Well, I've done the sex with a stranger thing, the casual sex thing, and the friend with benefits thing, and despite the different labels, they've all been the same thing: opportunities for shallow sex. Well and fine, but I'm wanting something regular, more, and deeper. Something with longer than a two-week expiration, something with trust, something that allows sex to build in its creativity, something deeper. And yes, I'm talking strings.

I'm not looking for marriage again; being legally obligated to provide sexually and financially again for someone doesn't turn me on. However, faithfullness doesn't require marriage and doesn't have to be forever. If we last a month, fine: had a good time, learned a lot, see ya. But I have to say if you know you won't last a month with strings, the sex can't be that good to begin with.

My Ideal Person: Someone who smells good, and is playful, sincere, sensual and private. Open, honest and unattached. I'm more interested in a real friend than a fake one-nighter, and I'm not interested in being the something on the side.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Can't wait, still fully clothed just inside the front
door.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A dark back alley, A remote wilderness spot, A swimming pool or hot tub, An elevator

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Light Bondage, Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Massage

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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