTHING wrong with me!!!)... Unfortunately, with my work schedule, I'm just not able to go out and frequent the places where singles meet. Honestly, I've grown tired of being the "3rd Wheel" amongst friends and family to various events... I'd like to finally be a "+ one" for a change!! Lol...

Truth be told... I've been "online dating" since I was 22!! I'm only on this site, because I happen to be bisexual and want to find a relationship that's right for me... So, you may have seen me on "other web sites" (but this one's our little secret)!! I actually have family and friends who have had MUCH success with online dating!! So, I continue to BELIEVE that one day, Destiny will find me my match!!

BTW, Please, please make sure to attach a few face pics to any initial emails. Physical attraction is KEY and if I don't know what you look like, there's no point in wasting both of our time... Thanks again!!

I'm strictly interested in dating right now. So, if you're looking for a "one-night stand" or to just hook up, then I'm not your gal...

In terms of my type, I've always had a thing for "pretty boys"... A gorgeous face with a body and brain to match... He must describe himself as "athletic" and work out a few times a week (I'm looking for someone to be active with, NOT get fat with)!! He must be open and honest and ready to invest the time and effort it takes to get to know another person, romantically...

Finally, he must be an extrovert, an exhibitionist, a sensitive romantic, an intellectual and love to have fun!! I know there MUST be some of you still out there and available!!!!

Once again, If you don't have one in your profile, PLEASE, PLEASE make sure to attach a face pic to your email and I look forward to hearing from you!!

P.S. I'M A SUCKER FOR DIMPLES!!

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Fall Out Boy, All American Rejects, Eve 6, Old Madonna,
Me First and the Gimme Gimmes, LIT, No Doub

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Threesomes, Voyeurism

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
I try not to fantasize about people and things that are too unattainable.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.