I am not looking for a "hook-up" date. A real man knows how to treat his woman well, doesn't have to ask what he should do and is politely assertive. I don't like to date more than one man at a time, it's just not me. So, if you want me, you have to keep me for a while, so don't turn into a jerk overnight please.

Military backgrounds are great.
Smart men who are well established and know what they want are the most sexy!
Sometimes a bad boy type is fun, but they always turn out to be bipolar or obsessive jerks that cause trouble and embarrassment.

I seem to be attracted to tall men with big hands, not tall and man-anorexic, but tall and naturally strong. Not lazy, but not an extremist on activity overkill. It turns me on when a man can fix stuff and do things like that, which I could never do. It's just so manly, I love it.

Muscles, strong arms, and a good sized package are nice - not too big though and I really doubt pics of it do much in the attraction area. I stay away from the super XL's, I'm petite and would like to do it more than once a month, so don't even go there please.

I don't do drugs or married men, so if you are into that - no thank you. If you lie about it, believe me I will know.... maybe not at first, but the red flags are never wrong. So please move on.

If you can't keep up - move out of the way, 'cause I'm active. No, I can't compete with PORN - hello, I'm 42!

My Ideal Person: I like clean cut men, who aren't shallow, winy, or grumpy fun suckers - that ruins a potentially hot night. I like a man who will not fall heads over heels in love in less than two weeks. Too much "love" is scary and drives me away, not enough makes me feel neglected. So good luck finding the middle ground.

Occasionally I will meet a female I like (fun with a man in the middle eventually), but I really get turned off of clingy - like a Velcro cat that won't leave me alone.

Oh, and just to be clear - Creepy Isn't Cute! I should put that on a T-shirt.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
My fantasy: Mr. Right-On!

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Light Bondage, Spanking, Threesomes, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Leather, Latex

Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.

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