I know what I want, and I know what I will settle for if I can't get what I want. You should know the same of yourself. Be honest with yourself and with me. I would rather know the score from the start, than get my heart and spirit broken again. I really do want to be someone's priority... but I understand that if it hasn't happened yet, it's not likely to happen ever. Just tell me the truth. Tell me the reason why also... as kindly as possible. The only way I am going to get better, is if I know what I am doing wrong.

I am pretty clear about what I do and do not want. Please read my profile, and then think about why you want to contact me. If it's the chase or the numbers game... please don't contact me. I don't want to be anyone's game. If you just like a big ass, or blue eyes... and have no interest in or respect for what I have written here, please move on. Also, if you are over 45, under 26, black, or Hispanic, I'm sorry. You are not my type, so don't email me. It's not prejudice, it's preference and attraction. It's just the way it is, so don't waste your effort.

With that all said...

I am very sexual, and my tastes vary greatly. Sometimes I want tender, sweet, sensual sex. Other times I want mindless, primal, screaming sex. Whatever the style, sex is an important part of my life. I am looking for men with the energy and talent to curb my sexual needs.

I like to be free. In mind and body. I'm not judgmental, and prefer not to be judged. If you can manage that and we are attracted to each other, all is good.

I do ask for honesty. Quite a few of the men that I have chosen to meet have completely misrepresented themselves. I don't want to get phone calls from wives. If you are married, just say so on your profile. There are plenty of women on this site that don't care if you are married. I, however, do. Sorry, but I am not interested in married men. Also, please use your real age, height, race, and picture. Woman's tastes vary widely, so be yourself and someone is bound to like you. Just don't lie please.

Also, I actually want to meet in person once I feel there is a good connection. I have no interest in having new pen pals only...

My Ideal Person: I eventually want to be loved by someone who is as sexual and passionate as I am. Until that happens, I want to be passionate and sexual with men who make me happy. I love sex, and am not happy if I go too long without it.

Just a quick tip for anyone choosing to email me, and I truly don't mean this to be bitchy: Please know the difference between "your" and "you're". Almost no one has been getting this correct... it's driving me batty. I don't require perfect grammar, but I appreciate a man who puts effort into his writing. Thanks.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
I have many specific fantasies, but the overriding theme
is being with someone who is as sexually free and mischievous
as I am. To have someone care about nurturing my sexuality
and surrendering theirs to me.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), The middle of a park, An airplane, A dark back alley, A movie theatre, The stands at a sporting event, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, A swimming pool or hot tub, A store dressing room, An elevator, A hotel room, Anywhere

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Threesomes, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Leather, Latex, Fisting, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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