I'm very open-minded, I love to laugh, I'm strong-minded, opinionated, passionate, self-confident, and I love getting older for a couple reasons. One, most of the insecurities of youth have left me. I've been able to reach a healthier level of self-acceptance. My self-confidence is based on who I am, NOT how I look.

Two, I know what I want sexually and I'm much more relaxed in the bedroom. I know how to please a partner and I know how to be pleased. Sure, I used to have a better body back then, but I finally feel sexy and confident. I didn't back then! Ironic, isn't it.

(I get A LOT of messages to sift through here and often don't have enough time to respond to all of them. Send another if I don't respond right away.)

My Ideal Person: Just wanting fun, open-minded friends. I'm looking for friends first, then maybe more later. I've met several great friends here so far. One in particular that I'd love to spend more time with, but that isn't possible right now.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
The stands at a sporting event

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Voyeurism, Blindfolds

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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