Why I'm this site: I've tried the dating thing, and it hasn't worked out well. I'm very busy and work weird hours. When you take into account the fact that I also go to college part-time, it doesn't leave much time to work on a relationship. I've found most guys I've attempted to become involved with find the limited amount of time I am available during the school year a problem. Unfortunately, for them, I am not willing to drop out of school to focus on a relationship that may end up being as transient as New England sunshine. I have priorities and plans of what I'd like to accomplish, and I'm not willing to sacrifice them for any reason.

A little about me: I'm curvy, with reddish blonde hair, and blue eyes. I like to laugh, one of my co-workers has called me "jovial", hopefully he's not comparing me to Santa. I'm not clingy and tend to be extremely independent while also enjoying alone time (also doesn't work well in relationships). I enjoy reading, in fact, I haven't turned on my television in a few months. I also write in my spare time. I enjoy sex and I'm willing to try most things (probably have tried most of what's out there). I can be pretty sarcastic and have been known to known to knock someone down a peg or two when they've deserved it.

Rules: I prefer to have the rules all spelled out to prevent any unnecessary entanglements. When you write to me, please include a pic (I'm shallow) and what you're hoping to accomplish; one-night, a fling, or something more? I'm okay with any of that, but would like to know the details before I get involved. I don't need cuddling, I don't need you to talk to me for hours afterward, I don't need you to lie to me and make me feel good about myself. I'd prefer the first meeting to be sex-less. A public place to decide if we're compatible. No feelings to be hurt if either party decides they just aren't attracted.

My Ideal Person: Attractive, intelligent and good in bed. Not married or otherwise attached. Please be honest, and I'll do the same.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Spanking, Blindfolds, Massage

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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