*****UPDATE******I am having some health issues right now and I have to take a break and take care of them before they kill me (Yes that is what my doctor said) so I am going to do that. I am hoping that it is only going to be a short time and that I will be able to play again very soon.******** I recently divorced,Oct 2008, after 18 years of marriage and am looking for someone to do the things that my husband never would and more - I am willing to try just about anything. I will try anything once and more if I like it. If it feels good than I will probably give a whorl! I want a NOSTRINGS relationship with someone who can and is an adult. For me this means that I will play until I feel that I can't. I really do not have time or the patience for a man in my life fulltime. It has taken me a lot of soulsearching to get to this point and it isn't fair for me to ask for anything more than friend with benefits when I can't give 100% of myself to it. Right now I really need to be selfish and do what is right for me and me alone. I expect honestly above everything else and I will do the same. I don't want to play head games and I am not interested in someone who wants to do that - there are plenty of other people out there. I can and will be discreet and expect the same in return. I still have children at home, so meeting at my place is NOT an option. This also means that I have responsibilities and that just because you are horny and available does not mean that I am - if you need it that badly please find someone else to play with or pay for it. I realize that this is a sex sight but I am not a whore (no offense-cause I am getting there) and I can't just drop everything on a dime. I have no problems with travelling but please be reasonable - driving 3 or 4 hours for me is not exactly going to get me in the mood- or with getting a room - as long it has a bed and its clean I am good! I can be very impulsive at times and I like to have a good time. I just need someone to do it with!!

My Ideal Person: I am looking for someone that is intelligent and does not have a problem carrying on a conversation about something more than sex sometimes. Someone that is funny and pretty laid back and go with the flow, I can be overbearing at times and need someone that can deal with that. Someone who is comfortable with themselves and isn't afraid to laugh and be silly in bed. I like to laugh alot. I would like someone taller, I have recently discovered that is pretty fantastic, but it isn't a big deal. It doesn't happen to me very often. CLEAN AND DISEASE FREE is an absolute must!! I am clean and disease free and I intend on staying that way.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Honestly one of my biggest fantasies is having 2 men at one
time.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), The middle of a park, A dark back alley, A movie theatre, The stands at a sporting event, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, My desk at work, A swimming pool or hot tub, A store dressing room, An elevator, A hotel room, Anywhere

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Massage

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
The Rock - what is there that isn't a turn on about him?

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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