As a hopeless romantic, I understand that to love requires giving your all -- like a child loving their parents -- without merit, for survival, and because it is the only thing that child understands. I am not ready to give that to a guy I meet on Adult FriendFinder. I would like to think, I am mature enough to love as an adult; willing to struggle, fight, question, and let time be the bell-weather of how long our love should last. I give all or go home. That is the young lady I am. I do not have time to waste on guys who are unsure of themselves. While I might not have my heart to give easily, or potentially, at all, I have plenty more I can. Now, it has been brought to my attention that guys do not comprehend what this paragraph means. I do not know how to dumb it down, so if you do not comprehend, pass me by

I would fancy myself an intellectual freak. Guys, if our Cupid Settings do not match for RACE, pass me by. I see a lot of guys who explicitly state, [NO BLACK GIRLS,] and that is fine: The fact that you would be so crass, careless, arrogant, rude, or just downright offensive to broad-brush all black girls because of a [few] (always meaning ONCE, from childhood, ha) bad experience, shows your lack of intellectual heft, and you have ruled yourself out with [this] Black girl. I am a proud African-American girl, with the richness of the African-American experience, and I do not care for guys who have negative stereotypes of us. I know my worth, weight, and it outpaces Gold.

Guys, if you are pushy, rude, and annoying online, you have ruled yourself out for a meeting. I do not deal with guys who act like [tomorrow] is never going to come. Guys who ask to meet/fuck/hang out in the first 20 minutes to an hour will be ruled out. If you have issues with the idea that you have brought into the online myth about [free whores,] and I have not, pass me by.

I must commend Adult FriendFinder on the marketing ploy of this website. But fellas, it is just that: a marketing ploy. The idea that I am a [free] whore, or [any] whore, is a fallacy that will have you blue balling if you approach me in such a manner. I am 20, blazingly brilliant, and I do not [need] to be on here. If you feel as if I am some [free whore] and approach me as such, be prepared to have wasted your time.

I am looking for some fun, but that does not mean I am taking on all cummers. If you think this, pass me by. I am serious about a meet

As far as the type of man I am looking for, sadly, for you guys, I can not give a description of who/what he is. I do know he will be the equivalent of porn: I will know him when I see him.

In closing, Barbara Kingsolver wrote in her acclaimed book, Animal Dreams, [The very least you can do in your life is figure out what you hope for. And the most you can do is live inside that hope, running down its hallways, touching the walls on both sides. Not admire it from a distance, but live right in it, under its roof.] So, to guys who are indecisive, pass me by. And here's to hoping, the good times will roll.....

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Ask me later.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Ask me later.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Rimming, Spanking, Role Playing, Food Play, Handcuffs/Shackles

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Yes. Too many to list.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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